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Date: October 19, 2022
It is a parade of red flags. No woman would willingly sign up for this and if she is unknowingly trapped in it that would absolutely lead to divorce. You sound insane.
Your future? You are miserable NOW. He is mean NOW. I’m scared for the cats! “Totally committed” just sounds like you will tolerate abuse. And you could get pregnant and be tied to him for 18 years! The kitten he brought home feels like a warning that he wants to keep you tied together and has no problem dragging the innocent in to do that. You stay out of concern for the kitty. He “wonders” if the first cat will die tonight? What a totally bizarre,frightening comment.
GET OUT NOW!
I'm just saying, I'd be more wary. It is hella scary out in hell country. And your riiiiiight by sex traffic hotspots. 5 of em.
I get you wanted help making the parents comfortable, but for some reason I felt like it might be a good idea to say something. I've seen a ton of good women get hurt just being themselves. Stay blessed and safe out there.
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Block the number if you want to save your marriage
If your Dad is willing to cut you off then be prepared to be cut off anyway. Because if he marries her that’s exactly what’s gonna happen. You should tell him EXACTLY how you feel. Ask him why he’s replacing you?(if he wanted to replace his wife then she would be closer to his own age.) I would be disgusted. Those are Pedo vibes. I’m in my 50’s and my son is 27. I would NEVER dare date someone that young. Tell him how disappointed and embarrassed you are. Because it’s not gonna end well for him and when it does he’s gonna come right back to you to try and salvage something that never had to be destroyed in the first place. He needs to act his F’ing age. ?
Oh sweet summer child
I agree you need therapy. You only “love” women you never went on a date with. Like that’s not normal. Nor is it love. And the whole taking someone you known is in love with you on dates, but in your head tell yourself it’s not a date and then are all pikachu shocked that she thought it was dates.
Your whole posted is all kinds of fucked up with regards to what you’ve done. Do her a favor and remove yourself from her life.
A lot of helpful advice already floating around here and I don’t want to be redundant, just chiming in to say I had a similar habit but when I changed my bedtime routine/improved daytime habits I stopped relying on getting off in order to fall asleep. I started working out regularly, only using some dim fake candles for light about an hour before sleeping, having a regular sleep schedule every day, and some other generic helpful stuff. Getting off is easy and feels good but I’d consider if you’re actually responding to feeling aroused in the moment or just using it to feel tired. Being less reliant on my orgasm as a tool has made me a lot more in tune with my sexual desire.
I think it's relevant to anyone who sees this that part of why he's pulling away is that I've been more visibly androgynous/more insistent that he understands that I'm not a woman. He's made it clear that he's straight, so this period of adjustment has been really uncomfortable for him more than he let's on.
You ask “at what point” and the answer is “at this point”. In sickness and in health does not cover someone who refuses to get help for half a decade and leaves their family to suffer as a result.
Your children are suffering here. They’re neglected and unwell and living with abuse. You are suffering – you’re exhausted and burnt out and constantly trying to buffer your children from their father’s mistreatment. What part of your life would not be better if you just kicked him out?
I’m not trying to be heartless but the reality is, you can’t save everyone. In a situation like this you have to make a choice; do you keep trying to prop up your husband or do you save your kids, and yourself, from this life? Because you can’t do both – you can’t protect them, raise them well and safely, and also stay in this situation.
You’re not fighting for your marriage – you’re sinking alongside it. It’s time to cut the line.
Oh man he must be a frequent user on this sub
I kinda did when I gave her the ultimatum. However, yesterday I came to the conclusion that it's just a fake “last chance” my feelings are already gone. I know she feels that something's wrong, but I don't know if I should pull the trigger.
I understand how it came off that way but I can confidently say that I care very, very much about this man. Everything that he is going through breaks my heart as it’s not something he deserves to experience. ..I have been there for him a LOT, but it has not been able to be enough…
My main concern with pushing was money and family. In other circumstances I would have pushed the very first moment he asked but it was difficult to let these things go especially as he’s telling me how he still wants to spend his life with me. I believe and still believe that our relationship with last a very, very long time but now with a smaller budget wedding and less family. ..At the end of the day I know it will be ok and it was never fully about those things, they were just hard to let go.
I honestly don’t know how to read this situation. You seem VERY determined on finding a reason to look through his things. He also seems VERY insistent that you don’t. I’m wondering, has he done anything (other than not letting you access his personal devices) that would make you suspicious of him? That’s my first question. It seems quite extreme of him to call the owners while they’re enjoying a vacation just for you to be able to print a few things. However, given the way you frame the story, it seems like you only need access to devices for some things here and there while he uses his devices for more than that (as he is entitled since they are his). Bottom line, it was wrong to snoop. If you feel like you can’t trust this man of 3 years, there’s more to unpack than just this.
Yes. I did. But as I said, my current gf asked to be my girlfriend. She is enthusiastic about spending time with me and doesn't hold sex over me. She even pays for condoms and dates and stuff. I feel spoiled. She invites me to dinners with her family and activities like swimming and the gym. She genuinely cares.
Maria DID care about me but never had feelings for me like that. She lied about that to save my feelings. I noticed she did that a lot. She didn't use me for sex. I went through a rough, hateful period where I believed she did but she didn't. She just couldn't keep it up with me because she wanted to be back with her boyfriend which was her choice but it also destroyed me and she KNEW it would which is why I have a right to be angry at her.
Women are also life. And abortion is controlling if a woman gives birth. It's supposed to be a birth control.
Women are also life. And abortion is controlling if a woman gives birth. It's supposed to be a birth control.
If you want I can find work for her in your area…I'm very good at things like that. You can message me if you like. There are plenty of people that are looking for someone to clean their house or pet walk etc…just gotta know where to look.
“do you really have to only do sex stuff when you're in the mood” is a red flag
He’s not ‘weird’. Using that description makes him sound a bit quirky and cute. He isn’t. He wants you to give up your education, your dreams and your career to look after him and his home full time. Nothing weird about that. It’s what women did all the time…..in the 1950s. Is it what you want, though?
Yes! This! Everyone so far has told his dumbass he’s toxic but he wants PROOF. I hope his gf knows she can do better.
(we share a joint bank account).
how did you wind up this way in your early 20's? I'm gonna guess it was his idea.
Of course why settle for one person
If I was your wife I’d divorce you
OP, this man lost weight, his integrity, his loyalty, and it appears his relationship of 6 years.
OP, guess it is time to LOSE this Looser. He has been using you for his ego. Now he has a wanna be porn piglet …. WOW, and he considers That an improvement.
As they say, the trash took itself out. Now change the locks.
BEST OF EVERYTHING, OP. You deserve it.
Agape ?
Girl, after reading the edit, dump that man FAST.
the fuck did i just read here
it sounds like you already made your mind up.
College girls are gonna do college girl things. Try dating some women older than you if you it’s off-putting
This is not a woman you want to build a future with
My marriage has had ups and downs, but since the pandemic it’s been a lot of down. My partner used to be so kind and compassionate. Now they’re just miserable. Even their eyes are different. We’re all hurting and broken, but some of us have been able to break through and some of us are stuck in a bitter stagnant depression. It’s effecting every facet of our personal lives, society and the economy.
I don’t have an answer, just a collection of observations and a warning. If your partner is like mine, and a lot of others, your relationship is about to get a whole lot worse. Exponentially if you move, you’ll be broke, and have no support system. Please always make sure you have cash to dash. Some of the things I’ve suffered this past year, I’d have never thought my person was capable of too.
Pretty sure Military still provides soldiers base housing, utilities and food.
Saying something “honest” that nobody asked for is not being honest, it's just being a douche. And besides you don't know what this guy is doing or not, so why are you making assumptions like this?
You may think “this post isn't about” the fact that you've gotten engaged to someone you haven't spent enough time with to iron out all this stuff. But sex is like anything else in any relationship, it either is or isn't a top priority depending on what both partners agree to. As long as both people are in sync they could either have sex ten times a day or not have sex at all ever. You may be contorting yourself to make this person fit you when in fact you'd never be happy in the long run given your seemingly mismatched libidos. Or maybe you'll decide that other attributes of the relationship make up for the lack of sex and you'll continue on with it.
We both do, grew up in a conservative area together
Wait wait wait. He actually went to prom? I saw that she asked him but I assumed a 30yr old would decline that. So he just went and hung out with his hs gf and her hs friends? I just…what.