Yo OP, I think you gotta rethink some things. Like whether or not you want to stay in a relationship with someone who doesn't respect who you are as a person.
My current partner (27) is an AFAB who has autism so they van be very loud and direct at times. Meanwhile I'm 29 AMAB and tend to be a lot more passive go with the flow. While both of us are non binary, and are switches, im still dominant around 90% of the time with them. Their behavior outside of the bedroom has no impact on out sexual dynamic. They're still incredibly femme whether they're in a sub role or dom role.
Please consider whether they're asking you to just change the sexual dynamic or if they're asking you to change as a person.
It sounds like you are a hypocrite. You girlfriend is right to be upset with you. You crossed your own boundary and know the hurt it can cause.
CPS very rarely takes children. Your child has a drug free safe parent, you. The likely outcome here is the arreat of your husband.
Military?
They came here to feel superior not to give advice
You can talk to the other people there for more info.
Yo OP, I think you gotta rethink some things. Like whether or not you want to stay in a relationship with someone who doesn't respect who you are as a person.
My current partner (27) is an AFAB who has autism so they van be very loud and direct at times. Meanwhile I'm 29 AMAB and tend to be a lot more passive go with the flow. While both of us are non binary, and are switches, im still dominant around 90% of the time with them. Their behavior outside of the bedroom has no impact on out sexual dynamic. They're still incredibly femme whether they're in a sub role or dom role.
Please consider whether they're asking you to just change the sexual dynamic or if they're asking you to change as a person.
This comment is fucking nuts