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if you feel like you need a medical diagnosis for your husband to “not bother” you about sex (instead of, you know…just saying no when you don’t want it), you shouldn’t be married to that person.
We have been together for 3 years, known each other for 6, we started long distance, now we live together.
I have always had a very hard time with him watching porn, since to me it feels like cheating. It gives me physical pain,
At a certain point you need to back this up by voting with your feet, then turning your back and walking away from people who are hurting you physically and emotionally.
I can't tell you what to consider infidelity or cheating. That's a value judgement and whatever you personally decide is cheating in your own relationship, you're right. If you just can't tolerate it and just can't take it sitting down. Then you just can't. If you don't want anything to do with porn and erotica, then you're right not to.
You don't need to stay in your seat and keep watching drama that you detest and which makes you cringe. At a certain point you have to get up and leave the theater because you're the one paying to be there. Even if that means looking like the “bad guy” for a short period of time. You're not a captive audience and you are not a victim. You're choosing not to walk out the exit doors.
I wouldn't advise anyone to tolerate a repeated pattern of cheating in their relationship.
when I think about it. As soon as I'm not by his side, all I imagine is just him looking at girls jerking off.
I wouldn't say that intrusive thoughts and obsessive thoughts like this are, specifically about your boyfriend's masturbation habits or choice or erotica.
It sounds like you have betrayal trauma or abandonment trauma.
Obsessing about what kind of smut your boyfriend watches when you're alone is about not wanting to think about your own past trauma which is scarier and makes less sense to you. It's about believing you need to stay stuck.
I honestly don't know what to do, and I just hope someone has been in a similar situation like me, and they found a solution.
Your boyfriend isn't some kind of problem that you need you solve or an urgen deficiency you somehow need to correct.
He's perfectly fine being just the way he is. He's always been like this.
You're the one terrified of setting a boundary here.
Unfortunately your husband is not carrying his weight in regard. It is important you both get good sleep. It’s imperative but if that means sometimes one gets suboptimal sleep, that burden should be shared. You should have a Frank discussion with him.
Your past is nothing at all, OP. You don't owe a current the down & dirty details of things you've done with others and seem to have a real fear of being judged by your very, very basic sexual past. It also sounds like you were SA'd by that one dude, so you really really don't need to talk about this if you don't want to. Your current should not have these really granular details about x thing that you did with x guys? It's kind of a creepy standard? You shouldn't have lied, though.
Do not marry this immature man child. Marry an emotionally mature adult who will be so bloody happy to marry you they will choose hideous flower arrangements with you and never say a word.
How would you spend your all life with someone whose smell you can't manage? Are you in a marriage or just boyfriend-girlfriend time pass relationship? I don't like your smell. I won't kiss you am leaving you. So weird.