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Date: November 27, 2022
No. It is not reality. It’s reality for shitty men, not men in general.
Will he genuinely apologize to bride and groom?
That's kind of what I'm hoping for. If I told him to apologize to them right now he probably would, but I'm hoping he does without me having to tell him. I told him that my friend was seriously upset by what he did so he knows. He has both of their phone numbers but far as I know he hasn't even sent them a text yet or anything
All noted. Thank you so much 🙂
That means the world to me! I hope for the best for you two
oh,,,, i hope ure doing better now op ): how come he stopped talking to you ?
She’s Meredith from parent trap, trying to secure her bag
She is like those very old people pinching kids' cheeks and it hurts! I would hate it as a kid and avoided the usual old people that did it.
I think it's weird to say she enjoys this babies chubbiness and likes pinching her. It's a human, not a piece of ham. It's so selfish to care more about her enjoyment than the poor child in distress. How can she not see it?
You should have a conversation with her. I also hope you are not thinking of having kids with her. Your future children will have eating disorders because mummy likes chubby kids but also likes pinching chubbiness.
Be glad she gave it back. Be glad she left. She just wanted a sugar daddy to buy her things.
LMAO
Never cheated on him. Not once in my 11 years of being with him. We explicitly spoke about being open to other people. Had many conversations alone with the two of us and with our marriage counselor.
You shouldn't have to tip toe around things you say, but very few people will want to know the details of their partner's sexual past.
You can still be best friends with someone and not discuss that stuff in such fine detail.
That is NOT excusing your current partner's behavior. He's an ass. No one gets to treat you that way. If he doesn't want to hear about it, he can ask you nicely to stop.
Him saying that was a final straw for me
Basically I'm asking if I overreacted, or if I should trust my gut?
It sounds to me like there were other things before this which led you to already have one foot out the door.
You were just waiting for a reason move the other one out the door as well, and his not calling you back provided it.
Whether it was justified… I can't really tell, and you'll have to decide, but that's my “read” on what happened.
i just want to say that you don’t have to date anyone if you don’t want to. some people are okay with having one partner in their life and not remarry. there are many communities you can join and many places you can be a part of if you feel lonely. i’d say i wouldn’t push anything you don’t like. sometimes the best person will come unexpectedly.
Oh man, see, I went through a god awful phase of this- but passive aggressive behaviors aren’t me but it was so hard to own that the vaguebooking and sharing of that sort of thing- welp, they had become me. In my case, definite communication breakdown: I’d try to have a calm, well regulated and constructive discussion and he’d push and push, he’d deflect, he’d blame me for whatever it was and before I realized what I was doing I was locked into this gross behavior but, I’d say I was just venting or that I was just posting because I needed someone who could relate.
Right up until one day, his JustNo mom laugh reacted. I tried brushing it off: his mother and my mother, peas in a passive aggressive pod especially with those text on image things. I remember actually hollering “I am not that Freudian!” At a friend and cracking jokes.
Until I was making his mom soup at her place one day and she said that she’d overheard us arguing and, the only thing that she felt indicated she was “really getting through to him” was when he’d push that same exact way and, why, then, she’d have to explode in a temper or nothing ever got done. I wanted to sink into the freaking floor and wound up first, really examining my cruddy behavior and then, finding a way to get him to see his.
No real happy ending here: he absolutely refused couples therapy on the grounds that they “always take your side” because I was a psychology student at the time- and then, he died. (Not me: some horrible aortic aneurism rupture.)
Would’ve made it easier to write it off and blame him if I didn’t catch myself doing it again with the partner after him- and that one’s a happier ending. But, yeah, not only are these things big glaring signs that your communication has got a problem: I have seen them get really abusive. (I never went over that line, but, reading those things- you definitely see people who do.) It’s definitely worth putting the kibosh on that.
What is your definition of a gift?
I don’t get it. He is financially capable of supporting the both of us.
I just don’t think my contribution is worth being made and that I could be using the money to save?
Maybe he just has the self-respect not to date a woman who expects him to pay for everything. I sure as hell would tell any man I know whose SO thinks he should pay for everything while she saves all her money for herself that he should RUUUUUNNN.
When you say half your income, what does that come out to? How much does he spend? The way you phrased this makes it clear you want people to think you go 50/50, but when you say he pays for flights and hotels…come on. What is half your salary? A thousand a month? Fifteen-hundred.? How much does he pay, do you think, for what is probably a very nice place to live, high end food, tons of entertainment, gifts, etc.?
Well, we had a very intense fight regarding Riley. We fixed it up and posted an update for the plan. Perhaps I am being a bit generous in my language. He is warming up to her.
He suggested getting rid of it after 4 months of severe allergies (including difficulty in breathing, problems with sleep, constant coughing, hives surrounding his neck and back, etc.)
We are trying to make this work.
He’s 45, if he hasn’t learned already how to be a better lover he never will!
The winner comment gave me ick
Dump him girl!!
I’m sorry, I just can’t give you an answer right now.
Because the answer is I’m a closeted gay man afraid of my sexuality and I enjoy having company.
Isn’t 6 years enough for you to realize your mistake? Serve him with papers and go your separate, merry ways.
I will stop controlling her.
From how you described your sister's state, she was blackout drunk. It seems to me your husband raped your sister, OP.
I know it hurts, but from the looks of it, your sister was a victim of your husband's rape. You gotta talk to her. Who knows what’s going on in her mind? She was raped and could potentially lose her sister because of it. She must be going through some dark stuff in her mind.
The only person that can fix this is her not you. You should walk away and let her sink or swim. She may need to learn the hard way that alcohol is not her friend.
Dude lol, you’re sending thirst traps (this is what gym bod photos are, I don’t care who you’re trying to fool) with another woman and are shocked your wife has a problem with it?
Hold up a piece of paper with her name and today's date…. Never ever send your ID to anyone.
I had a relationship with someone like this. She only wanted to meet at certain times and days. Always played it like the Queen Mary and holy. I left her because I wanted more. Found out later she was banging 17 plus guys a month. After she played the Virgin for a year.
You should definitely try again. One day my sister went to an addiction recovery group and everyone was a different race than her, and much older, generally men. She was initially very put off by it but everyone was very welcoming. She was apprehensive about trying the group again but the 2nd time she went there were other women there, and some younger folks too. Now she goes to the meetings regularly and says it helps her a lot. I imagine it could be the same for you.
same LOL
How do you verify which posts are legitimate, you can't unless you directly know the person because anyone of any mentality can join these groups.
It sounds like the only reason he apologized is he got caught. That's not a friend.
This guy is so respectful and honest that he feels compelled to share his feelings with her. And she deserves better? 99% of guys out there would keep their mouth shut out of fear.
But your advice is to leave his girlfriend, rather than have open, and honest communication about his feelings with her.
OP – everyone is entitled to an opinion, but I would think long and hard before following this advice
How young? IF he was 14, I'd forgive him and move on. 14 year olds are stupid and I'm sure he was trying to be “edgy” and “rebellious”. People change FAST from 14 to 19, and hopefully he regrets it.
Thank you, yes i idealize the idea of her. I think the rejection did a lot in making me desire her alot more, because i couldn't have her. So weird. I'll try focus on other things, my mind keeps replaying every scenario so it's hard to focus at times.
Id rather him be with the friend yhan the ex, but hes not planning on being with either. We get it
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When I was dealing with something similar, my husband simply told me that body hair is normal and our society has forced women to think it's not, he doesn't gaf about body hair because it's supposed to be there.
Dump him and go to the doctor. That is bare minimum SA, honestly r*pe. The whole it's not tight enough is a BS myth and quite frankly he can use his hand.
I would normally say tell her, but he's a cop and you have to put your own safely first. Don't do anything that could put you at risk.
i've had severe allergys more than half my life and his shaking and subsequent assholness has nothing to do with it. Also, after so many years of having a runny nose/asthma attacks it wouldn't and shouldn't be an issue with friends/family around.
Your bf got caught doing something (idk if cocaine but st) and he wanted to have control over the situation. Don't feel guilty for trusting your gut.
Sounds like this “challenging” job is actually just taking advantage of people and working them silly.
Do you have 4 hrs overtime every day, that you’re compensated for at a 1.5x rate? A standard job is 40 hrs per week, anything over that should be paid as overtime, and anything over that is considered VOLUNTARY, not MANDATORY.
And no, you won’t have more time for her as a manager, you’ll be worked to the extreme just like they do for everyone else, and you’ll more than likely be even busier and work even more hours doing that job and managing a team.
I would take a good hard look at the company, because this doesn’t sound normal to me, it sounds predatory to expect everyone in a lower position to work 60 hrs a week, only to get a promotion and continue to work 60 hrs per week.
What's best for your son is to see his mother treated respectfully.
I think you tell her something like “babe, I love you and want you to be happy. When you leave messes and garbage all over, I feel frustrated because I want to keep our home clean and tidy. I feel like I’m taking on most of the responsibility. And when you don’t shower for days, I feel worried because that’s not healthy. I’m concerned that you’re depressed and need to see a doctor and therapist. Moving forward, I need to see you making an effort with self care and home care else I need to reevaluate this relationship as it’s taking a toll on my mental health.”
Then pick a date 3-6 months down the line to reevaluate and if things are better, end things.
It’s pretty likely that she needs professional help. She’s not just going to pull out of this on her own even if she really wants to. I think you know that.
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I've been together with my bf for the past 5 years and he is a sweetheart. We moved in together after 2 years and things have been great I love him a lot and I know he loves me too. I work in a law firm and my bf is a physicist and works in one of the best institutions in the country for his field. So he recently got tenure and I'm doing good in my field too. We live in an apartment we bought together.
Recently I've been thinking about marriage and didn't just know when the right time was so day before yesterday I just popped the question, he was just so happy and obviously agreed. Mind you this was done in our home in a private setting. When the initial excitement started to wear off I could see he was visibly distressed and right before the bed he asked me ” will you want to have kids with me when we get married?” I said yes. To which he replied “Then i can marry you only if you agree to give me absolute control over our child's academics. We can share all the rest of the stuff and I even agree in advance if you would like reserve something solely you two but i can't compromise on this. ” I was absolutely gutted as I didn't know what to say. It was so out of character for him. I said that I think that both of us should be involved in every aspect of our child's life he just said no. I tried asking if something happened but he just left for the couch. I took the day off as I'm not in the right state of mind rn. This morning he entered the room, I was awake but pretended to be asleep. He just kissed my forehead and when he left I could hear him sobbing. I know something has happened and most probably it isn't even related to us. I tried contacting him but he hasn't returned any of my messages. I asked him if he would like to have lunch about an hour ago and he just replied no again. I don't know how to proceed or what to make of my relationship anymore.
How should I proceed?
TLDR: I proposed to my bf of 5 years and he laid a condition that he wants absolute control over our future child's education when we conceive in the future and is trying to dodge my attempts to talk ever since.
EDIT: A lot of comments are asking me for more info but I'm just are oblivious as you all are. He is coming home in about half an hour. I'll talk to him and update again
UPDATE: So firstly I wanna thank all those who replied. I haven't been able to reply to a lot of messages. But the replies did give me a direction to think towards. I just wanna clear up a few things, 1 we don't have different political views, rather he just choses to ignore the political aspects of things and as a result I have too in front of him. 2 it was not the first time we have talked of kids. Till now our plan has been to use BC and we had been using condoms until about an year ago becuase we have been dating since the time we were still trying to build our carrers and would have gone for an abortion in case of a pregnancy. So that is what led to him asking about the child scene.
Now to what happened. When he came home I just let him do his stuff. At about 11 when he was free I approached him. He was hesitant to talk and didn't speak anything for a solid 30 min and just kept hugging me. After that I asked him if he was okay and if we could talk about what happened. He just nodded so I asked him if he wanted to not get married. He said no and just squeezed me real tight. I then asked if he felt I was not smart enough to educate our child or something. Again a no. Then I asked him why he meant by absolute control and why he had such a strong reaction. So he told me that he meant that the child has to go to a scientific field and that eventhough he/she will attend the a public school he would like to teach science and maths at a different pace as that of school. I then asked him the obvious “what if they don't want to go into science” he then was speechless, now this made me think that it was just an impulsive(some trauma or something that happened recently) response back then so then I asked what made him act that way but he just said he was in a bad mood and begged me to end this topic.
I know this isn't the best update but from what I can tell as of now he told me the truth but not all of it. I'm gonna dig more and probably call his parents and his close friend.
Now I don't think it just means him escaping the relation or showing his true colors as I feel he had a total of 5 years to do that so why now?
I also asked if he expected me to not propose or something but that also was a dead end. I told him that marriage is off the table as long as we don't clear this up. And I'm told him that he has to come for therapy and I'll accompany him.
We slept in the same bed last night. So that's something ig.
I know about him being bullied in hs but as much as I have known it wouldn't have produced such a strong reaction. So yeah I will try to give a final update later on but I don't know how long it will take or how bad it might get.
'Cancel' your wedding but really delay it until you are financially secure. Then get married.
Oh come on we all know that’s suspect as fuck. He’s definitely been shagging her and it’s been broken off because she didn’t want the mess of their kids being friends and finding out about it all. He’s probably tried to carry it on. If my SO did this, it’d be over