We've being talking for 2months more or less and we've done a lot of video chats. I'm sure that she is who she is, besides I have her in multiple social media.
Yeah, the feelings part are the most worrying for me, but I am not sure about it. Maybe we'll see each other and it will be just for fun.
You are being unreasonable. She may not want people snooping into your page and whatever you post or what has been in your past. I think it’s really ridiculous that you are demanding this. She’s clearly not hiding the relationship and that is the only thing that would be concerning but it doesn’t apply.
Is she a virgin op? If she is waiting is understandable. If shes not a virgin waiting untill marriage is pretty manipulative. Waiting untill she's ready is all good no problem at all. But insisting on marriage before sex from a women thats already had A partner is straight up manipulation and nothing else.
You're definitely not the asshole for feeling frustrated. These are all seemingly legitimate reasons to cancel, but the polite thing to do would be to inform you in advance so you can make alternative plans. The fact that she keeps forgetting to do so until the last second is objectively frustrating.
This could be a sign that she's not that interested in the relationship, or it could be a sign that she's a bit disorganized and prone to being caught off guard by prior commitments. The first is obviously a dealbreaker, and the second depends on your tolerance level for that sort of thing and how willing you are to give her a chance to work on it.
This sounds abusive.
Abuse tends to escalate.
My opinion is “get out while you still can”
Thank you that was an insightful look at the situation, I think I will take your advice ?
We've being talking for 2months more or less and we've done a lot of video chats. I'm sure that she is who she is, besides I have her in multiple social media.
Yeah, the feelings part are the most worrying for me, but I am not sure about it. Maybe we'll see each other and it will be just for fun.
So why are you still with him?
You are being unreasonable. She may not want people snooping into your page and whatever you post or what has been in your past. I think it’s really ridiculous that you are demanding this. She’s clearly not hiding the relationship and that is the only thing that would be concerning but it doesn’t apply.
Anyone who cares enough to ask that dumb question, deserves the fallout that comes with it.
Break up. This isn’t likely to change if it’s always been this way. She needs to also want things to change.
Replace him with a person or hobby that doesn’t make you feel rejected or less important
What does that mean?
Is she a virgin op? If she is waiting is understandable. If shes not a virgin waiting untill marriage is pretty manipulative. Waiting untill she's ready is all good no problem at all. But insisting on marriage before sex from a women thats already had A partner is straight up manipulation and nothing else.
You're definitely not the asshole for feeling frustrated. These are all seemingly legitimate reasons to cancel, but the polite thing to do would be to inform you in advance so you can make alternative plans. The fact that she keeps forgetting to do so until the last second is objectively frustrating.
This could be a sign that she's not that interested in the relationship, or it could be a sign that she's a bit disorganized and prone to being caught off guard by prior commitments. The first is obviously a dealbreaker, and the second depends on your tolerance level for that sort of thing and how willing you are to give her a chance to work on it.