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Well he’s only 27 so i wouldn’t call that a point where your ready to settle down with kids and marriage that’s just his personal choice of what he wanted…and she is smart that’s why i said congrats in my earlier comment I’m proud she made a decision and it was obviously the right one…im just simply pointing out the comments that were triggered by the age difference that’s all
You've let her use you for your generosity for the chores and now she doesn't want to pick up her own portion again. This is something that you can't sweep under the rug, or let her pretend that certain things are no longer her responsibility. Stop preparing her bag for her, stop ironing her clothes, and doing things for her that she's more than capable of doing herself.
Tell her that your mental health has been declining recently and you need her help in sharing the mental (and physical) load of the house work again. If she refuses, I would recommend therapy for her so she can get to the bottom of why she's so “insecure” after almost two years together. If she's not secure with you after two years your relationship is basically over, in my opinion. She might be depressed, I can't tell any super warning signs for depression in your post aside from her feeling super tired all the time, but regardless she should get into therapy to help her with her mental health.
And if she refuses to do any of those things, consider why you're constantly setting yourself on fire to keep her warm. Why don't you matter too?
Doesn't matter WHY she lies this way, just accept that she does because you already caught her doing it. You can either spend your whole relationship trying to “fix” her while she strings you along or tell her you know she lied, that you can't trust anything she says, and move on. She WILL make up a sympathetic lie on the spot, I'll give you one guess how you need to handle it. I haven't seen you actually say it, but if she was lying to you about where she was and what she was doing, what did she tell ol boy she had her arm around.
This is a “cut off your foot or hand to save your life” moment. Luckily you're just snipping off a bit of soul that was entangled with a devil. It'll grow back but learn from that scar
Why do you want Lizzie single again? You know who’s shoulder she is going to cry on… your fiancée. I would make Lizzie my friend and keep a close eye on her. The more you make it an issue, the more it’s going to drive a wedge between you and your partner. Three is never a good number.
She's a simple woman who cannot form her own opinion, she's stuck in the 50s. She's asking us a good martini recipe to have ready for her husband when he gets home from work
She’s right. You have behaved very irresponsibly especially when you have a baby on the way. The proper way to do this is to find another job BEFORE you quit the old one. She’s right to be angry at you.
I don't want to jump to conclusions, and hope will all my heart that this is not true, but giving your son drugs in addition to the nude photos in your husband's phone makes me think of sexual abuse.
Please do everything you can to get your son away from your husband. Get a copy of the toxicology report, call the police, set up a nanny cam, try not to allow your son to be alone with him.
13 onths ago, an ex who has since moved away for work texted me like “what's up? I'll be in the country. Fancy a quick drink?”. We broke up amicably and i hold nothing against him, it wasn't meant to be that's all and i'm 99% sure he really just wanted to catch out.
However i just said “Happy New year, thanks i'm good. I Hope you too. Unfortunately i won't be able to come for a drink because i wouldn't want my BF to go and have a drink with his ex. But i hope you have a great time in the city. Take care.”
That would be highly disrespectful for your husband to go and meet him.
What can your ex say ? He cheated on you. There is nothing to explain. Did he drink too much? Was it a “mistake”? Who cares ? He cheated. That's all you need to know.
Your wife is way out of line here. She needs to pull her head in, because this has nothing to do with her, and her conduct is manipulative AF. Feel free to screenshot this message if you want to show her.
Your trauma is yours, and yours alone. She doesn’t get to gate-keep your trauma and dictate who you tell, and when, or how. That is your choice. There is a world of difference between telling a paid professional, or anonymously sharing your story with strangers on the internet, and telling someone you intimately know in your day to day life. It is a major red flag as to your wife’s emotional intelligence that she doesn’t understand that.
To claim that she feels like you are lying to her about that part of your life is manipulative. She is trying to guilt you into revealing a part of yourself that you are not prepared to do. She is trying to make you that bad guy here, and that is not OK.
She also doesn’t get to decide what is, or isn’t, a big deal for you. To her, it may not be a big deal to talk about, but it is for you & that should be enough for her. She is completely disregarding your trauma for her comfort.
This isn’t about keeping secrets for the sake of keeping secrets, so she needs to stop acting like it is. This is about respecting the weight of the trauma you carry, and understanding that it’s a long process to lighten the load. Who you choose to help you & when is hard. She needs to back off.
I live in a society where everybody I know has a body pillow(we call it bolster pillow) and I can't imagine growing up without it. I'm 29 and I still sleep with one, so does everyone I know including my girlfriend.
NTA. As someone who was literally sitting at 37kg a little while ago and only recently managed to get to 42kg it is NOT your responsibility to watch as she kills herself. And yes it is tragic that she is doing this, but the only person who can save someone dying of an ED is the person themself.
And I knew from my familys faces it is very obvious I was wasting away, but it had to be my decision to eat, and stay eating
What she is not understanding is that we don't inherently trust people. Trust has to be earned and maintained by not committing any acts that may lower it like lying and in this case meeting with ex. So what she is telling by her actions is she doesn't care about you
Dude your “girlfriend” is a pathological liar and cheater. You know deep down your getting cheated on or your really naive and need a reality check. Which is man up and end this toxic relationship work on yourself find a better partner that’s not going to lie cheat then manipulate you into believing she’s not and actually cares.
Until today, I think I thought he thought I was a good person… I was willing to try for the person he was for 10 years. I didn't want to just give e up on 16 years without feeling like I had really tried.
A few hours of reflection and a walk with my best friend, I think I will change focus to hoping I can help my child have a basic relationship and fx not feel totally abandoned.
He certainly used to respect women…I find it all so confusing as I don't know what happened. I am going to have to accept not knowing I think. I will be doing some work on myself and counselling … must resist buying more animals, at least their love is endless lol
Well he’s only 27 so i wouldn’t call that a point where your ready to settle down with kids and marriage that’s just his personal choice of what he wanted…and she is smart that’s why i said congrats in my earlier comment I’m proud she made a decision and it was obviously the right one…im just simply pointing out the comments that were triggered by the age difference that’s all
You've let her use you for your generosity for the chores and now she doesn't want to pick up her own portion again. This is something that you can't sweep under the rug, or let her pretend that certain things are no longer her responsibility. Stop preparing her bag for her, stop ironing her clothes, and doing things for her that she's more than capable of doing herself.
Tell her that your mental health has been declining recently and you need her help in sharing the mental (and physical) load of the house work again. If she refuses, I would recommend therapy for her so she can get to the bottom of why she's so “insecure” after almost two years together. If she's not secure with you after two years your relationship is basically over, in my opinion. She might be depressed, I can't tell any super warning signs for depression in your post aside from her feeling super tired all the time, but regardless she should get into therapy to help her with her mental health.
And if she refuses to do any of those things, consider why you're constantly setting yourself on fire to keep her warm. Why don't you matter too?
“Mom, you don't have to like him but you do have to be respectful towards him. If you try to make me choose, it will be him.”
Doesn't matter WHY she lies this way, just accept that she does because you already caught her doing it. You can either spend your whole relationship trying to “fix” her while she strings you along or tell her you know she lied, that you can't trust anything she says, and move on. She WILL make up a sympathetic lie on the spot, I'll give you one guess how you need to handle it. I haven't seen you actually say it, but if she was lying to you about where she was and what she was doing, what did she tell ol boy she had her arm around.
This is a “cut off your foot or hand to save your life” moment. Luckily you're just snipping off a bit of soul that was entangled with a devil. It'll grow back but learn from that scar
Why do you want Lizzie single again? You know who’s shoulder she is going to cry on… your fiancée. I would make Lizzie my friend and keep a close eye on her. The more you make it an issue, the more it’s going to drive a wedge between you and your partner. Three is never a good number.
She's a simple woman who cannot form her own opinion, she's stuck in the 50s. She's asking us a good martini recipe to have ready for her husband when he gets home from work
Bro listen She wanted him He said no She came back to you
Leave her
She’s right. You have behaved very irresponsibly especially when you have a baby on the way. The proper way to do this is to find another job BEFORE you quit the old one. She’s right to be angry at you.
Because I'm 'expected' to help her with the kids.
I don't want to jump to conclusions, and hope will all my heart that this is not true, but giving your son drugs in addition to the nude photos in your husband's phone makes me think of sexual abuse.
Please do everything you can to get your son away from your husband. Get a copy of the toxicology report, call the police, set up a nanny cam, try not to allow your son to be alone with him.
13 onths ago, an ex who has since moved away for work texted me like “what's up? I'll be in the country. Fancy a quick drink?”. We broke up amicably and i hold nothing against him, it wasn't meant to be that's all and i'm 99% sure he really just wanted to catch out.
However i just said “Happy New year, thanks i'm good. I Hope you too. Unfortunately i won't be able to come for a drink because i wouldn't want my BF to go and have a drink with his ex. But i hope you have a great time in the city. Take care.”
That would be highly disrespectful for your husband to go and meet him.
What can your ex say ? He cheated on you. There is nothing to explain. Did he drink too much? Was it a “mistake”? Who cares ? He cheated. That's all you need to know.
Your wife is way out of line here. She needs to pull her head in, because this has nothing to do with her, and her conduct is manipulative AF. Feel free to screenshot this message if you want to show her.
Your trauma is yours, and yours alone. She doesn’t get to gate-keep your trauma and dictate who you tell, and when, or how. That is your choice. There is a world of difference between telling a paid professional, or anonymously sharing your story with strangers on the internet, and telling someone you intimately know in your day to day life. It is a major red flag as to your wife’s emotional intelligence that she doesn’t understand that.
To claim that she feels like you are lying to her about that part of your life is manipulative. She is trying to guilt you into revealing a part of yourself that you are not prepared to do. She is trying to make you that bad guy here, and that is not OK.
She also doesn’t get to decide what is, or isn’t, a big deal for you. To her, it may not be a big deal to talk about, but it is for you & that should be enough for her. She is completely disregarding your trauma for her comfort.
This isn’t about keeping secrets for the sake of keeping secrets, so she needs to stop acting like it is. This is about respecting the weight of the trauma you carry, and understanding that it’s a long process to lighten the load. Who you choose to help you & when is hard. She needs to back off.
I live in a society where everybody I know has a body pillow(we call it bolster pillow) and I can't imagine growing up without it. I'm 29 and I still sleep with one, so does everyone I know including my girlfriend.
NTA. As someone who was literally sitting at 37kg a little while ago and only recently managed to get to 42kg it is NOT your responsibility to watch as she kills herself. And yes it is tragic that she is doing this, but the only person who can save someone dying of an ED is the person themself.
And I knew from my familys faces it is very obvious I was wasting away, but it had to be my decision to eat, and stay eating
What she is not understanding is that we don't inherently trust people. Trust has to be earned and maintained by not committing any acts that may lower it like lying and in this case meeting with ex. So what she is telling by her actions is she doesn't care about you
Dude your “girlfriend” is a pathological liar and cheater. You know deep down your getting cheated on or your really naive and need a reality check. Which is man up and end this toxic relationship work on yourself find a better partner that’s not going to lie cheat then manipulate you into believing she’s not and actually cares.
Until today, I think I thought he thought I was a good person… I was willing to try for the person he was for 10 years. I didn't want to just give e up on 16 years without feeling like I had really tried.
A few hours of reflection and a walk with my best friend, I think I will change focus to hoping I can help my child have a basic relationship and fx not feel totally abandoned.
He certainly used to respect women…I find it all so confusing as I don't know what happened. I am going to have to accept not knowing I think. I will be doing some work on myself and counselling … must resist buying more animals, at least their love is endless lol