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Date: October 17, 2022
Hey! new girl here , ♥ // @Goal Oily twerk + hard Spanks // All media price 88Tks // Lush 25tk – 25 seg [31 tokens remaining]
You’re only 21. Don’t think about it too much. Let it happen naturally
Sounds like you both need some therapy.
He’s paying his own bills, he’s paying for rent, and he’s still paying for groceries. He’s definitely a “grown up” if he’s able to do those things still
The youngest possible age i would accept for a compromise like this would be 14 ( the age when kids start having a say in custody in my country ) .
I actually find that line of thought very realistic . People set long term goals for their lives and they work for them . For the vast majority of people , moving abroad ( in any case other than a job opportunity ) would not fit with these same long term goals .
As for the last part , its like marrying someone that doesn't want kids without accepting it but only hoping they will change their mind . Doesn't work in most cases , and even in the ones that does , it creates resentment . Never base the survival of your long term relationship on the possibility that your partner will change their mind on something they are diametrically opposed . It's not a recipe for success .
As for him being unnecessarily rigid , i don't see it that way . We don't know the circumstances of his life . We don't know his skills or his education . Let me ask this . Would you relocate in a different country if it meant that your education will not really be accepted as credible and your career would go to a spot worse than the day you started ? Right now , i have a pretty good career that supports me and my family . I could possibly get the same career in an English speaking country ( but i would end up with probably something close to entry level ) . If i had to move to a non english speaking language , i would only be suited to work a minimum wage , menial labor job , since i wouldn't even know the language . It would have been pretty much a disaster that would practically erase all the work i did , both to earn my degree and to get where i am in my field . All you have to do to understand how much of a hit a career would take is to go and ask immigrants from the former Soviet Union .
Overall , in situations like this , I'd rather break up amicably before i get too invested in the relationship . They are not compatible and it's better to end it now than to end it when more entanglements exist ( shared property , kids etc ) .
She gets angry if I’m not eating the same as her
“I'm sorry you're upset by my decision to eat healthier?”
I think it's time you insist. You shouldn't fight off resentment, it's long past time for him to tell them. If he refuses, you should consider moving on. You should strongly consider doing that anyway because of his shadiness.
Oh, wow. You need to get a bank account that is in your name only, first and deposit your checks there. Oh crap! You quit work? WTF? That's not even ok. You gave him all your power. You have nothing now so he is in control, completely in control.
Other than the controlling behavior has he exhibited any other weird behavior like buying crypto or gambling or day trading? You see where I'm going here. Does he have a debt problem?
Ask for a copy of his bank statements. Since he took your money you have the right to see it.
Last, get a lawyer and get a plan in place to get out. This dude is a walking red flag.
Just be careful the best friend didn't plan this out to snatch you up. It might be in your interest to avoid the best friend as well because that happened to another redditor
Lol what’s with these story with women at the age of 18,19 are dating men in their 40s
You should break up with him just in case.
Throw this one back in the pond.
Boyo, run away and cut ties asap. You don't want to be tied to someone who is stealthing on you (which is a disregard of consent and arguably sexual assault). Thus beyond a red flag, this person wants a kid for whatever reason and clearly will get one with or without your consent. It will ruin your kife and the kne of an unborn child. If you can have a Screenshots of her text it is better otherwise leave asap.
I would’ve dumped him for the steak thing alone. That is the biggest sign he doesn’t respect you and you’ve already forgiven him n let him back. Only a matter of time before he does it again.
I'm surprised he didn't break her father's arm 5 times, sounds like Treadstone standards are slipping…
It's a quote by Terry Pratchett
You play two card monte with him.
1 is for a therapist/couples counseling.
2 is for a lawyer.