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Model from: ru
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Birth Date: 2001-08-09
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Date: October 10, 2022
Since he said he'll do better he hasn't had a chance to buy you anything for an event/ holiday.
Let this Xmas be his shot to show you.
Say you buy him 5 gifts. Give him only 1 at first and see what he got you. If he did crappy again return the other 4 and buy yourself something. Then dump him if this is a deal breaker for you.
Eh, ditch them.block them and move on he's not worth your time.
Bisexual person shimming in. My partner knows that I would be up for a threesome if they fancy it, but having a casual sexual encounter with someone else is leagues below everything our relationship is bringing me. A million threesomes isn't worth a day without their support and care and strength and safety and laughs.
There is nothing in your girlfriend's behavior that indicates she's unhappy in your relationship. A threesome is just something she did and liked in the past, or wanted to try, but since you're not into the idea she will do without. There are always things you give up when getting into a relationship, even more so when it's exclusive, but it doesn't mean the trade off isn't worth it.
If you have further evidence that your intimate life is leaving her deeply unsatisfied, then maybe you may not be that compatible, but right now nothing indicates that her suggestion was anything but a “nice to have” instead of a “must have”. She gave you no reason to not trust her that's not a big deal for her, so I think you should value her word over the one of random stranger on the internet who think drunkenly bringing up a sexual fantasy is the sign of complete sexual incompatibility.
The food and the money I only bring up bc he also has credit card debt and has looked at the amount he spends every day/week/month and said “damn”. And he only really eats fast food….how am I supposed to see a future of us owning a house and being healthy if we can't control our finances especially our age in this economy and I worry he'll have health problems…he's already had issues with his brain (epileptic like seizures) that were caused by dehydration and malnourishment…I've tried cooking and getting him to eat healthier and he just won't try it.. I understand he is a free person but I only bring these things up for long term potential. I also just don't want people to be condescending because I am painfully aware I put myself here and yes, we are definitely not a match…
If you are the only one on the lease, tell him to pack his stuff and get out. If it becomes an issue call the cops.
My first thought is:
Isn’t it great that I feed them junk? It gives you a reason to keep living.
It is not a healthy thought but it contains the germ of the unhealthiness of this relationship dynamic.
You clearly need a discussion if you are to save your relationship.
If you want the discussion to be constructive, then it needs to be focused and loving.
So remember this is not an opening for you both to unload all the resentments you have each built up over time in different areas. This is a specific disagreement you have about 2 things:
What is a healthy enough diet for yourselves and your children?
Was his “dying wish” a form of manipulation or something serious where he was genuinely intent on and decided against that you therefore still need to talk about.
It is not about whether you or he is a bad person. It is not about whether you or he is a better person than the other. It is about understanding just those two issues plus whether you both are capable of discussing these issues constructively and respectfully with each other.
So you both need to talk, but from a place of love not anger. Without preconceived notions of what the outcome will be. And without veering into any other issues. Other issues can be put on a list for later.
Honestly reddit makes me glad i met my husband as a teenager because Lord knows. The shit people post and what partners expect as normal and even what the posters perceive as normal in these relationships are INSANE!
I'd Honestly laugh in a dude's face if he said this nonsense to me because it has to be a joke.
I've purposely tried to not come on or anything because I know that, but since I have only ever made friends through common interests I have no idea how to get to know people in passing without sounding weird