She called me selfish and that I didn’t love her enough to end things with him. She said she sacrificed her entire life to come to the states and I needed to sacrifice this one “little” thing to please her. She then proceeded to moan and cry, saying I was killing her and she wanted to just die.
Manipulation of the highest order which sadly a lot of parents do. At this point I'd just tell your parents, I love you and I am very grateful for the sacrifices you've made so I get the opportunities I did, but this is my life, and if you disagree with my choice of partner, you will not be part of it.
Aldo just want to say, ' sacrificing her life for you ' isn't something you should be expected to repay. It's called being a parent. Parents bring children into this world and they do their hardest to ensure their life is better than theirs was, if they came from hardship. My mother struggled for years and years bringing us up. Do you know how many times she said ' I've struggled for you so you need to do xyz ' ? Zero.
I have a zero tolerance policy for people who refuse to even do basic self care. Has she taken a Covid home test? She is being selfish, stupid, and short-sighted in her stubbornness. All that would be a deal breaker for me.
Yes. It was always clear that I'd be the one who would take care of the baby most of the time, because of course the baby would also depend much more on me for breastfeeding reasons. However, just because we've agreed to that doesn't mean he's uncooperative. He always said it wouldn't be like this when I was pregnant, which was clearly a lie.
I'm gonna be very straight with you. You are one stupid motherfucker getting married this young. People are downvoting you because the obvious solution to all of your problems is to Leave. This. Psycho.
Funny story, I tried to cook for her a few times, and I’m no chef that’s for sure, but she didn’t like my cooking to say the least. Don’t blame her though, it’s not that great
This marriage seems more like a business transaction, instead of a marriage of love.
It’s not okay for your fiancé to push your boundaries.
He brought up your 1st marriage because it makes your boundaries seem hypocritical. Sex is a huge part of a relationship, which you obviously know because you’ve admitted you’re not really attracted to your fiancé, but you go on and on about your ex and how good it was and how ‘compatible’ you two were. It’s almost like you want to stay faithful to your cheating ex. How can your fiancé compete with your ex when you’re still holding a flame for your ex?
Are you just with your fiancé because he’s the first one that agreed to your boundaries, and you are going to marry him so you won’t be alone?
Bruh you really have to spell that out ???
She called me selfish and that I didn’t love her enough to end things with him. She said she sacrificed her entire life to come to the states and I needed to sacrifice this one “little” thing to please her. She then proceeded to moan and cry, saying I was killing her and she wanted to just die.
Manipulation of the highest order which sadly a lot of parents do. At this point I'd just tell your parents, I love you and I am very grateful for the sacrifices you've made so I get the opportunities I did, but this is my life, and if you disagree with my choice of partner, you will not be part of it.
Aldo just want to say, ' sacrificing her life for you ' isn't something you should be expected to repay. It's called being a parent. Parents bring children into this world and they do their hardest to ensure their life is better than theirs was, if they came from hardship. My mother struggled for years and years bringing us up. Do you know how many times she said ' I've struggled for you so you need to do xyz ' ? Zero.
I have a zero tolerance policy for people who refuse to even do basic self care. Has she taken a Covid home test? She is being selfish, stupid, and short-sighted in her stubbornness. All that would be a deal breaker for me.
Yes. It was always clear that I'd be the one who would take care of the baby most of the time, because of course the baby would also depend much more on me for breastfeeding reasons. However, just because we've agreed to that doesn't mean he's uncooperative. He always said it wouldn't be like this when I was pregnant, which was clearly a lie.
Next!!!
when someone shows you who they are believe
I'm gonna be very straight with you. You are one stupid motherfucker getting married this young. People are downvoting you because the obvious solution to all of your problems is to Leave. This. Psycho.
Funny story, I tried to cook for her a few times, and I’m no chef that’s for sure, but she didn’t like my cooking to say the least. Don’t blame her though, it’s not that great
I’m so confused…
This marriage seems more like a business transaction, instead of a marriage of love.
It’s not okay for your fiancé to push your boundaries.
He brought up your 1st marriage because it makes your boundaries seem hypocritical. Sex is a huge part of a relationship, which you obviously know because you’ve admitted you’re not really attracted to your fiancé, but you go on and on about your ex and how good it was and how ‘compatible’ you two were. It’s almost like you want to stay faithful to your cheating ex. How can your fiancé compete with your ex when you’re still holding a flame for your ex?
Are you just with your fiancé because he’s the first one that agreed to your boundaries, and you are going to marry him so you won’t be alone?