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Cheating isn’t a mistake. It’s a series of conscious choices to do something that most people know to be wrong.
A person can be justified in leaving a marriage/relationship for any reason. They are never justified in cheating, all that does is turn yourself into a POS before you go.
Still, you’ll be getting a taste of that when the songwriter goes off with the next woman, because a guy who will go after a woman with kids isn’t going to be some trustworthy life partner now is he? He’s shown his lack of morals and values as well.
The fact you’re becoming self aware of it is a GREAT first step!!!! Bring that up to your therapist immediately. Ask her for advice. You and your boyfriend may need to take a little step back, but you don’t need to break up. Having a support system on your mental healthy journey is extremely important and it sounds like he WANTS to be there for you.
If you’re comfortable with it, maybe you can have your boyfriend come to an appointment to have a general conversation all together to discuss how to cope with certain behaviors in a healthy way as a team etc. to try and prevent the cycle of abuse you may have started. This way there is some accountability by having a formal plan of action made in front of the therapist AND agreed upon between the two of you who are actually in the relationship. Does that make sense? It could be really helpful for your boyfriend to learn a few ways on how to help diffuse high emotion times. With BPD, when you’re in the moment it can be so difficult to recognize your own rationality and I completely understand that, so to have someone who sounds so kind and understand be able to delicately diffuse the situation would be a godsend!
Being brutally honest: It seems she may still have love for you, but attraction wise for whatever reason – she doesn’t want it in the bedroom with you anymore.
Her demanding you to “respect her boundaries and decisions” is a load of crap – YOU ARE MARRIED, let alone in a relationship. She’s basically telling you to sit there and shutup while she cheats and does what she whatever she wants.
If you haven’t agreed to an open relationship, then that is CHEATING, and not how a relationship works. Honestly speaking, I think the marriage is over, as she seems dead set on doing all of this. If you want to try salvage it – you can try out couples therapy/counselling and maybe talk with her about really changing things up in the bedroom… but like I said before.. I don’t know if that will make a difference at this point honestly.
yeah, maybe your partner is OK with being treated like your maid, maybe at other times he hands you something to be thrown away and there's a happy balance. Fact is that it bothers OP, and she's seen it as a pattern, and he's admitted that he does it to his employees. So he's treating her worse than his employees, because at least his employees get paid to handle his shit.
Cheating isn’t a mistake. It’s a series of conscious choices to do something that most people know to be wrong.
A person can be justified in leaving a marriage/relationship for any reason. They are never justified in cheating, all that does is turn yourself into a POS before you go.
Still, you’ll be getting a taste of that when the songwriter goes off with the next woman, because a guy who will go after a woman with kids isn’t going to be some trustworthy life partner now is he? He’s shown his lack of morals and values as well.
Rape isn't cheating. Even if it hadn't been rape, you were broken up and ergo anything you did wasn't cheating.
I don't think this sounds like it was ever a healthy relationship. You should leave him.
Maybe her manager was upset with her work or something and when you called him it mightve made her look bad.
The fact you’re becoming self aware of it is a GREAT first step!!!! Bring that up to your therapist immediately. Ask her for advice. You and your boyfriend may need to take a little step back, but you don’t need to break up. Having a support system on your mental healthy journey is extremely important and it sounds like he WANTS to be there for you.
If you’re comfortable with it, maybe you can have your boyfriend come to an appointment to have a general conversation all together to discuss how to cope with certain behaviors in a healthy way as a team etc. to try and prevent the cycle of abuse you may have started. This way there is some accountability by having a formal plan of action made in front of the therapist AND agreed upon between the two of you who are actually in the relationship. Does that make sense? It could be really helpful for your boyfriend to learn a few ways on how to help diffuse high emotion times. With BPD, when you’re in the moment it can be so difficult to recognize your own rationality and I completely understand that, so to have someone who sounds so kind and understand be able to delicately diffuse the situation would be a godsend!
Being brutally honest: It seems she may still have love for you, but attraction wise for whatever reason – she doesn’t want it in the bedroom with you anymore.
Her demanding you to “respect her boundaries and decisions” is a load of crap – YOU ARE MARRIED, let alone in a relationship. She’s basically telling you to sit there and shutup while she cheats and does what she whatever she wants.
If you haven’t agreed to an open relationship, then that is CHEATING, and not how a relationship works. Honestly speaking, I think the marriage is over, as she seems dead set on doing all of this. If you want to try salvage it – you can try out couples therapy/counselling and maybe talk with her about really changing things up in the bedroom… but like I said before.. I don’t know if that will make a difference at this point honestly.
Years ago pain was not a qualifying factor for SSI disability.
I don’t know if that has changed
She’s entirely too old/been around long enough to not know this is bad. I say you stop taking her calls.
You say this, & you get a vasectomy. Period.
yeah, maybe your partner is OK with being treated like your maid, maybe at other times he hands you something to be thrown away and there's a happy balance. Fact is that it bothers OP, and she's seen it as a pattern, and he's admitted that he does it to his employees. So he's treating her worse than his employees, because at least his employees get paid to handle his shit.
YTA, wife always comes first given a promise made, which is now promise broken