You might want to get yourself in a position where you can support yourself. At the very least start saving up. Also, do you pay rent? Or are you living there for free? Some states don’t allow you to be evicted if you’ve stayed for a certain period of time, she would have to evict you. You need to clearly understand all the laws and options you have to ensure you don’t go homeless. You also she reevaluate being in this relationship.
There is this thing on your phone that allows you to block. This is what you need to do, block and move on. It’s only been 4 months, stop wasting time on this dbag
Looks like I’m late to the party and you’ve made your decision, but I wanted to mention a threesome since I haven’t seen it mentioned yet. That could be a way for her to quell her curiosity and it wouldn’t be cheating because you did it together.
Your boyfriend sounds like a bit of an idiot and very immature
If you’re having a depressive episode and he thinks it’s ok to make you feel worse by telling you your flaws? Honey you need a better boyfriend. This is not ok
Maybe he's a serial killer. Or maybe he's just suffering from some delayed teenage angst phase where he needs to make himself sound more dangerously important than he is. But when someone has a secret life, real or imagined, they're just not a good bet to invest any emotion into. You've probably dodged a bullet here.
This isn't about the games. This is how he sees you, your items and the level of respect he has for you in the relationship.
The games you bought with your money are his (?) Because it's for a console he owns so he can do whatever with them.
Does that sound fair to you? Does this sound like the actions of a partner that sees and treats you like an equal? Does this sound like someone who will be a good father (to kids or pets if you want to be child free).
If you let this slide or keep the peace then he will think this is ok. That treating you and your stuff this way is ok.
Is this truly ok to you? Or is this something you don't think is ok?
And if your partner is unwilling to change, are you happy to keep living this way? Or would it be better to be alone instead of constantly unhappy with someone else.
You might want to get yourself in a position where you can support yourself. At the very least start saving up. Also, do you pay rent? Or are you living there for free? Some states don’t allow you to be evicted if you’ve stayed for a certain period of time, she would have to evict you. You need to clearly understand all the laws and options you have to ensure you don’t go homeless. You also she reevaluate being in this relationship.
To keep the peace….
I would apologize like this: “I’m sorry I upset you”
(This is how you have along marriage.)
Then, don’t announce it, just keep plunging.
There is this thing on your phone that allows you to block. This is what you need to do, block and move on. It’s only been 4 months, stop wasting time on this dbag
Looks like I’m late to the party and you’ve made your decision, but I wanted to mention a threesome since I haven’t seen it mentioned yet. That could be a way for her to quell her curiosity and it wouldn’t be cheating because you did it together.
Your boyfriend sounds like a bit of an idiot and very immature
If you’re having a depressive episode and he thinks it’s ok to make you feel worse by telling you your flaws? Honey you need a better boyfriend. This is not ok
LMFAO you didn’t just compare asking about coke to paternity did you? Lololololol!
And you didn’t answer my question. You think his behavior was totally fine?
And come on, it’s beyond obvious he was in fact doing coke
Maybe he's a serial killer. Or maybe he's just suffering from some delayed teenage angst phase where he needs to make himself sound more dangerously important than he is. But when someone has a secret life, real or imagined, they're just not a good bet to invest any emotion into. You've probably dodged a bullet here.
You’re right she doesn’t and when she tells me about it i remove or resolve the issue but this rando is apparently important to her
There are things that SHOULD be a big argument.
This isn't about the games. This is how he sees you, your items and the level of respect he has for you in the relationship.
The games you bought with your money are his (?) Because it's for a console he owns so he can do whatever with them.
Does that sound fair to you? Does this sound like the actions of a partner that sees and treats you like an equal? Does this sound like someone who will be a good father (to kids or pets if you want to be child free).
If you let this slide or keep the peace then he will think this is ok. That treating you and your stuff this way is ok.
Is this truly ok to you? Or is this something you don't think is ok?
And if your partner is unwilling to change, are you happy to keep living this way? Or would it be better to be alone instead of constantly unhappy with someone else.