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Date: October 11, 2022
My first love told me that I couldnt tell his girlfriend, whom I didnt know existed until the morning after, that we slept together. He said shes all I have”. After the night before telling me “I dont know what I would do if anything ever happened to you, I love you”.
I told her because I thought she should know and he told me to kill myself. I have a feeling your ex might have a similar reaction. Hes not your friend
Its normal to feel like this, however you can't be upset over someone's past. You two didn't probably didn't know each other so it's not fair to judge someone on that. If you're troubled over someone's past then talk to them about it so you can both find a solution. If she's saying it didn't mean anything then you need to try and trust what she is saying, she's with YOU and it's not fair to her if you're carrying around all this anger just because of what she's done.
Is he generally an idiot? Or is he just racist? Because there is a huge difference between Spanish and Hispanic, and his failure to process that is beyond moronic. To the point where I'd say he's being deliberately obtuse.
Unless it’s a consensual kink it’s legit abuse and will only escalate. Your loved one should never look down on you, never gaslight you, and never insult you. You know what you need to do. If he asks why you’re breaking up, tell him it’s his words, his behavior, and character.
Man here – that’s cheating.
Is there any way that I can tell them that might not make them as upset?
Absolutely not. They are believers. They literally believe you are endangering your mortal soul. You're also taking this stand the day before a major Christian holiday. It's a big deal.
They will be upset. Now it's up to you to decide if you want to be uncomfortable at mass or uncomfortable with your mom crying and dad angry (I dunno what he does when angry). Then make your choice. There is no way to do this without upsetting them.
So you were both in agreement with your views up until recently.
If you actually sit down and talk through what you actually feel and why, you will most likely find that most people are moderate. To be extreme right or extreme left is to be impractical to the point of dumbness, where nothing can make sense anymore.
Try couples therapy, it is likely that your views are still not really that far out from each other. Things are getting crazy and you've both fallen into it a bit. Maybe avoid the political stuff for a while.
There must be more than this one drunken event 5 years ago to make you feel this way. Are there other issues with other women?
yes she apologised (which is good) but what does that have to do with her gaslighting him into consoling her for the entire morning and making herself the victim.
she told him he ruined her day/morning for not instantly accepting her apology for her laughing at his biggest insecurity which she knew about?
Booo bad comment
There's an outside chance if any of it could have been transferred inside, but very unlikely from what you say, and you took the morning-after pill anyway. Stress and anxiety can cause your period to be late or not happen at all, so try to stay calm. It'll be fine.
I'm also complicit in that as I've not said anything
Why? Wouldn't you want to know if you was being cheated on? An anon tip is just that.
This is all par for the course when we're in private
lol what? he hits you and spits on you in private? And… that's okay?
I want him back so badly, but I'm not totally sure if my dignity and respect for myself will allow it. I adore him, with everything I've got, and I'm crying every day over the loss of someone who'd treat me like this, but I don't know what to do. I just want him and that future we had planned back.
A future with a cheating best friend and a guy who hits on you and spits on you in private but crosses the line when he does it in public but it's okay because he's not day drinking anymore? But you adore him other than him hitting you in public?
No offense… but something seems wrong with all of this and going back to him isn't going to fix it.
There are a couple of reasons he wants to keep you in his life. One, he's hoping to keep a spark lit in case a romantic relationship can reignite later once his daughter is a little more grown. Two, he just values you as a person and wants to keep you in his life in whatever capacity he can.
Generally speaking, there's no magic trick to staying friends with an ex. You just put in the work. Whatever emotional/romantic pangs you're feeling now will likely subside as one or both of you move on to other endeavors. When you're 18 and a raging ball of hormones and half-developed personality, the ability to cultivate a healthy friendship with an ex-romantic partner is S-Tier difficulty. By your age, it should be pretty simple. Everyone here is old enough to know how to set and hold boundaries, and how to navigate uncomfortable feelings without letting them hijack.
TLDR, if you want to be friends, just be friends. His position is clear. Rest is up to you.
this is the winner. And then the bf thinks it’s all about his effort? Oh hell no.
The lack of respect is just awful.
Yes this! Cheating no. Absolutly not the right behaviour in a relationship and disrespecting. Yes!
Trust your gut. She was in your room.
You are just too nice thinking about it still. The guy has no balls to accept his “mistake”, so what tells you he is not “forgetting” any other “mistakes”.
You mean your wife left you and drives a fancy car on the support you provided?
Please trauma response is not cheating. Get a grip
Bpd isn’t an excuse to cheat don’t let her fool you into thinking that
I'm 35f, and when I see an age gap like this, I just feel very suspicious. Not sure if I can really provide good insight without knowing more about you two as a couple.
It's your prerogative to believe that. My mind isn't geared towards it so I prefer to focus on the internal solutions for the couple than an external culprit.
I believed you until the fight scene. 8/10 story writing. You need to work on making your fight scenes more believable.
I'd try to see this in the best possible light, giving her the benefit of the doubt. Rather than telling you to F off, she was concerned about your need for sexual release and wanted to help.
I didn’t tell her about that kink.
A hearty fuck no to OP’s fiancé having an abnormal guilt response. Tons of people do not outwardly grieve, and try to keep their life as normal as possible while processing.
is the fiancée being a total asshole to OP? Yes. Is he having an abnormal response to loss? Not enough information.
It sounds like you two are just not compatible, though I'm struggling to imagine any woman who would be compatible with a man who'd go on holiday just when she needed him most.
Right! So ick.
Woman here. I'm in a relationship and I have male friends. Even when single, I wouldn't be video chatting with my male friends for hours and flirting with them. Interacting like a normal person is completely different from flirting and disrespecting your SO and relationship.
Is location sharing between couples an actual thing that people just happily do nowadays?
I just also mentioned in the post that I didn't ask him about marriage at all.
I truly get where he’s coming from, I wouldn’t want my ex to see my new relationship stuff but she’s not on my Facebook anymore in the first place. She shouldn’t be on his either. But don’t automatically think he’s cheating yet.
Why are you with this person is this really how you want to spend the rest of your life with someone who doesn't respect you, why don't you respect yourself enough to leave