1) Collect and save any evidence that She has made these accusations and that they are false
2) Break up with, preferably by text or with witnesses
3) Tell everyone you know that you broke up with her over false allegations of physical abuse and show them the evidence
4) Go full no contact with her, but save any and every message she sends you
Look mate, you’re young so perhaps you don’t understand the full ramifications of what can and likely will happen. You will lose friends and family over her allegations if you allow them to stand, staying with her while she is saying these things will make people think they are actually true. Any same adult with a partner that’s says this shit would dump them in an instant.
Even worse, if her allegations are reported to the authorities, either by her or by a concerned friend, you would likely be arrested. Even an arrest on your record is life changing. You will lose your job, you will find it difficult if not impossible to find housing, you will lose friends and family members. And this is the best case scenario. Stop trying to explain this away and starting running the fuck away from her.
Nope! Actually I have a prenup. Because again, divorce can be for a million reasons that could be my or my husband’s fault or maybe even nobody’s fault at all. Why not divide up the assets while you love and care for each other to make it easier in the future?
But a paternity test means only one thing: you suspect the woman cheated….or maybe a mixup in the hospital? Or chimerism, maybe? But really, it’s that your SO cheated on you, lied to you, and took advantage of you. A scumbag. There’s really nothing similar out there to asking your partner for a paternity test.
Kinda seems like fairly weak reasoning to end a relationship imo. These differences are barely differences at all. That being said it sounds like you're getting bored. Often once the excitement ends and everyone settles into their routine the relationship begins to actually be tested. These are the moments where you realize if you're with someone because you actually like them or if you're just with them because they were the same bet with similar interests.
What did you expect would happen? You've been with this gal for 5 yrs, had two children and never married her…you never made that commitment to her. Maybe to your kids but not to her. You knew full well both of you had other partners while you were trying to work things out…so basically you both cheated on your other partners with each other and then both turn around and cheat on each other again? Huh? Why…just why would you want to live in constant turmoil? Why drag your beautiful children through all of this toxic drama. Stop being selfish…find a partner you want to marry and be a better example on how two grown ass adults have a healthy respectful relationship…
What you do is this:
1) Collect and save any evidence that She has made these accusations and that they are false
2) Break up with, preferably by text or with witnesses
3) Tell everyone you know that you broke up with her over false allegations of physical abuse and show them the evidence
4) Go full no contact with her, but save any and every message she sends you
Look mate, you’re young so perhaps you don’t understand the full ramifications of what can and likely will happen. You will lose friends and family over her allegations if you allow them to stand, staying with her while she is saying these things will make people think they are actually true. Any same adult with a partner that’s says this shit would dump them in an instant.
Even worse, if her allegations are reported to the authorities, either by her or by a concerned friend, you would likely be arrested. Even an arrest on your record is life changing. You will lose your job, you will find it difficult if not impossible to find housing, you will lose friends and family members. And this is the best case scenario. Stop trying to explain this away and starting running the fuck away from her.
Nope! Actually I have a prenup. Because again, divorce can be for a million reasons that could be my or my husband’s fault or maybe even nobody’s fault at all. Why not divide up the assets while you love and care for each other to make it easier in the future?
But a paternity test means only one thing: you suspect the woman cheated….or maybe a mixup in the hospital? Or chimerism, maybe? But really, it’s that your SO cheated on you, lied to you, and took advantage of you. A scumbag. There’s really nothing similar out there to asking your partner for a paternity test.
Sounds like from what you’ve said here he doesn’t follow through with anything unless it’s exactly what he wants.
Kinda seems like fairly weak reasoning to end a relationship imo. These differences are barely differences at all. That being said it sounds like you're getting bored. Often once the excitement ends and everyone settles into their routine the relationship begins to actually be tested. These are the moments where you realize if you're with someone because you actually like them or if you're just with them because they were the same bet with similar interests.
Your brother is clearly still evil. Block him and move on.
What did you expect would happen? You've been with this gal for 5 yrs, had two children and never married her…you never made that commitment to her. Maybe to your kids but not to her. You knew full well both of you had other partners while you were trying to work things out…so basically you both cheated on your other partners with each other and then both turn around and cheat on each other again? Huh? Why…just why would you want to live in constant turmoil? Why drag your beautiful children through all of this toxic drama. Stop being selfish…find a partner you want to marry and be a better example on how two grown ass adults have a healthy respectful relationship…
may or may not be as common or minor as that. she does have a bit of a temper at times and i did promise to be patient with her for that.