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Definitely a big move to make before marriage…you got yourself into a tough situation.
There are two possibilities here. Either this is who he is and you’ve got a long-term problem to deal with, in which case you need to get out of there. Or, he’s bad at dealing with stress and this is a short-term problem, in which case you need to think hard about how much you’re willing to put up with.
Either way, it sounds like you’re more invested in this relationship than you’re ready to be and finding a way to step back is a good idea. It might cost some money but lessons aren’t always free.
You want to be a trauma counsellor but also want to potentially divulge someone’s trauma (if you’re right) without their consent? You don’t help people by doing that. Especially people who have been abused and had their consent already taken away from them. You are taking away his choice on how and when he feels comfortable telling his very private story.
And we don’t even know if he has that sort of trauma, or if your newness to this area is reading the situation wrong.
Yeah after he ignored her SHES the problem?
You’re so wrong on this dude
Jesus
If I had to guess, she used you to get to a better country than her home country, you were willing to support her and have the means to do so. You are a stepping stone for her and now after she’s had this child, sprinkle in some PPD on-top of this deceptive mess, she’s gone totally unhinged
She wants to keep you around so you can keep paying the bills, take care of the kid while she goes out and lives her life gobbling all the dicks within the local population.
I do not see any reason to stay with her. Divorce and let one of the other men she is seeing, bankroll her.
The child will be infinitely better off in a single parent household where this woman is not any type of role model to an impressionable child. If your concern is protecting the child, you need to leave this woman
Yeah you made a promise to someone you trusted, who then cheated on you for half of your relationship. Don’t reward her cheating, let her deal with the membership fees.
Why? This is not an adult response.
Yeah, I think after marriage the calculation changes but before that you're not obligation to keep taking care of someone or be connected to them romantically if you're no longer feeling it. It doesn't matter if the reason they're no longer meeting your needs is their fault or not.
Now, you may love someone enough that it makes it worth it to stay with them through unenjoyable challenges, so I'm not advocating that people bail at the first sign of adversity, but I would hate so much finding out that my relationship was a net negative for my partner or was missing an essential component for romantic love and that he was staying with me out of guilt.
Not to mention that he was never active duty military so he probably doesn't have PTSD or anything. Sure, he could be depressed, but he could also just not care about certain things when he's not being forced to care about them. That's a legitimate position for him to take and also legitimate for her to not be attracted to, though if her issue is primarily the weight gain then that's a risk in nearly any case and I don't know how she's going to handle any long term relationship.