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How do you even know she followed them 😀 I have no idea how many people my bf is following right now, I can't imagine to keep track of that and search for the new people he follows.
He has a fairly extensive knowledge of law. His age (which lines up with his appearance) and background story are consistent. I really, really doubt he's lying about studying law.
You can confront him, you have every reason to. But what will you do then? If he denies, will you believe him? Will you trust him if he gives explanations for all those times you couldn't sleep over or he went to the bathroom? If he confesses to use 'a bit'? A lot? If he promises to stop?
Law enforcement needs proof. You don't. Fact is, you don't trust him. Being in a relationship with someone you don't trust is terrible. Unless you see a way for him to earn your trust – break up.
I agree with ya bf it can defo be traumatic in the case of rape but that life did nothing to be created it's innocent for you personally I'd just say Keep on top of your birth control it's that simple don't allow yourself to be in a situation of accidental pregnancy if your not ready or oh the horror try celibacy?? Just a thought but if that's too outdated practice safe sex and have a plan for pregnancy cus reality it's 2 against 1 YOU being the one if it's his he is Gunna want it to live the fetos/ baby wants to live that's why it keeps GROWING
So we all were at a house party, the host was another friend from college and our group isn’t as close to them as we all are. The house party I got black out drunk and ended up kissing the host’s husband. I didn’t mean to and it was terrible, it was to a point where I didn’t know what was happening. I discussed this one my friends from the group( the birthday person) because she was in a similar situation before and I thought I could talk to her judgement free and she would know how I feel. I told my boyfriend after that and he lost it and wanted to talk to these people because they also were at the house party. My bf is a very emotional person.
Thanks. I figured I'm being naive, I definitely have one insecurity issues. We have a good relationship but it has been rocky at times (pun intended). I won't even ask about it, I'll just 86 it and leave it alone. Thanks for the reply!
Boyfriend touching you without consent is not ok. Wife taking boyfriend’s side is even worse. Don’t even get me started on having a child before discussing it with you. They don’t respect you. You deserve better than what they’re giving you. And don’t worry about stress causing a miscarriage. The likelihood of that is almost zero.
I don't think you're going to get any advice you like on any legitimate sub. You're just gonna have to deal with the fallout from the situation you caused. All you can do is leave him alone and most likely have to find new friends. And if these new friends find out what you did you'll probably lose them too. Sorry! You might not have any way of fixing this.
There have been a few on here that have been rude saying it doesn't and shouldn't matter how I feel but it has been alot of help from most of the people. Such a beautiful thing really. Gives me hope for the internet yet.
Next steps? 1- Acknowledge that feelings are complicated. 2- Show her some empathy if you care about her. 3 – If you felt awkward, evaluate if maybe it’s because of your own personal insecurities. 4- tell her how her actions made you feel and ask for acknowledgment of your discomfort.
She's a liar and at best does the minimum.
Most women don't pull this BS. Don't settle for substandard treatment.
Get out thereand find a good woman.
This is not 'typical guy behavior' – it's predatory behavior. Leave him and delete anything he may have of you if you can before you do.
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How do you even know she followed them 😀 I have no idea how many people my bf is following right now, I can't imagine to keep track of that and search for the new people he follows.
It almost feels rapey. Like, “You were on board when you thought I had a penis, so now you're obligated to have sex with me.” Ugh.
He has a fairly extensive knowledge of law. His age (which lines up with his appearance) and background story are consistent. I really, really doubt he's lying about studying law.
He wasn't ready to have kids and is having some sort of depression episode.
Time will tell what happens but there is little to do besides staying and waiting or leaving and coping with the reality of all this.
I had my kid at 19 and I am a single dad that had to go trough the same stuff as your boyfriend AND standing up on my own for my son.
It fucks you up. Or you cope with reality and make the best out of it or you sink.
You can confront him, you have every reason to. But what will you do then? If he denies, will you believe him? Will you trust him if he gives explanations for all those times you couldn't sleep over or he went to the bathroom? If he confesses to use 'a bit'? A lot? If he promises to stop?
Law enforcement needs proof. You don't. Fact is, you don't trust him. Being in a relationship with someone you don't trust is terrible. Unless you see a way for him to earn your trust – break up.
I agree with ya bf it can defo be traumatic in the case of rape but that life did nothing to be created it's innocent for you personally I'd just say Keep on top of your birth control it's that simple don't allow yourself to be in a situation of accidental pregnancy if your not ready or oh the horror try celibacy?? Just a thought but if that's too outdated practice safe sex and have a plan for pregnancy cus reality it's 2 against 1 YOU being the one if it's his he is Gunna want it to live the fetos/ baby wants to live that's why it keeps GROWING
So we all were at a house party, the host was another friend from college and our group isn’t as close to them as we all are. The house party I got black out drunk and ended up kissing the host’s husband. I didn’t mean to and it was terrible, it was to a point where I didn’t know what was happening. I discussed this one my friends from the group( the birthday person) because she was in a similar situation before and I thought I could talk to her judgement free and she would know how I feel. I told my boyfriend after that and he lost it and wanted to talk to these people because they also were at the house party. My bf is a very emotional person.
Thanks. I figured I'm being naive, I definitely have one insecurity issues. We have a good relationship but it has been rocky at times (pun intended). I won't even ask about it, I'll just 86 it and leave it alone. Thanks for the reply!
Boyfriend touching you without consent is not ok. Wife taking boyfriend’s side is even worse. Don’t even get me started on having a child before discussing it with you. They don’t respect you. You deserve better than what they’re giving you. And don’t worry about stress causing a miscarriage. The likelihood of that is almost zero.
I don't think you're going to get any advice you like on any legitimate sub. You're just gonna have to deal with the fallout from the situation you caused. All you can do is leave him alone and most likely have to find new friends. And if these new friends find out what you did you'll probably lose them too. Sorry! You might not have any way of fixing this.
There have been a few on here that have been rude saying it doesn't and shouldn't matter how I feel but it has been alot of help from most of the people. Such a beautiful thing really. Gives me hope for the internet yet.
Next steps? 1- Acknowledge that feelings are complicated. 2- Show her some empathy if you care about her. 3 – If you felt awkward, evaluate if maybe it’s because of your own personal insecurities. 4- tell her how her actions made you feel and ask for acknowledgment of your discomfort.