I'm not going to guess at his intentions, and honestly I think you're focusing on the wrong thing by doing so too. It doesn't really matter why it is this way. All that matters is that you are very clearly not OK with it and it is not working for you at all.
Follow your instinct. You have wasted enough time on whatever this is, because you're right, it's not a relationship.
I’ve strongly encouraged therapy for the disordered eating but that’s not on the table at the time.
Then you find a way to get it on the table, OP.
There is nothing you personally can say, or do, that is going to “fix” your GF.
EDs are a hardcore problem. It requires professional help to fix. Doctors. Psychologists. Psychiatrists. Nutritionists who specialise in recovery from EDs.
Even then, with the help & support from professionals, it isn't always enough.
You cannot prove that this is not a reflection on her. You cannot make her understand that what happened has nothing to do with her.
She needs professional help. Look up services in your local area. If her family are unaware of what is happening, they need to know, because they will need to be involved in the process too.
Nothing against you, but this is not something that you can do, certainly not on your own. Your only option here is to get her help.
Legal grounds will probably vary by state. Some states tend not to view violation of consent that contingent on use of a condom as criminal. Other states do.
There is too little information. She doesn't say she remembers getting in bed. She said she doesn't even remember if she put her pajamas on. He could have passed out in her bed beforehand. There is too much we just don't know. It is 't really fair to jump to those kinds of conclusions on either of their parts.
Classic overthinking. Try taking turns being sexually generous and sexually selfish. First, make sure she gets off, so that you don't have to feel guilty about focusing on using her body to get yourself off. Banish all thoughts from your brain except for her body and your orgasm.
I read this post and I don't understand how you could describe this relationship as 'flawless'. Do you think you might be glossing over the emotional problems that existed for weeks-to-months leading up to the breakup?
No concrete decisions. Not sure if the wedding is off, but she told me she'll call me back and we'll talk more once she gets back.
I'm not going to guess at his intentions, and honestly I think you're focusing on the wrong thing by doing so too. It doesn't really matter why it is this way. All that matters is that you are very clearly not OK with it and it is not working for you at all.
Follow your instinct. You have wasted enough time on whatever this is, because you're right, it's not a relationship.
I’ve strongly encouraged therapy for the disordered eating but that’s not on the table at the time.
Then you find a way to get it on the table, OP.
There is nothing you personally can say, or do, that is going to “fix” your GF.
EDs are a hardcore problem. It requires professional help to fix. Doctors. Psychologists. Psychiatrists. Nutritionists who specialise in recovery from EDs.
Even then, with the help & support from professionals, it isn't always enough.
You cannot prove that this is not a reflection on her. You cannot make her understand that what happened has nothing to do with her.
She needs professional help. Look up services in your local area. If her family are unaware of what is happening, they need to know, because they will need to be involved in the process too.
Nothing against you, but this is not something that you can do, certainly not on your own. Your only option here is to get her help.
Originally she only need two night to let things cool off but the she just stayed longer until it became weeks and decided to stay
Legal grounds will probably vary by state. Some states tend not to view violation of consent that contingent on use of a condom as criminal. Other states do.
Sounds more like she doesn't want to spend time with you which is weird or wants ? to be free to do something else
There is too little information. She doesn't say she remembers getting in bed. She said she doesn't even remember if she put her pajamas on. He could have passed out in her bed beforehand. There is too much we just don't know. It is 't really fair to jump to those kinds of conclusions on either of their parts.
Bro, you can tell a 12 year old is not of age when you are 19 come the fuck on
Yes she has been cheating on you.
If she truly was innocent she wouldn’t have said that his wife wouldn’t see anything, as she would want his wife to see that he was cheating.
Classic overthinking. Try taking turns being sexually generous and sexually selfish. First, make sure she gets off, so that you don't have to feel guilty about focusing on using her body to get yourself off. Banish all thoughts from your brain except for her body and your orgasm.
Just leave. If this is how it starts it doesn’t get better
I read this post and I don't understand how you could describe this relationship as 'flawless'. Do you think you might be glossing over the emotional problems that existed for weeks-to-months leading up to the breakup?
Thank you for the advice.
Your daughter is right, you're with a married woman, she must be lying to you about a lot of things
did you check?