Im hesistant to tell because Im not sure what consequences there will be if they know I was the one who told. And on the other hand, I feel for the other person being cheated on and want to tell them. also a part of me wants to tell for revenge. I’m going back and forth on this lol. Thanks for the input, Ill continue to think
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She's definitely definitely overstepping your boundaries and it almost sounds like sexual harassment..
In fact.. No it is sexual harassment and if she doesn't stop you should report it to someone and perhaps get a restraining order. This is out right creepy and horrendois behavior
Giving her the benefit of the doubt, women are taught to say no and it can be hard to transition. She’s not rejecting you, she just doesn’t know how to tell you what she wants.
Not your fault, but I think you should, with consent, escalate the situation.
Like in the bathtub situation “you’re so hot, I’d love to be in there and feel your skin next to mine, mind if I get in?”
She may also have a problematic relationship with sex and have a history of abuse. Not trying to diagnose her, but just saying there could be reasons behind her reluctance
if she wants to be a stripper, that's what she wants. what you want is for her to not want that. clear conflict of interest where only one person will get what they want.
sooooo
decide who's wants matter more to you… yours or hers? there's no right/wrong or good/bad answer. you have to be comfortable to live with the desicion. maybe eventually you'll come around to the idea of it or maybe she won't wanna be a stripper…. either way, talk about it gently, work towards getting on the same pg, hopefully you guys come to a final desicion together, mutually and peacefully ❤️
But if a woman wanted a child and it was a deal breaker if her partner didn’t want them….that’s ok?
I do agree they should not have a kid atleast until she gets sorted
Im hesistant to tell because Im not sure what consequences there will be if they know I was the one who told. And on the other hand, I feel for the other person being cheated on and want to tell them. also a part of me wants to tell for revenge. I’m going back and forth on this lol. Thanks for the input, Ill continue to think
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She's definitely definitely overstepping your boundaries and it almost sounds like sexual harassment..
In fact.. No it is sexual harassment and if she doesn't stop you should report it to someone and perhaps get a restraining order. This is out right creepy and horrendois behavior
So you'd rather throw away your life?
Giving her the benefit of the doubt, women are taught to say no and it can be hard to transition. She’s not rejecting you, she just doesn’t know how to tell you what she wants.
Not your fault, but I think you should, with consent, escalate the situation.
Like in the bathtub situation “you’re so hot, I’d love to be in there and feel your skin next to mine, mind if I get in?”
She may also have a problematic relationship with sex and have a history of abuse. Not trying to diagnose her, but just saying there could be reasons behind her reluctance
if she wants to be a stripper, that's what she wants. what you want is for her to not want that. clear conflict of interest where only one person will get what they want.
sooooo
decide who's wants matter more to you… yours or hers? there's no right/wrong or good/bad answer. you have to be comfortable to live with the desicion. maybe eventually you'll come around to the idea of it or maybe she won't wanna be a stripper…. either way, talk about it gently, work towards getting on the same pg, hopefully you guys come to a final desicion together, mutually and peacefully ❤️
Doesn't mean that he has to do that in his current job or position. At first he should get a daytime job.
Having a complete other life cycle then your family will always be difficult.