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AnabelleWayne Public Chat Channel
Date: October 17, 2022
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Is your lover Samantha’s mom? Is that why you two knowingly ignoring that your youngest assaulted her? Did you even apologize and admit your ALL wrongdoings to Samantha?
I would post on sm that you hope he gets help for his tramas. But that you are not able to help him. I bet you could easily find sources that support the psychology to share.
So first I guess I need to say boundaries are good. Setting some up with your step son makes sense. Having him in your home, presumably where he was living while using and also while you are not there is ludicrous. Bad for all parties. It’s almost like working against him to send him back so soon after rehab and with no accountability.
However I want to take a moment and point out something here. That sentence that’s starts “the thing is” … it literally made me cringe.
I, like your step son, was raised by a child father. By my count your husband was 19 when he had this child. If I can quote a country singer I like, “you can’t expect a harvest with the field half grown.” In other words, it’s statistically very likely for children born of other children will have more issues down the line.
I get the struggle your husband has had. My wife has been a mother since she was 18. We struggle every day to make better decisions than our parents who were in similar situations, but in the long run we get how they will need a little more runway than most to take off. Since we brought them into this world it’s our job to give them that.
ok well feel free to waste more of your time until he dies.
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What’s bothering you? That she slept with someone whilst you were broken up or that she slept with someone that she’d told you not to worry about when you were together?
If it’s the first one, then get over yourself. You were split up, end of.
If it’s the second one, then that’s a little different, but you really need to talk it over and explain why it’s a problem to you.
Truthfully though, if the relationship is still based on lies then it’ll be better for both of you to split for good.
Everyone is saying to leave, but you described your relationship before this and it sounded really happy and fulfilling. To me, it sounds like it may be worth working through and seeing how it goes. I'd stay and then later on see how i still feel about everything. See how she handles this situation and if she's putting in the effort to make it healthy. See how she respects your new boundaries moving forward. If she's not putting in the work or if you don't feel like the relationship is salvageable then you can decide a new course of action