The decision isn't easy. Those decisions never are and it will be hard if you leave the relationship but it will make you stronger. You know what kind of life you want and you should do what you feel is best. Taking charge of your life & your future is a huge accomplishment.
As a swiftie who managed to get tickets to this tour for the first time in my life, I would exchange tickets with someone else to see Taylor a different date in order to make it to my partner's graduation. It's an easy solution, I would bring this idea up to her.
Not a sign of a problem. You have a newborn and other plans that day. Often times things don’t happen. We all have different ways of showing our love. Valentines displays may be more important to you than for him.
You got the proof. I mean, who the hell does that at a bachelorette party like it's bullshit? Bullshit! You know her, and everybody knew you were together… They are who you thought they were! That’s why you took the damn field! Now, if you want to crown them, then crown their ass! But, they are who you thought they were, and you let them off the hook!
So you would have your daughter live with someone who doesn't want her there is being forced by you. Do you think that's nice? Nobody deserves to live with someone who doesn't want them there and makes them feel like an inconvenience!
I have PTSD and that's exactly how I would react. especially before treatment. of course hitting isn't okay but what he did was SA and I'd say that response was warrented
Thank you for this extra insight. I guess it’s hard to look at things objectively when you are blinded by love. I admit that if the parts were inverted, I would never want someone to suffer uselessly because of me. I would be fully honest with them and not take them back, give them the chance to heal and thrive again, no matter how painful. You know, in the past I would very easily provide such useful and direct comments as yours and I would wildly wonder why people wouldn’t just follow them, being them clearly the right option, the best thing to do. Most likely the only reasonable choice. But now I understand why reason would not prevail in such cases.
The decision isn't easy. Those decisions never are and it will be hard if you leave the relationship but it will make you stronger. You know what kind of life you want and you should do what you feel is best. Taking charge of your life & your future is a huge accomplishment.
As a swiftie who managed to get tickets to this tour for the first time in my life, I would exchange tickets with someone else to see Taylor a different date in order to make it to my partner's graduation. It's an easy solution, I would bring this idea up to her.
You need to be blunt and direct when someone is acting as ridiculous as your ex.
Not a sign of a problem. You have a newborn and other plans that day. Often times things don’t happen. We all have different ways of showing our love. Valentines displays may be more important to you than for him.
She's my first relationship as I am hers
You got the proof. I mean, who the hell does that at a bachelorette party like it's bullshit? Bullshit! You know her, and everybody knew you were together… They are who you thought they were! That’s why you took the damn field! Now, if you want to crown them, then crown their ass! But, they are who you thought they were, and you let them off the hook!
So you would have your daughter live with someone who doesn't want her there is being forced by you. Do you think that's nice? Nobody deserves to live with someone who doesn't want them there and makes them feel like an inconvenience!
You lack empathy.
I have PTSD and that's exactly how I would react. especially before treatment. of course hitting isn't okay but what he did was SA and I'd say that response was warrented
Thank you for this extra insight. I guess it’s hard to look at things objectively when you are blinded by love. I admit that if the parts were inverted, I would never want someone to suffer uselessly because of me. I would be fully honest with them and not take them back, give them the chance to heal and thrive again, no matter how painful. You know, in the past I would very easily provide such useful and direct comments as yours and I would wildly wonder why people wouldn’t just follow them, being them clearly the right option, the best thing to do. Most likely the only reasonable choice. But now I understand why reason would not prevail in such cases.