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Model from: de
Languages: de
Birth Date: 1983-07-26
Body Type: bodyTypeCurvy
Ethnicity: ethnicityLatino
Hair color: hairColorBlonde
Eyes color: eyeColorGreen
Subculture: subcultureNone
Date: November 5, 2022
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The thing to do is communicate. Emphasize exactly what you did here:
“I know your ex used to do extreme things to provoke you, but I have wanted this tattoo with my best friend since before you and I got together.” No “buts”, no apologies, no explanations — just making sure he knows you are not trying to push his buttons; it's not about him at all.
Then you have to let him have his feelings about it, and the rest is on him.
I hope he will be mature, adjust, and let it go, with the understanding that no adult has to ask another adult for forgiveness or permission in these matters.
If he sulks, makes critical comments, harbors tension, or behaves in a passive-aggressive way, then you'll have a problem.
I wouldn’t care. No more than I cared about the guy willingly provided his recent std test to me and disclosed that he’s been with at least 30 other women and asked if it was ok with this, he was more embarrassed than I was.
Unless you've got some pretty heavy, documented proof of neglect here it's highly unlikely you'd be given custody of your stepdaughter were there a divorce. The best thing would be if your wife would try to challenge her ex's paternal rights and get sole legal custody. This way (with your wife's approval) you could legally adopt “Vee” and that would at least set you up to where you'd have a shot at custody if you were to divorce. But if everyone's in therapy and the two of you are in marriage counseling you're already doing pretty much everything possible given the situation.
WOW! I mean, WOW! Your boyfriend really just said “yeah I don’t really care about what you’re going through, come back when you’re normal again.” Is it even worth keeping this guy around if he clearly doesn’t care about your mental health?
Grow up.
Wait for marriage to find out you aren’t sexually compatible with your partner for some bullshit indoctrinated religion. Archaic and asinine. Sexual incompatibility is one of the top reasons for divorce besides finances.
You need some couples counseling letting her know she is invalidating your feelings. My husband went grey and aged early, people always said to him you have a beautiful granddaughter. Our girl would say that’s my Daddy.
This. It sounds like it’s possible he drugged you like it’s technically possible anyone would. So sure, leave if you think he might be doing that. And for his sake, if he didn’t drug you then your unwarranted suspicion is dangerous for him. So probably best to move on.
I come from an emotionally abusive household so a lot of weird stuff was normalised for me till I was in my late twenties and got some EMDR and a therapist.
We kinda do know when behaviour is not okay, but if you’ve seen emotion and/or physical abuse a lot when you grew up you are more prone to ignore/not notice the ‘little red flags’ (while they might be obvious and glaring ones for people who only are accustomed to healthy behaviour) in the beginning or we tend to doubt ourselves.
I know what I want from a relationship now and that is that it adds to my life in a positive way and is loving, caring and respectful. I don’t tolerate shouting, belittling and swearing. Especially ad hominem attacks. I don’t tolerate an atmosphere that makes me feel unsafe, unloved or disrespected.
The way you describe your fiancé, he is none of those things. Especially the way how he discarded your worries instead of having an adult conversation with a heartfelt apology.