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Obviously he needs to pay his bills. I don't understand why you're getting worked up about that. If you don't want his mother to come over and babysit while he works more, then you've got three options: help pay his bills, find other alternatives to childcare, or separate and work out a custody agreement.
If she gets so moody about people rejecting her cookies that it negatively impacts her or others' ability to work productively then I would say that's the point at which management ought to step in and make a policy or at least talk to her about it.
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It's understandable that you may be feeling unsure about your trust in your partner after their revelation. Trust is a crucial foundation for any healthy relationship, and it can be deeply unsettling when it feels like it's been compromised.
It's important to remember that trust is something that is built over time, and it can take effort and communication to maintain it. It's possible that you and your partner have been working on building trust, but it's also possible that there may be some areas where you both could improve in terms of being open and honest with each other.
It's worth considering seeking counseling to help facilitate a deeper understanding and communication between the two of you. A professional counselor can provide a safe and neutral space for you both to discuss your concerns and work towards finding solutions.
Ultimately, it's important to remember that trust is something that needs to be earned and maintained, and it's something that can be strengthened through effort and open communication. If you feel like you want to move forward with your partner, it may be helpful to have honest and open conversations about what you both need in order to build a foundation of trust and create a healthy, fulfilling relationship.
What the hell are you thinking? Block him and move on with your life. He doesn't need a wok. His wife certainly doesn't need your wok.
Why the actual fuck do people sabotage themselves? You have a fiancé. You think he'd want to hear about you sending a random wok to a decade-old ex who is reading your stories every day?
You are clearly doubting your relationship, which you should work out on your own.
Do not involve this ex in your problems.
Of course that is up to you to see it like that. Ma take is, if something is really important for someone he will ensure to make it happen.
Lets say someone wrote him hey i come visit your city by (date) and if we can meet in that time you will recieve 10 million usd. Would you think its still just his personality and he wouldnt answer before that timeframe? If you answer that question with no its not about personality.
I can see you don't want to give up on this relationship, but you should surely put wedding planning on hold.
Have a conversation about the division of work. There is no “helping out”, it is only “taking responsibility for OUR household”. Divide it the way you feel is fair and plays to both strengths. What I mean by that, is if you have high standards for bathroom cleanliness, and he just cleans it superficially when he occasionally does that, take the bathroom as your chore, rather than getting annoyed it is not done the way you like it. You can list out all chores (and include management tasks as chores too, like weekly meal planning, grocery list making, or appointment planning). You can also use ready-house cleaning templates for inspiration. Prioritize yourself and your time off. Take an example from him. He is taking his break just after he finishes work, you do the same. First thing after your work is done do something for yourself. If that is a workout, show, reading, meditating, or baking. But do not expect to be praised for it. If you bake because that is how you relax, don't expect that it counts towards you doing a chore, even if both of you enjoy the cookies.
If things don't change, you will clearly see that he is in a relationship to have a maid, if he wants one he has to start getting real money and hire one.
You’re not compatible
She doesn’t have high standards. She’s just extremely narrow minded. Maybe she has genuine issues with taste, texture, sound, smell etc. Maybe she’s deliberately putting you down. Either way, she’s not making you happy, and you’re not making her happy. You’re not right together. Sorry.
She sounds like a miserable elitist snob who also hates herself deep down and needs to put someone down to feel okay. Which are the absolute worst kind… I hope op refuses to continue to be her “supply” and leaves her.
He's not a good dude. What you're asking is so simple to comply with, there's just no other conclusion to reach.
Fair, thanks!
if you were too drunk to remember, it was r*pe, but i dont know if you should contact your ex on this matter, i think you should instead break up with Abc and try to look into finding a therapist— i know personally therapy can be scary, but it would help you a lot, and it can help your life become more bearable and your able to help yourself
Well, you don’t have to confront her, do you? Smoking is a dealbreaker. She smokes. So you’re breaking up with her, right?
Moving forward, if you want people to be open & honest, don’t give them ultimatums.
You don’t continue a relationship with someone that lies to your face. Lies are a real issue. They are not their true self and you don’t know that person. Liars and cheaters are one in the same.
Your friends should definitely not be buying you panties.
Listen, if you're not pregnant right now, and you guys are having this kind of talk before considering kids, that's good! So . . . He's stating he wants this surety before it ever happens and always has when talking about kids. Typically I would agree with you, except this is something he's always wanted when he's ready to have kids, so it's not aimed at accusing you of cheating.
However, you have a right to feel any way you want about that. Just understand that if you two plan to have kids, and this is something you can't agree on then don't have kids and hope it will change later. This is your moment to decide, right now, if that's a deal breaker for you or not. And if it is, then go separate ways. People can love each other and still need to walk away from each other.
He's not wrong for wanting surety, and you're not wrong for taking it as he's saying he doesn't trust you not to cheat. So this is about you two and what you want in life. Give him that surety if you love him and plan on having kids with him. If you don't want to, then don't, but break up with him then bc it's unfair to expect him to change his mind when he's been fully communicative of his expectation from jump.
So how do we make sure women get the same privilege of finding out their husbands are fathering secret children? Mandatory government DNA database?
well that’s what i was thinking… if it’s just a good friend then i should just let it go, right? no real reason to be uncomfortable?
Yeh she's only 21. She's got her entire life ahead of her, why'd she settle for less? Because she dated him as a teenager?
Just because you feel like people need to put up with a miserable and unhappy situation because your sanctimonious ass says that's the right and moral thing to do go go ahead. But don't judge others when they're not up for taking up that exhausting role.
Ok that was unnecessarily cruel. I’m not wishing a bad outcome to their relationship. These are just thoughts that pop into my head, that I’m trying to cope with. She’s also a close friend that I value very much, which is what makes this even more icky. There’s no need to be so callous, I’m literally just asking to for advice on how to move on.
I would do the same in my 20s as once you hit your 40s wages plateau.
Your arguments for why he should post pictures of you two together on his socials are manipulative. If he doesn't want to, then he doesn't have to. None of my previous or current partners ever posted me, I rarely post them, and while I do have significant insecurities and paranoia within relationships due to trauma and BPD, I understand that it's a bit daft to get upset over something that's.. really not that important? I promise you he loves you and isn't ashamed of you, and it's not the end of the world if he won't post a selfie of you two.