![](/cs/camsoda2500.jpg")
0 views
Press right there to start video or
Room for online sex video chat BlondDolly_TheAnimal
Model from: de
Languages: de
Birth Date: 1983-04-27
Body Type: bodyTypeAverage
Ethnicity: ethnicityMixed
Hair color: hairColorBlonde
Eyes color: eyeColorBlue
Subculture: subcultureGlamour
Date: October 17, 2022
I agree she will have to move on but the digging would be for closure/answers and to tell his wife what a POS she’s married to.
It hurts to think so
Keeping her options open = keeping her legs open. Kick her to the curb!
She didn’t wear those revealing shirts tho.
Yeah, all she misunderstood was that you were ok and willing to cheat on your wife with her. Why would you want someone like that to be your friend?? That actively shows that she IS a bad person.
You're genuinely fucking up big time if you choose to stay friends with this person. How about respect your wife's boundaries since she was hurt in all of this and is likely terrified that it's going to happen again. You're being incredibly unfair and inconsiderate toward your wife
Cool opinion, but to redirect, this thread is about OP, not you. Not sure how to interpret your comment as advice other than “just think the way I think”, or something like that. ?
Thank you so much for your response. I didn't think by not challenging I was validating her but you are 100% correct. I didn't realize that and I'm glad you said it.
I tend to not challenge her because she always finds a way to twist my words even when I'm doing it in a supportive way. Heck, even when I'm not challenging her. If she shows interest in an event I'm going to and then later I extend an invitation to the event, she says I'm pressuring her to go. So now, I just say, “let me know if you'd like to go”, but then later sometimes she's upset that I didn't remind her about it. I just know whatever I do she's going to be a little miffed and I don't let it bother me.
I do agree about her having narcissistic tendencies. I don't know if she's ever been diagnosed as a narcissist (probably not because she doesn't really agree with therapy) but it wouldn't surprise me.
You also bring up another great point about she might accuse us of having an affair. I've actually been a little worried she's even setting that one up. She's always been very jealous of other women. He is as loyal of a partner as they come and insanely respectful to women. So much so, that most people assume he is gay, simply because they feel extremely comfortable around him and he never makes a pass or acts inappropriately. In the industry where he and I worked and first met, that's very rare, so people just assumed he was gay. He's definitely not though. We are just friends and have always been just friends. I'm married and my husband has always been extremely supportive of our friendship. In the beginning of their marriage, she was always jealous of me but I earned her trust and that calmed down.
But lately, she's been setting up “dates” between him and I. My husband is disabled so she had her husband take me out to a nice dinner and show for my birthday. It was her idea and she approached me before telling him. Sometimes on our family dates, she will cancel saying she doesn't feel well and keep their kid home but absolutely insist he and I still meet up. It always bothers me because I know she will later complain that he's getting more time with me and I feel like she's using it as ammo for in the future, like to accuse us of an affair if there's a divorce.
He and I are careful to stay in public places and respond quickly to her texts when she texts us while we are out together. Although lately she's been “popping in” to say hi to him when he runs errands or he and I are together. I'm pretty sure she has a tracker on his car. He's not worried because he says it'll just prove he's always where he's supposed to be but I don't trust those things to always be accurate and I wouldn't bet my daughters custody over it. He also doesn't think she's tech savvy enough to do that, but most of her family members. It's definitely something I'm keeping an eye on.
Thank you again for such a helpful response and I agree, I'll shift my focus to my friend