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Amirin (Am-er-in), 23 y.o.
Location: United States
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Date: October 13, 2022
he has a right to not be comfortable with his girl posting that. stop trying to make him feel like shit lol. not everyone has the same values
Heyy:) I go into first dates with low expectations because if your expectations are too high you will only be disappointed when a date doesn't go well or the way you want it to. So keep your mind open.
I have social anxiety and meeting new people is always hard for me so I usually come up with a few questions that I can ask the person but if a date goes well and you two just click then it doesn’t really matter what you talk about. You can literally talk about the most random things because this is the only way the person can get to know the real you. But maybe you shouldn’t talk about past relationships on the first date.
But good luck on your first date! Don’t worry too much about it.
Most people would not call asking your partner to stop watching porn “unreasonable”.
3 times a month? I feel like guys generally want it 3 times a week at least. But who knows. Maybe he has a really low sex drive. Unless you feel it's getting it from somewhere else. Not trying to make you paranoid or anything though. You'll of course know him better than the rest of us. It just surprised me to read how infrequently he wants it.
Sounds like he's annoying to live with though if he can't even bring himself to do chores like an adult for crying out loud. I'd recommend couples counseling of some kind. Best of luck with everything!
No. Cheating is one of the only things i would NEVER accept. Save yourself from the pain, and break up NOW, because if you don't, there is a 95% he will do it again. You deserve better.
This is a jailable offense. Fuck this girl and stop being her friend immediately.
Why would she think she'd be raising him alone? From the moment we found out she was pregnant I was present, I was excited, and I was completely there for her. Okay, she thought I cheated, but I never did anything to make her believe that I would up and leave her. Never. I get that she felt betrayed and angry, but she used him as a tool to get back at me.
Also, This is the 2nd comment I'm seeing that I hooked up with her days after breaking up with my girlfriend. It was months after. I was a single man who had sex.
If she wants to redo the name change and hyphenate our names to add hers, that's totally fine.
Honestly, I’m super monogamous. I know that about myself. But I’d be lying if I said that the thought of an open relationship hasn’t crossed my mind from time to time. Because it sounds exciting and new and (if done right) can be a fun way for a couple to grow and explore new things.
Personally, it wouldn’t ever make it past fantasy for me, but I can see why people who are all in in a relationship and have no interest in cheating can be intrigued by the idea.
I know it can feel really upsetting for that topic to come up, but I would encourage you to speak to your partner about it. About why she is interested, why you’re not, if there are missing bits in your relationship you two can work on together. This doesn’t have to be the end of your relationship, so long as you’re both willing and open to honest, vulnerable communication.
Just can’t shake the guilt
I’m not ignorant to that, again this was a normal sexual encounter for OP that got rough. I incorrectly assumed they had a normal relationship where people communicate wants and desires. So why is she on Reddit looking for “relationship advice” and not contacting police that she was raped?
You’re insecure about it and it’s okay. Some people can tolerate being in this situation and others can’t. I guess because we are men and think all men are the same. If you want to pursue this relationship I guess you would need to trust her. Literally innocent until proven guilty.
Think about this tho, in cases where people grow up together they actually develop a kind of sibling relationship so I don’t think it’s too weird. Interestingly if 2 siblings get separated and meet up later in life there’s no sibling relationship and they might fall for each other.
Ironic of her to claim you’re dismissing her sexual desires when that’s exactly what she’s doing to you.
If she wanted threesomes with a guy she should have thought of that before marrying someone who is a lesbian… like that’s common sense…
I don’t think this is something you should compromise on, I know you probably think that too… it’s like she doesn’t respect your sexual orientation, especially by bringing it up twice.
Hopefully all she needs is a wake up call that she’s the asshole here.
You had to mention Muslims. It's so exhausting to see that so many Americans (and others) instantly jump to 'Are you Muslim by some chance' as soon as the topic of forced marriages comes up? I know non Muslims (non Indians as well) who were forced into marriages.
Yuuuup. I’m the same age as this guy (though I’m a woman) and I look at 22 year olds and see them as kids. The idea of dating someone that much younger than me is icky.
You could just lie. Say u broke ur hymen doing sports or fingering yourself or something. Act like your first time with him was a revelation. Who cares.
You could go to a therapist together… I think some people are afraid of initiating therapy, so going with someone you trust feels safer.
Clearly, she’s under a lot of stress and pressure from school. Make it about that—and less about her having a “problem”. If you approach the subject with an interest of seeking help together to better find tools so you can both manage your stress and lives better as a team, she’ll be less likely to reject the idea.
Once shes comfortable going to therapy with you, she may feel more courage to seek therapy on her own for her childhood trauma.
The main thing is getting in the door and breaking some of the stigma and fear of going. And if you propose something from the angle of “teamwork” she’ll feel less judged, less self-hatred for her struggles.
A final thought: My sister is on the high functioning autism spectrum. Sometimes suggestions she views as fair or neutral-fact in her effort to help, tread over my sensitive feelings. Sometimes her cool-headed reactions leave me feeling like a hot-mess in comparison. But I know its not her fault, or her choice. Things can be lost in translation between people on the emotionality spectrum. Which is why me and my sister have worked so hard to make sure we understand each other. She tries to leave room for people to react to stressors naturally, to ask questions and listen, and offer solutions consensually. And I remind myself that if she’s blunt, it isn’t on purpose, and to not self-loath because I’m more outwardly emotional than she is. I also need to keep in mind that though she doesn’t show it, she internalizes stress and it doesn’t mean it isn’t affecting her (it manifests physically in her case). We both apologize when we accidentally offend the other. And she knows when I’m stressed and emotionally reactive, that intense phrasing can really hurt me. We’ve come a long way.
OP, I wish you the best of luck! I hope she makes it in to therapy. We all need it sometimes.
At this state he was in definitely he can't have a family he claims he wants.
As I said I did recommend to him counselling but he didn't agree. I can't explain it I felt a chemistry between us
Have you, idk, asked her what she wants/needs and then tried to do those things?
Are you actually in therapy yet?
Right now, you're an unsafe sexual partner. Maybe reflect on that for a while and do some deep soul-searching and therapy for why you treat people you think you care about this way instead of asking the internet to give you some script to lure her into thinking she's safe.
Could be she was keeping him on the hook for next time.
Yeah, it's called “love-bombing”.
lol ? just jerk him off then tell him to cut the shit
How do I approach this? How can I undo my feelings for her or take a step back? I don't know the exact reasons for her decision either.
At 26, I was teaching kids your age….most likely, her friends have asked her why she hangs out with a teenager in her free time…two different life stages, different timelines, a life experience and maturity gap.
So yeah, just move on.
Tell him to stfu. Maybe tell him to go away?
You are selling a product, not yourself. People want to connect with a creator. Also, if you get someone else, you will have to pay them.
Get a ring. Propose. Let her get excited. Break up with her and tell everyone you found out she cheated and lied. Start bringing new girl around friend group, and make sure to make passive aggressive comments about how good it feels to have good sex, good communication and someone in your life who isn’t a lying cheat. Enjoy your life.