After being a bum for much of my 20s, I do really value money and success now. And I need a partner who is there for it with me instead of someone who is holding me back.
He replied I’m not his daughter or his wife and we “don’t have that type of relationship.”
I'd definitely dig deeper into what he meant by this. You've been together for 2 and a half years, right? Does he not see you as someone he'd marry? If not, what a waste of time (assuming you're not just with each other for fun).
Anyways, he's being immature. If you see yourself being with him longterm, he needs to grow up. My husband saw me poop while I gave birth to our child; there's much grosser things to behold than a queef.
Overthinking huh, I guess that's right. I need to stop this, sometimes distraction work, like I go hangout with my friends or just watch something or play single player games. Is this the only way? Do I have to distract myself everytime this comes up?
I know for the fact, based on my story I should have nothing to worry about, yet the worry is always there.
At this point I just want this jealousy feeling and sick feeling on my stomach whenever I see her play with them just go pack their stuffs, go away, and never come back.
It's not a big deal, shouldn't be a big deal, yet they won't go away and I'm sick of them
After being a bum for much of my 20s, I do really value money and success now. And I need a partner who is there for it with me instead of someone who is holding me back.
Find a better boyfriend. You got a lemon
She’s not my first love and there’s no one like her it feels like an addiction how much I need her so I have no idea what to do
He replied I’m not his daughter or his wife and we “don’t have that type of relationship.”
I'd definitely dig deeper into what he meant by this. You've been together for 2 and a half years, right? Does he not see you as someone he'd marry? If not, what a waste of time (assuming you're not just with each other for fun).
Anyways, he's being immature. If you see yourself being with him longterm, he needs to grow up. My husband saw me poop while I gave birth to our child; there's much grosser things to behold than a queef.
Overthinking huh, I guess that's right. I need to stop this, sometimes distraction work, like I go hangout with my friends or just watch something or play single player games. Is this the only way? Do I have to distract myself everytime this comes up?
I know for the fact, based on my story I should have nothing to worry about, yet the worry is always there.
At this point I just want this jealousy feeling and sick feeling on my stomach whenever I see her play with them just go pack their stuffs, go away, and never come back.
It's not a big deal, shouldn't be a big deal, yet they won't go away and I'm sick of them
You are not a possession. You have a right to say no. Don't let your husband bully and coerce you into doing anything your not comfortable doing.