Gift giving might not be his love language. I'm similar. I don't enjoy giving gifts and have had to learn to accept gifts. Give it some more time and for now let it be.
You are supposed to spend your 20s picking a partner that you can build a life with, as in spend the next sixty years together making a family and a future. You start with easy stuff – no abuse, addiction or adultery. Then you pick “similar values in regards to work ethic, family, religion, money habits, etc.” You look for intellectual attraction m emotional intimacy, and if you get really lucky, good chemistry. You place a big value on LOVE but also LOYALTY. You pick someone you would trust to make life and death decisions for not just you, but also your family. Then, when you find this person, you treat them like Gold. If you fail these tasks, you end up increasing your chances of an early death, alone and unloved. Sixty year commitments will have a ton of challenges; if you chose wisely, you will work through them. Friends was a fictional television show. Families is what really matters, so choose your partner with care. Good luck.
Damn is it really that bad? I mean it’s hurtful and I wouldn’t do any of this but he’s otherwise a very kind, generous, supportive and loving bf. saying “ghost him” seems pretty extreme to me lol
Why? He’s caring and trusting otherwise
Gift giving might not be his love language. I'm similar. I don't enjoy giving gifts and have had to learn to accept gifts. Give it some more time and for now let it be.
You are supposed to spend your 20s picking a partner that you can build a life with, as in spend the next sixty years together making a family and a future. You start with easy stuff – no abuse, addiction or adultery. Then you pick “similar values in regards to work ethic, family, religion, money habits, etc.” You look for intellectual attraction m emotional intimacy, and if you get really lucky, good chemistry. You place a big value on LOVE but also LOYALTY. You pick someone you would trust to make life and death decisions for not just you, but also your family. Then, when you find this person, you treat them like Gold. If you fail these tasks, you end up increasing your chances of an early death, alone and unloved. Sixty year commitments will have a ton of challenges; if you chose wisely, you will work through them. Friends was a fictional television show. Families is what really matters, so choose your partner with care. Good luck.
Yep. Sounds like what I went through.
I could straight say his best friend in the world is a walking shit-show drunk and nothing.
Imply that this woman may be slightly less than perfect? Ooooh, how dare I.
Damn is it really that bad? I mean it’s hurtful and I wouldn’t do any of this but he’s otherwise a very kind, generous, supportive and loving bf. saying “ghost him” seems pretty extreme to me lol