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Date: October 7, 2022
reading through the comments, you’re so strong and im so proud ? it’s hard to notice different versions of abuse, which is especially true with emotional. that’s the point, to confuse you and make you question yourself! i hope you find peace, love, and forever happiness without that loser ?
Yeah sounds like a tone deaf creeper
That doesn't turn anyone into an abusive asshole.
You keep saying that it’s a minor problem and you don’t want to dump him over it, but it won’t be a minor problem long term – this is who he is. You are not a priority. He’s 31 and will not change.
Wait, the woman who has been married for the past four years of your relationship is worried about YOU cheating? But you've got anger management issues, you have zero common interests or hobbies, and she's been married four times? I pray this is a joke.
You should bring all this up to him. Maybe he’s had a personal thing go on like a sexual assault or sexual abuse recently. Communication is key.
I'd be pissed as fuck if my partner of several years waited until after his PhD program was done, because it would be too hectic to breakup during the program. Convenience for you isn't necessarily fair.
I'd also be pissed if my partner still wasn't sure if I was someone he wanted to marry, after being together for years. Even though he's admitted he sees himself getting married in the future, just not with me.
You, dude, sound like a trash human being. It would be one thing if you didn't see yourself getting married at all, and she knew that. You do see yourself getting married, just with someone else. You both want to marry, but you can't decide if you want to marry her, so BREAK UP! Stop wasting her damn time.
I totally agree with your statement. I recently had a long term partner breakup with me out of the blue over a fixable issue (he didn’t think we spent enough time together) he didn’t clue me in on for a YEAR, all the while I thought everything was dandy. It really ruins your sense of perspective and trust.
Break up with her OP and do better in your next relationships
Sounds like she has more to confess. Nobody confesses to something they got away with 10 years ago without reason.
Easier said than done from someone who's not been married, but I couldn't continue the marriage knowing this. Ending an affair because you feel you'll marry your partner isn't noble and doesn't make a good enough excuse, she cheated on you.
And speaking from experience, if someone's cheated once they've probably cheated twice and thrice.
I think your message was strange and passive aggressive and would put me off pretty strongly.
Melanie is overly friendly for my taste, but I can't judge her for how her express friendship, some people are just like to their best friend.
The only thing that bothers me is the fact that Zelda have to worry about Melanie, instead of you cheating. If the mental issue contribute to this delusion, can't you just ensure her that this relationship can not be easily sway by Melanie's friendly gestures? Whether you are not trustworthy or she is very insecure even into 8 years of this marriage, Melanie can't do anything about these.
Confirm your wife that she is the girl you are into, no one is changing that, and tell Melanie off if she ever cross the line.
Fatigue is a genuine and common libido-killer, so if the changes occurred when he switched jobs to a really exhausting one, then that would make sense. However it does also sound like he's shifting the responsibility of the issue onto you, which is not really fair.
Take the pressure off him having to perform for a bit and focus instead on the cause of the problem (which is the exhaustion and work hours), talk to each other and see what you can do to improve the root causes.
She should be uninvited from game night for being disrespectful.
“It is very thoughtful of you.” And take her on a $350 date in exchange
Def from cuddling
We often priorities each other in our schedules, it’s just a situation where I can’t do that for him over the next few weeks even if Ide like to, it’s not a consistent thing though. Do you think that’s an issue still?
Frank: Charlie, I need a woman. I need a woman to…to cook for me, and clean up after me, and somebody that will do everything I say.
Charlie: Well, that's just a maid. You want a maid?
Frank: Yeah, that's right, a maid. A maid I can bang. A bang-maid.
You need to respect your wife's feelings
yeah I read it's like 10000 to 1… meaning maybe after i fuck like 10k times I could get her preggo? I got mine in 2019 and they confirmed a year later I was sterile. What I understand is that as long as your seen as sterile you're good, and people don't always check a year later which is when you would know.
I think the 10k to 1 is because of people like your friend who were not sterile yet, and maybe will never be, lucky friend lol XD
{And FYI, his excuses, all classic defensive tactics. Google defensiveness in relationships for more info if you’re not yet familiar. And break up with this guy. People are the nicest in the beginning, if it’s this bad in the beginning, you’re in for a bumpy ride if you stay for when the honeymoon stage is over}
that's the part I was focused on. clearly.
dude said no. that's all he said, she pressed like he was telling her to fuck herself.
For how long have you been on that “texting relationship”?
You're a bit vague on the timings here, OP.
You talked to different guys for 2 weeks, then you deactivated tinder/whatever, then you kept talking to this guy and went on 3 dates with him.. and then you started texting him?
How do the 3 dates fit in these 3 weeks you speak of? For how long has he been sending one text a day?
Have you discussed your relationship? Are you exclusive and/or formally dating?
He might be losing interest because the relationship isn't progressing above the talking on the phone and going on dates. If that's all you've done so far, he might be feeling he was put on the hook,
Walk away man, asap
She didn’t just fall onto his hard cock
She had plenty of times to stop, cheating itself was the apex of what was already going on.
She was flirting with him, talking to him, giving effort she should have given you, and at the peak she cheated as a result of her emotionally cheating first.
Leave man, you got this brother. Sorry it happened man, better is out there for you.
It’s perfectly reasonable for you to not be ok with this. You can’t tell her not to go, but you can tell her you’re not comfortable with it. If she goes anyway, decide what you want to do.
How long have you two been together?
A male roommate is one thing, vacations together is another.
Perhaps incorporating a daily gratitude practice can assist in re-enamoring yourself with your loving, stable, healthy circumstances.
You're using him by letting him take you out to dinner when you have no interest in a relationship with him.
The standard advice for this is nobody should put career or education aspirations on hold for a partner. There's 2 reasons for this. First, it's statistical fact that most relationships begun at 18 don't last. Too much growing and changing on the horizon. The other issue is that, if one person changes their plan to adapt to the other, this almost guarantees resentment down the road.
That said, there may be room for compromise here. Clearly, she's the one with the most specific and immediate plans. So she stays. In exchange for that, she'd agree to be the person most responsible for traveling to you. Do a 1 year test run where you try to find a location closest to her that still offers you something you need or want.
Then look at all of it after a year. Don't distract yourself with the issues about her speaking only English. That's way down the road. Focus more on the here and now.
What exactly are your goals from the relationship? You may both be in school but I would not say you are in the same stage of life honestly.
If you both are having fun right now and its an adventure then fine, but don't be shocked if in two years when you graduate you find yourself staring at an entirely new set of questions in your life, where are you going to live, what career options do you have, etc.
I really don't know why you're getting downvoted because this could be accurate, as it was in the case of my ex-husband. He had obstructive azoospermia. So he was generating sperm, but it literally just couldn't get from Point A to Point B.
There's sperm donors, adoption, seeing a specialist if there's anything you can do for your sperm count…
It isn't over.
Why does your wife's medical information get presented to both of you, but your medical information only get presented to you?
I'd appreciate the apology, but this is too much drama for never having met in person. I'm happy that he was able to recognize toxic over healthy behavior (I feel that line gets blurred too often in the bdsm community), and I'd wish him the best in growing from this experience.
But yeah, I'd walk away from this. You're chasing after a dream when you didn't know his real name. There's likely a whole lot more this guy isn't telling you and it's best not to get invested.
Knowing if your a virgin or not, is a privilege, not entitlement. That’s a VERY private thing. It’s on her own discretion to inform someone or not.
If she’s not comfortable telling him? That’s a bigger reason why maybe she needs to walk away on-top of the coercion he’s trying to pull here.
Charming? Nope. Not charming
Thank you. I feel very strongly that there should be no lies in a marriage. It's the one thing my parents taught me that I've held onto.
People who read a lot develop ways of writing that are above average. You can’t judge the validity of a post on the basis of “it’s too well-written”. That’s just ridiculous.
My feet stink when I work physically…. I take my boots off and hide them down outside
To clarify: they need me to play the game. I’m a part of the campaign.
Sounds like you’re gambling with your life and your future, how long have you been together?
He is awful. Your future child deserves a better father than that.
And you're right that he wants you to give him a baby despite the fact that he will never marry you.
OP, you meant to say “your EX-boyfriend”!
Do you go to therapy at all? It might help give you tools for those conversations. Some people are emotionally draining and we can’t stay with them forever. She sounds like she isnt being open enough with her therapist if she still needs to lay this all on you