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You're in a bad spot because you've already put yourself behind the 8 ball by building it up like this. If you can't bare to have her close to you without knowing you should tell her how you feel and if you get turned down, handle it with grace and understanding (and probably put some distance between you while you process it). It's not going to feel great to hear that she only wants to be a friend but that's her right.
What you should not do is:
Deliver altimatums, threaten that she'll lose you as a friend, make your friendship contingent on this, get frustrated or angry, see a “maybe” as a yes etc.
A lot of this comes from inexperience. Lots of guys do this. After 1 or 2 relationships you'll find you don't have these same unrequited feelings and you'll recognize them when you do. It's about understanding the context of your relationships and identifying them early on so that you have realistic expectations going forward.
You can't help how you feel but you can control how you act. That's why I suggest getting your feelings out in the open, acting mature and graceful in the face of rejection if it goes that way, fully internalizing that your relationship was never going to be that way and that's fine, and going from there.
Where is this picture I have to confirm it is in fact butt. ?
Deescalating a scary situation is always the best route. It would be pretty simple to say…”Its not here but I'll find it” …”can you think of another place it might be?”. Unless you're living in 6000sq ft house…Im sure it would only take a few mins versus arguing with a worried Mama.
“This reeks of a scam to get citizenship” – it might surprise you, but not everybody thinks the US citizenship ist the greatest thing in the world. Most people from other 1st world countries don't give a shit about it.
So…. you got clean……and you remain connected to someone who is
still actively using…right?
Sounds like you are jockeying for a relapse……..
If it were alcohol they would call it a “dry drunk”……….
I am wondering if you are really unattractive as you tell yourself? Sounds to me he just needed to sex and you were there. His actions are really speaks a lot and he got what we wanted and ghosted you.
He’s not in the best shape for that right now, maybe on Tuesday after his surgery.
He is probably a loser
Ya I know bro it ain’t right
IMO there's nothing better than finding a porn where the woman looks/acts/sounds and/or has a body like my wife. I don't think that means I fetishize her, she's just my type. If OP is reading this, I don't think your first reaction should be that your life is a lie. People rarely make the kind of commitment you've described for a simple fetish.
I wouldn’t care because I trust my partner to be loyal. But I’m angry that he continually lied to me and refused to make a clean break despite me giving him plenty of chances to and even told him flat out “if you don’t want to be friends after this when you get into a relationship, that’s fine- just tell me.” And he still insisted that we would remain friends
you suck. not because of this preference, but because you thought you could bully her into changing. she’s only 155lb, for christs sake. divorce her so she can find someone who isn’t such a loser
She gave me the right number she just never responded
Bro, if you genuinely care about this girl, stop pressuring her on something she keeps hinting and telling you she doesn't really like that much! You literally say you get great sex all the time, yet you're sour because you can't get 1 position that isn't even top tier. If I saw my boyfriend pouting about something like this I would seriously rethink our relationship.
Also the fact you know she struggles with saying no and you keep pressuring her. Im guessing you're into the 10+ age gap to have some weird power over her. Grow up and stop being a horrible partner and person.
You need to tell her all this and be honest with her.
Yeah I feel like OP is hung up on the dentist thing but the part where he didn't brush his teeth at night until she taught him to is really gross and I'd also lose attraction for that….
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This is so toxic and not OP's fault at all.
We had discussed the possibility of getting back together, yes. That was a possibility. I just don't know what to even make of the whole situation.
That’s what I was telling myself while crying in the shower! But I don’t know because I don’t have much experience with relationships
I did.
Doesn't matter. That's what he's responsible for. Your girlfriend's response was adequate. Your behavior was atrocious
You can break up with him. It’s ok for him to lose you as a result of his behavior even if he did actually change. Which, by the way, I agree is unlikely. Guys who lie like that – unimportant things to make themselves look better – they don’t usually stop.
A few “made up answers” I have been given are “I’m just tired from work” “Okay I’ll try for you since you’re important to me” proceeds to make absolutely no change or effort. “ My past relationships never talked about things like this” which I understand and which is the whole reason I have been so patient and trying to slowly but surely teach him healthy communication and expression, but it feels like I’m talking to an actual wall the whole time” “ I don’t want to talk right now, later”. These are some I can remember off the top of my head.
I have thought about just telling him everything in a letter and give it to him and let him know to read it in a serious manner. I also have no problem leaving if I have to, but the sucky thing is we just renewed our lease together for another year in December. I don’t want to financially set him back either because is living together has significantly improved our finances and I don’t want to mess that up for him. Even if I were to give him a notice that I am leaving. I would hate to break a lease as it would be on my record and I am least likely to get a good apartment in the future.
She’s insecure.
Your issue is one of semantics but at the end of the day, groping is sexual assault. Maybe if people recognized that, they’d stop groping each other. The answer is not to make victims feel like their violations were not severe enough to complain about but rather to make people stop doing it.
It’s a rinse repeat situation. He apologizes and we talk it out and he admits he’s wrong and that he needs to control his anger and then something happens and he lashes out again
Just get him to text you when they are there for lunch. Happen to drop in to see your old buddy Joe. What a coincidence. Oh who's this. Must be a business meeting right. Oh after Joe mentioned you meet that guy there every week. Should I know about this?
This post is the second time I’ve seen CS today, what does that stand for?
All the comments are talking about consent and what was appropriate in this. I’m sorry that no one had a discussion about what was appropriate and consent with you but telling someone they were assaulted when they’re in the process of trying to understand their situation isn’t always helpful. People need to get to their own conclusions about what happened to them and how they feel about it
I read OP as meaning “a threesome with a guy, and a threesome with a girl”.
“I just got gangbanged in front of my husband and now he won't fix the shed! What should I do?”
Huh?
you better screenshot all the evidences, and then you tell her what you know.
you better don't tell her you have evidences, because this is just for you to have assurance she will not try to tell people that you were the cheater.
you can't trust her anymore or think that she will never do that to you, because possibly you was thinking the same about her never cheat on you.
if she try to rewrite the history, then you use the screenshots to expose her lies.
and you better don't give her a second chance, because she's been cheating on you for 2 FUCKING YEARS, this was not a mistake, but a tons of choices she made again and again and again.
and she never came clean, so if she show you any regret, definitely will not be for have cheating on you, but for being caught.
she could have gotten pregnant by this coworker, and then make you raise a child that's not yours.
do you think you will overcome your feelings of disgust, distrust and resentment towards her?
well, maybe you should tell his wife aswell, cause she's a victim too, but only after you finish this mess with your now ex.
or are you really thinking about giving her a second chance after all you found out?
She likes to go back and forth with whether or not she fucked him depending on how serious I sound when I'm telling her we are getting a divorce but I literally have her recorded crying telling me she made a mistake I kept pressing the question till she said yes I had sex with him.
When it comes down to these weddings, there sometimes will be feelings hurt.
Maybe you learned that you think of her the best friend, but she doesn't think of you as a best friend.
Maybe you'll learn as the months go on that you're totally glad you aren't a bridesmaid because she might be a bridezilla.
And in my opinion , her response doesn't actually acknowledge the story of how you two dreamt and fantasized about being in each other's wedding.
So it could be that she's choosing this opportunity to actually not make you front and center in her wedding, knowing that it could pretty much disrupt the friendship
Their childhood will have given them an entirely different frame of reference than you. I’m 32 and my childhood revolves around the fallout from 9/11 and the digital revolution.
Your partner got to experience the 80s as a kid and the 90s as a teenager. That’s a whooole different set of values culturally.
Can you both bridge the gap?
They may be in a different place in their life rn. Do they want children? They might be in the very early stages of thinking about retirement. They might be more established in a career and may not be as flexible as you career wise.
Communication is key.
Google Missing Stair Theory by Cliff Pervocracy for a better understanding of the group dynamics here. I would worry about protecting myself first and foremost by not being around them, skirting up a little and not fearing peoples' anger (born of cowardice) quite so much, and worrying a bit less about outsiders who may encounter these people. Your shitty unstable friends will show themselves soon enough, and outsiders will have to choose how they deal with them.
Well considering I’m autistic I do struggle with not coming off like a dick. So I’m trying to take his feelings into consideration. Thanks
Is he dating you because you're asian because that's how it looks to me
Experts says that throwing things, punching walls, etc., is a prelude to direct physical abuse. He has already “accidentally” hit you with flying objects. The way you get it to stop is to divorce him so you don't care what he is throwing in his solitude. And leave first, inform him later. No telling what he would do if you told him face to face that you want a divorce.
If you really want to try to make this work after 10 years of abuse (that's what it is) then yes, absolutely no discussion of bringing a child into this world until this behavior has stopped completely for quite some while. But my vote is in the first paragraph of this response, not this one.
Dont talk to your father in law.
Couples counseling for you and the wife to deal with her emesment with her dad
ESH. I love camping and your ritual honestly sounds amazing. But I find it so odd and rude that you insist on doing this every single month for an entire weekend, solo with no contact or extremely limited contact, while in a serious relationship for two years, and you're unwilling to compromise by even inviting your boyfriend a single time. Of course having someone join one of your solo trips would ruin the point of the “solo” trip, since the point is to be alone. So what? Inviting him let's say once a year would allow you the chance to take a trip with a different purpose — bonding and intimate time with your partner — 1x/year, while you'd still get to take solo trips 11x/year. Is it so awful to have only 11 solo weekends a year instead of 12?
It's such a foreign concept to me that you think your devotion to this “glamping” ritual (btw, staying in a cabin is not glamping) justifies your absolute refusal to take your boyfriend's feelings into consideration even the tiniest bit with the world's smallest compromise of reducing your trips to 11x/year. The vast majority of people in your boyfriend's shoes would be upset by this.
Thanks.
It amazes me how uncommon it is for women to know this information. Given that, it's no wonder that men are just left guessing.
You see it in replies to this very post.
One woman will exclaim that there only nerve endings in the first two inches of vagina depth. (G spot orgasm).
Or that most women don't cum from penetration (needs external stimulation, possibly oral, or just maybe they've never experienced A spot or P spot stimulation).
What you won't find among the responders is a woman who claims that she only came with one prior lover, one who had a penis nearly 7 inches long.
I just don't know know… its like he had a magic dick. I never told him what to do he just always hit the right spots and I came like a waterfall.
Those voices are rarely heard, but they are not completely silent.
Add in the fact that the go to insult for taking a man down a peg or two is to claim he has a small dick (or even worse, small dick energy – at least a penis can be objectively measured. How are you supposed to measure energy?) The result: nearly all men are about 15 minutes away from a debilitating bout of penis size insecurity.
This need not be.
Can you believe this clown? He knows he’s done enough to piss her off and cause resentment and in all his Charlie Brown glory, he dares to present her with this same old insufferable shit which is once again, all about him take, take and taking, while giving nothing, but THIS he wants her to put on a happy face and be Horny for him too while he just keeps on taking.
If you're a regular there, just start to talk to her. Say hi, ask her about her job, how long she's been there, ask about her. It doesn't have to be an interrogation, just a conversation, so use her verbal/physical cues, what she's comfortable sharing.
Sounds like he has several issues. He might have some trust issues, since he worries about you being alone in a bar. That may or may not be valid i don’t know your relationship history.
You go for a pint every day. That can seem like a not healthy habit to him. Especially since you could have your me time at home? You could tell him that you need some me time and not sit at a pub?
You agreed to not spend money on alcohol. Yes you are just having one pint, but one pint daily. That‘ll add up.
Honestly your refusal to talk to him or hear him, makes me think there are bigger issues at play
Are you 100 percent sure it's his weight youre not attracted to? Everyone's weight fluctuates including a woman when she has kids? Are you going to be able to uphold your own standard for your entire life? Maybe stop leading him on like this. It's kinda shitty
Potatobrain would be more apt.
Relationships aren't just about what you get out of them. You clearly don't like people in general and refuse to find value in anything but sex. You've got problems.