Good points here. I’m hoping it gets reported, she dumps his ass and she stands by her sister. Even if he doesn’t go to jail reporting it is important.
So if we give your gf the benefit of the doubt and assume she’s not cheating, then the next most likely explanation is that they’ve both been given funds for each to get a room but they’ve decided to share a room so they can pocket the extra money. Which would be fine if the coworker wasn’t of the opposite sex.
Ask your gf if that’s what’s going on. Explain how uncomfortable it makes you. You’re allowed to have boundaries in a relationship. If she insists that her employer has booked the accommodation that way then I would definitely be questioning her motives.
Tell him he passed the test with flying colors. You were about to break up with him, and now you’re going to follow through. Anyone who puts you through hell to “test” you deserves to lose yoi
I had/have a similar problem. For me, it was/is an ADHD thing and wanting to occupy my mind constantly. 5 second lull? Phone. It's that simple. But turning off notifications during social outings helps a lot. Recognizing lulls when they occur and consciously telling myself that I can endure a few seconds between stimuli helps too.
I would tell him you aren't feeling prioritized when you're spending time together and that if this continues, you may not be interested in continuing to see him. Even at my worst, I was not texting or scrolling on my phone in the middle of a conversation on first dates. Bathroom breaks, sure, but not mid conversation. That's inconsiderate of your time and your attention, and your frustration is valid.
I can't speak for all men but personally no it doesn't matter to me if she is enjoying herself and isn't replacing sex with her vibrator
Just dump her.
Ikr, some on here are even trying to get her to play games to get him jealous and win him back!? :S wtaf, lol
Good points here. I’m hoping it gets reported, she dumps his ass and she stands by her sister. Even if he doesn’t go to jail reporting it is important.
There's another comment where OP says he cheats on her constantly
So if we give your gf the benefit of the doubt and assume she’s not cheating, then the next most likely explanation is that they’ve both been given funds for each to get a room but they’ve decided to share a room so they can pocket the extra money. Which would be fine if the coworker wasn’t of the opposite sex.
Ask your gf if that’s what’s going on. Explain how uncomfortable it makes you. You’re allowed to have boundaries in a relationship. If she insists that her employer has booked the accommodation that way then I would definitely be questioning her motives.
Tell him he passed the test with flying colors. You were about to break up with him, and now you’re going to follow through. Anyone who puts you through hell to “test” you deserves to lose yoi
Desperation is a a hell of a motivator to keep going lol
I had/have a similar problem. For me, it was/is an ADHD thing and wanting to occupy my mind constantly. 5 second lull? Phone. It's that simple. But turning off notifications during social outings helps a lot. Recognizing lulls when they occur and consciously telling myself that I can endure a few seconds between stimuli helps too.
I would tell him you aren't feeling prioritized when you're spending time together and that if this continues, you may not be interested in continuing to see him. Even at my worst, I was not texting or scrolling on my phone in the middle of a conversation on first dates. Bathroom breaks, sure, but not mid conversation. That's inconsiderate of your time and your attention, and your frustration is valid.
no shit lmao