Maybe let someone know that you're confronting your bf, doesn't matter if you tell them why.This is really abnormal and he could get defensive/aggressive. Just incase and someone knows where you are and to check in. It absolutely needs to be addressed though.
several of these comments are (rightfully) calling it rape outright, not “tip toeing”. why are you getting mad at hypothetical imagined people not taking this seriously
Not being able to have biological children couldn't drastically impact someone's life? I'm just trying to find where the line is drawn. I don't care if someone wants to go through a transition but for the love of God tell someone before you become intimate. Wait to be intimate if you're not ready to tell them
I’ve only got my band. She kept hers. Mine is pure tantalum
“Last one got deleted so I'm just going to keep posting it and not consider that MAYBE I should stop posting.”
Maybe let someone know that you're confronting your bf, doesn't matter if you tell them why.This is really abnormal and he could get defensive/aggressive. Just incase and someone knows where you are and to check in. It absolutely needs to be addressed though.
several of these comments are (rightfully) calling it rape outright, not “tip toeing”. why are you getting mad at hypothetical imagined people not taking this seriously
Not being able to have biological children couldn't drastically impact someone's life? I'm just trying to find where the line is drawn. I don't care if someone wants to go through a transition but for the love of God tell someone before you become intimate. Wait to be intimate if you're not ready to tell them
He's so “go to you and your kids” that he's keeping your kids a secret from his family. Come on.
It only gets worse after marriage
Drop him. Move on. You are not getting younger. Freeze those eggs just in case.
sounds like you groomed this girl, got her pregnant, and somehow think it's a good idea to marry her