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Date: October 18, 2022
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I went through this when I was younger except I was the one who wanted my SO to “cheat”. It was silly and I chalk it up to being young in a relationship is hard and I was particularly horrible at regulating my emotions. I guess I wanted him to have that experience so he didn't regret settling down with me, because I myself was struggling with the idea of commitment. Neither one of us was looking for a relationship when we first fell for each other. I thought maybe it would spice up our own intimate time as well. We were together 10 years before he passed away. I mentioned that he should “cheat” about 3 years in when we were in a rut sexually. I soon realized this was a totally unfair position to put him in and apologized fairly soon after, but it really must have hurt his feelings while it was hanging in the air. Luckily he knew I was sincere in apologizing and in all honesty I would have been upset thinking about him with someone else, so the damage wasn't lasting. We loved each other dearly.
I'd recommend following your intuition. Maybe he's just having some insecurities, or maybe he's trying to manipulate you with ill intent. Seems like it would be easier to pressure you into other things you aren't comfortable with (like maybe a 3 way) if you went along with this request. Either way you have every right to be hurt and confused and I think it's important he takes your feelings on the matter seriously. Some people mentioned this could be a kink and that's totally plausible, too, but you need to stay true to yourself. Most people will tell you doing something that goes against your moral fiber because you're afraid of your partner leaving you just creates bigger problems. Good luck hun.
Whether you’re being groomed or not… Is the best you can do really some old 30 year old guy? You don’t want to date someone your own age?
or simply ignore her bc that’s not who you identify as anymore! don’t acknowledge them until they acknowledge you and give you respect
Nah I honestly found the adoration annoying. I mostly just miss the mundane stuff… shooting the shit, inside jokes, etc. Normal friend stuff.
He sounds like a deadbeat. You are right, what's the point in him having the custody split this way if he doesnt spend any time with her.
Maybe it’s the area that you live but up north there are a lot of decent paying jobs. You need to sit down and map out a plan. Judges at least in the north will generally grant you equal parenting time. If she make vastly more money she may owe you spousal support. I guess figure out what you really want to do and go talk to a lawyer about what that will look like. Also try counseling as a last ditch effort. There is help for people without money you could research that as well for your medical needs
Right. Guilting an 18 yo yo sleeping with you isn’t manipulative at all…/s
No. This is not the way. Yes she can dress all sexy and have a night out away from the baby. But that’s not the issue. My husband has put on a tone of weight since we had kids and everything about him is desirable. I don’t have a over weight bald white male fetish. I love the guy and that makes him desirable. It’s the same in reverse. My husband watches porn on occasions and notices the sexy ladies out there. He also finds me sexy and desirable even though I’ve had a c section and out on weight and look like a classic middle age mum.
The problem isn’t OP!