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1. I don’t know you or your situation so I don’t have a horse in this race. So take anything I, or anyone here says with a huge grain of salt. Having said that you are pretty young so I understand. I’m 45 years old and have been around the block a few times. Let me tell you a story if you will bear with me.

   Around your age I went through almost the exact same situation as you. Had a GF of three years, my first real long term relationship. She had a guy friend she met in one of her classes which she seemed to “get along” with a little too much. She suddenly became very interested in swimming classes which I didn’t think too much of. Later I found out her friend was on the swimming team and spent a lot of time practicing in the pools. I should have seen all the red flags but I WANTED to believe her when she told me he was just a friend and I was making a big deal out if nothing. She even told me how she always talked about me to him, yet it never occurred to me to wonder why she supposedly spoke so much about me and told him how “happy” she was with me then why didn’t she ever formally introduce me to him or include me on their interactions. See where I’m getting at?

   Any way to make a long story short things inevitably blew up and we broke up. Or to be more honest she left me while making it seem like I was to blame because I was insecure. A few months later I learned from a mutual friend that she hooked up with the guy and they had an on again, off again relationship, but it didn’t last. Yes, I was heart broken, went to the emotional hell and purgatory that encompasses, but eventually I got over it and went on to bigger and better things, a little wiser as a result.

   Why do I tell you this? Because in my case hindsight is 20/20, something you don’t yet have. I’ll be honest, things don’t look too good. The fact that you spoke to her about something that deeply troubles you and she blew it off is not good. You laid out the cards on the table and called her out and she just denied it, tried to deflect by telling you how many times she tells him how “happy” she is with you and threw in some gaslighting.

   She knows what she is doing is wrong, period. So what if she feels depressed, what does that have to do with some guy feeling comfortable enough to talk to her about his “big dick” with her? What does that have to do with her sending him pictures behind your back and lying about it? Nothing.

   You have to be strong and open your eyes to what is staring you in you ugly face. Maybe this relationship has already crossed the rubicon and there is no saving it. Don’t get angry, don’t yell at her and don’t even think about laying a finger on her. Have some self respect and don’t confront the guy, no matter how much you would like to, some things are just not worth fighting for. Maybe it’s time to cut your losses and go on with your life. Yeah, you will feel like an emotional train wreck for a while, but eventually you WILL pick yourself up and be a better man as a result.

   Wish you luck, and always remember this is reddit and I’m just some old guy giving a stranger he doesn’t know advice. Take caree.

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2. You need to talk to him, never assume your partner knows what you're thinking or how you feel.

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3. I don't think that is correct, defacto couples in Australia have similar rights. This might be different in other parts of the world.

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4. I really do love her. I'm not that smart either. I'm average. just sharing my feelings.

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5. The general consensus is that two people with highly different sex drives won't fit very well together. And yes for a lot of people the sex is a very important part of a relationship.

   But I don't know what to suggest what you should do. If your sex drive is low in general you should be open about it from the beginning – some people are ok with it, some are not. If it's not a general thing but something you experience only with specific people maybe find someone that gets you in the mood.

   Also, that might sound silly, but there are sexual therapists out there for a reason. Maybe you could consult one of them and see if there is anything healthy you can do to get your sex drive going.

   But in general: There is nothing wrong with you. You just need to find the right partner.

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6. he acknowledged that foreplay is truly supposed to be longer

   Okay.. so you and he have made progress.

   And his comment: “he would not enter me until I was fully ready because “he knows I take time to get wet and that okay”

   That sounds good, too.

   What exactly is the problem here? Your own overthinking? No shade there – I've got the same problem, and identifying it when it pops up helps.

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