He's not burying his poop anymore and if he was regular we would be ready to clean it up right away and this wouldn't be such a problem. The litter box is cleaned at least twice per day as our schedule permits and ad hoc when we get a poop bomb.
It worries me too that he's being force fed, but the alternative is free feeding and he refuses to touch the medicated food. He lost a lot of weight before my partner started feeding by hand.
I'm the first one to wake. I get started on a few things before waking up my daughter. It's best to clean up before I have to run after a toddler. When the mess is in the basement I am able to wait for my partner to take care of it.
Is it truly possible for her to change? Or do I just need to accept this is who she is and compromise on my end?
Sure, it's possible for her to change, but she has to want to and she has to work hard at it.
The real question is: After a year of dating and seeing how selfish she is, do you want to stick around longer to find out whether she will ever fix herself? And if she does, how long it's going to take?
I wouldn't; I used to be with the male equivalent of her. I left him because the endless selfishness sucked the joy out of life! Immediately upon leaving him my life became happier and much more hopeful! There was time and energy for ME and for POSSIBILIES. Do yourself a favor and date more women; you're only 23yo.
What? It was appalling for them to bring it up in the first place, and even more so to go through with it after the initial reaction, but OP said yes when she didn’t want to. That’s on her. She lied about her own boundaries and that’s why we don’t do that.
They missed my gallbladder issues after my first born, called it muscle cramps. Diagnosed properly after my second kid. Waited 6 months for surgery and honestly would never want to go through that pain again. I remember rocking and crying for death at one point. Glad to see they’re gonna focus on her health first.
How big is the venue? If it's a decent size, everyone can attend and not interact with each other. They're supposed to be adults. They should act like it. You can't spend the rest of your life having to choose who comes to your events and who doesn't.
What is this app you downloaded that shows you this op?
Sorry, did you date someone who set a boundary about how you choose to wipe your ass?
Apples to oranges.
He's not burying his poop anymore and if he was regular we would be ready to clean it up right away and this wouldn't be such a problem. The litter box is cleaned at least twice per day as our schedule permits and ad hoc when we get a poop bomb.
It worries me too that he's being force fed, but the alternative is free feeding and he refuses to touch the medicated food. He lost a lot of weight before my partner started feeding by hand.
I'm the first one to wake. I get started on a few things before waking up my daughter. It's best to clean up before I have to run after a toddler. When the mess is in the basement I am able to wait for my partner to take care of it.
You dont have to do everything together. He can go to sleep while you party
Is it truly possible for her to change? Or do I just need to accept this is who she is and compromise on my end?
Sure, it's possible for her to change, but she has to want to and she has to work hard at it.
The real question is: After a year of dating and seeing how selfish she is, do you want to stick around longer to find out whether she will ever fix herself? And if she does, how long it's going to take?
I wouldn't; I used to be with the male equivalent of her. I left him because the endless selfishness sucked the joy out of life! Immediately upon leaving him my life became happier and much more hopeful! There was time and energy for ME and for POSSIBILIES. Do yourself a favor and date more women; you're only 23yo.
Yes pls edit it a bit to make it more readable and easier to understand and try to help
What? It was appalling for them to bring it up in the first place, and even more so to go through with it after the initial reaction, but OP said yes when she didn’t want to. That’s on her. She lied about her own boundaries and that’s why we don’t do that.
Good point, I didn’t even think of that.
They missed my gallbladder issues after my first born, called it muscle cramps. Diagnosed properly after my second kid. Waited 6 months for surgery and honestly would never want to go through that pain again. I remember rocking and crying for death at one point. Glad to see they’re gonna focus on her health first.
I don’t get how uninviting isn’t an option… this is literally your wedding. He can F off if he’s going to do a “joke” on the bride and groom.
No you’re covering for his blatant racism.
Quit being kind. Both your bf and his “friend” are treating you with massive disrespect.
How big is the venue? If it's a decent size, everyone can attend and not interact with each other. They're supposed to be adults. They should act like it. You can't spend the rest of your life having to choose who comes to your events and who doesn't.