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You’re making choices out of fear instead of based on what’s best for you.
Yes, the first thing I thought of when he got upset was I just don't want this to be a fight
When did you and your boyfriend get together originally??
You said you were drunk, and barely remember anything, besides ending it because you weren’t interested/ into it. It kind of sounds like a situation of dubious consent. Especially considering this guy sounds like a bad dude.
I think it’s totally mendable! You weren’t together, so you didn’t cheat AND you stopped it while it happened which should help any of his hurt ego. You also shouldn’t beat yourself up because you didn’t lie. You told him once it was pertinent.
I think it’s completely up to whether or not your bf can get past it
Sorry – since you have ONLY been together two months – and she is already gaslighting you and hiding her phone.
Time to break up – sorry.
I dunno, he showed you that he doesn’t like to make an effort, and that he also makes excuses to justify his behavior. Two strikes already.
But you’re both young and he did say he would try harder. No shame in seeing where it goes if you want to.
You each need separate accounts and a joint account to pay household expenses to which you contribute proportionate to your income. Either the credit card debt is paid out of this account or he agrees to transfer his fair share of the balance onto a card of his own. Chores should be split equally. If he won’t agree to this, make a plan to move out.
What pronoun would you prefer he use to describe both him and his ex wife in a story…?
Lolllll good luck with that.
You might be able to get a good guy but you sure as hell won’t be able to keep one.
I can think of these hypotheticals all I want but they are not my reality, my reality is that my gf has something I find unattractive and she has the ability to fix or make it better, if she didn’t find me hot then I’d try to improve the way I looked to her liking, that’s just how I am, I just wish I got the same energy from her. I just have no way to cope with her not fixing it or any way to motivate her to do so that’s my core issue
Lmao how do yall fall for this creative writing
Do you have any hobbies or are you at college/uni or something?
Find a healthy partner and don't spend your life with a drug addict who doesn't know what to do in a few hours.
Decide knowing that your children's mental health will also be affected.
start therapy
Pretty text book alcohol use disorder.
Alcohol is a depressant after all.
If you cannot accept this woman exactly as she is without judging her or being embarrassed by her history, then you will never be happy in the relationship.
If you fear her history will reflect badly on you when it is known, then it would be best for you to end the relationship.
How old are your children?
Good Lord???
Why? You won't be able to resolve this issue with him or any future partners if you don't figure out why a sexual history bothers you so much.
don’t lower your self worth just to stay with someone who doesn’t value your worth to begin with.
This guy is not a match for you. He knew that and chose to hide it from you.
That's why you shouldn't feel bad ending this. He's done this to himself by not being up front.
NTA. If I wasn’t warned and surprised by company being in my home, after I’d had a long day and not feeling well, I’d have done exactly the same as you. She did not consider you at all and didn’t even text you that she had company over? That is what is rude. You shouldn’t have to come home and be expected to socialize with no warning after a long day. Were you a little rude, sure, but it was far more rude to surprise you with a social event you didn’t agree to or want. I’d apologize for your rudeness but wife needs to apologize for demanding you be her personal circus monkey that needs to socialize exactly when she does without any plans or communication.
NTA. If I wasn’t warned and surprised by company being in my home, after I’d had a long day and not feeling well, I’d have done exactly the same as you. She did not consider you at all and didn’t even text you that she had company over? That is what is rude. You shouldn’t have to come home and be expected to socialize with no warning after a long day. Were you a little rude, sure, but it was far more rude to surprise you with a social event you didn’t agree to or want. I’d apologize for your rudeness but wife needs to apologize for demanding you be her personal circus monkey that needs to socialize exactly when she does without any plans or communication.
I don’t know with this one—maybe you need to adjust your thinking on what your wife thinks is appropriate. I would have laughed my butt off if my husband told me something like this, but people are different.
I don’t know with this one—maybe you need to adjust your thinking on what your wife thinks is appropriate. I would have laughed my butt off if my husband told me something like this, but people are different.
I’m just going to put this out there. Your wife is telling you she’s cheating without telling you. She wants to tell someone but make it look like she’s not interested so she can have deniability. She’s lying and you shouldn’t fall for it.
I’m just going to put this out there. Your wife is telling you she’s cheating without telling you. She wants to tell someone but make it look like she’s not interested so she can have deniability. She’s lying and you shouldn’t fall for it.
I’m just going to put this out there. Your wife is telling you she’s cheating without telling you. She wants to tell someone but make it look like she’s not interested so she can have deniability. She’s lying and you shouldn’t fall for it.
She is not adventurous she is just like a lot of people that think they missed out on something by being in a relationship so early. This has absolutely nothing to do with you and everything to do with her. I am so very sorry for you but she is right – you sound wonderful and you will find someone that wants to be in a relationship with someone that thinks they hung the moon & stars. Better to end it now.
Get over it. She's respectful of that fact that other people, children, share the house and it's not appropriate to be bumping uglies on surfaces that they're going to be interacting with.
If this is a deal breaker for you, you're not ready to be in a relationship with someone with children.
What happened is that everyone and every part of you that told you to walk away after the first incident got proven right! If I told someone “Trust people when they show you who they are. The first time!” your relationship would be an example as to why. My advice is; he’s showing you that he isn’t a half decent partner, believe him!
This man unironically said #NotAllMen?
That's some evil shit. Now that you have them how would you feel if someone were to rob you of that experience like you did to him.
Man that's cold
Your point is 100% valid (see: male pattern baldness research) but it's not like we have good contraceptives for men either.
I would LOVE to be able to take some form of male birth control rather than using condoms, or my partner having to deal with the pill or whatever else.
On the same note it is bullshit how much easier it is for a guy to find a doctor willing to tie his tubes.
Wow. She has a boyfriend. She’s lying to him. That means she’ll lie to you as she has already done. You are actually asking how to break up a relationship. This will never work. It started on a lie.
As someone who was the girlfriend that hates parties and drunk people, I have to say this is extremely controlling. I would always let my ex go but I‘d also sometimes become upset because he‘d go out several times a week with people I barely know (there was one girl who tried to get him and told me they slept together so I of course was even more upset about the whole partying thing) but always telling me he has no time for me and my needs (he was also abusive and stuff but that‘s not what it is about).
Even I consider her behavior as extremely controlling and I‘d stop having contact with her.
You should add to your post that you have experience with anal, used to do it often, and thoroughly enjoyed it until it started causing pain (did you ever go to the doctor for that, if you didn't you should because it could be something fixable, even if it isn't you still should be seen for this as it could be something that needs attention-we only have the one body ya know, we have to take care of it. Plus, if you loved anal, and there was a chance you could do it again because the pain was gone, wouldn't you want to know)? By leaving this information out it's giving the impression that you have no idea how anal works and seriously believe this could have been an accident not only once, but twice. As for the guy, you have to decide if you can trust someone you KNOW in your heart of hearts is lying about something incredibly intimate. Does he know you had anal experience? Because if he didn't, and rammed himself into what he believed to be an untouched backdoor, twice, then he's not even worth a phone call when you leave him
Rehome the boyfriend, he doesn’t sound like a good guy
I don’t know tbh. My girlfriend has green eyes, I have blueish greenish, but if we split, I’m gonna go with a brown eyed girl. Brown eyes can be so beautiful on girls, true they are more common than green/blue, but they are more beautiful.
Oh it was definitely “this conversation is over” in some form or fashion. I texted later to say I didn’t like ending the night in a fight and we talked about other stuff. I saw him last night and it felt tense and distant so I texted saying that I felt distant and a lack of communication and would like to talk soon. We’re potentially meeting up tonight, however I could not fall asleep last night until about 4:00 am and am working 9:30 am – 8:00 pm today, soooo we’ll see. In my experience exhaustion + talks never go super well. Might postpone.
You put into words exactly what I was feeling from her but I just couldn't say it. It's like she has these holes in her personality and she is filling them up with whoever she chooses to. My view is this, she gets the cuddling and maybe other stuff from her bf but she never gets the interest she wants and curiousity into her life from him so she looks to get that from any guy she could. That guy was me. When we were talking she opened up and smiled with every question I asked her and I knew she loved speaking with me after that. She said so much as if she's been looking to hear these questions from someone all this time along.
Sucks for me because I filled that personality hole for her. Now she is fulfilled and she forgot about me. (for now)
That's what scares me about her personality now that I think of it. It doesn't matter for her who satisfies her relationship needs as long as its fulfilled. You're so right. It's extreme Narcissism.
you should break up with her because she will never be able to heal from this horrific event if she has a partner who's implicitly judging her character and trustworthiness because of her. you're making her feel like she did something wrong by being assaulted and have probably already set her back months or years. do her a kindness and let her heal
Umm..seems pretty obvious to leave your psycho cheating husband.
Be smart. Keep evidence of these threats. Record him. Get it over text.
Use it to get a restraining order and with your divorce.
If you have been hiding from your friends and family that he is psycho…time to tell them. They ALL need to be made alert that threats have been made against them.
If you dont make sacrifice for the things you want, the things you want become the sacrifice.
Im sorry for your situation man, its probably best for you both to part ways. Its not healthy for either of you. Big hugs