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Nope. I separated and filed for divorce before I began seeing someone else. I don’t know if my ex-husband cheated or not but I had absolutely no contact with him except to serve him the papers before I fell in love and slept with someone else.
Unless you’re looking to work things out, you owe your STBX no explanations about who you date/sleep with whatsoever.
Why are you with this guy? He tried to kill your dog, I wouldn’t trust a man like that with my pets.
I am a physician who sees women for prenatal care, and I’ve been pregnant and given birth. Yes it is true that women have very different pregnancy experiences. But your partner doesn’t seem to have any specific issues, and her doc has said she is low risk (YES there is such thing as a low risk pregnancy, but no such thing as a NO risk pregnancy, and unexpected things can pop up anytime without any or much warning… but working during a low risk pregnancy does not increase pregnancy risk).
Unless there is other information you or we are unaware of, you are getting played.
If your son is counting down the days till your home…that should tell you something. I don’t know how long you’re gone for at a time…but to me based on what you have said…SOMETHING needs to change. For you and your family. I don’t know what that is, but it seems like the most logical thing is you should sit down with your wife and talk about it. Maybe you do one less trip per month and she picks up a part time job…maybe you change your budget around a bit so that you don’t have to work quite as much. But it seems SOMETHING has to give…one way or another. For me personally, I know that if my son was constantly asking my wife “when’s dad gonna be home?” It would eat me up inside. But maybe that’s just because of my childhood and the experiences I had. Best of luck to you. One thing I’ll add: don’t quit. Don’t give up. Communicate with her. Communicate with your family. Try. Speak with them about it. ALL of them (including your kids). See what they think about things. Leaving would be the worst thing you could possibly do. Best of luck to you mate.
What do you mean by 'disconnect'?
I’m not sure how a relationship can possibly work without communicating or shutting down feelings.
It can't.
How can I express to him that I’m not trying to “start a fight”.
I'm not sure you can. It seems like it doesn't matter what you say or how you approach it, your boyfriend considers any criticism of his behavior to be “a fight” and therefore…invalid? something he doesn't have to care about?
I honestly feel like i wouldn’t care
I have this feeling like I’m the problem but somehow I’m starting to realise that he is manipulating me and always say that if it was someone else would break up with me long ago
Please look up aromatic, it doesn’t mean what you think it means
That's the manipulation. That's how it works. He does you the “favor” of “letting go” the problem he created only until you relaxed enough he could catch you off guard and BAM. He lied. He wasn't letting it go at all. Now you're disoriented, making you easier to convince because you're partially confused.
You are not the bad guy. Even children know not to give other people their passwords. It's so common sense and yet here he is bald face liar, telling you the whole world shares personal passwords. They don't, OP. People steal passwords.
It's a step below stealing your identity. Especially since FB integrates finances.
What creep is he asking for this information from someone he just broke up with? Don't let him “fix” things again. Cut him out. There are better guys who can trust and love you. This low life isn't it.
Doesn't sound like you have kids. So just divorce. Also sounds like a lot of projection, maybe she is the cheater.
Why is she arriving at a bar with you and texting if she needs a week?
Doesn’t sound any different.
You should straight out just ask her.
The reason why you are hesitating dumping her os because you have been with her 3 years. Those years are lost now. Just make sure you don’t waste any more time on her.
Then stop answering it if it's been answered already? Or…edit it into your post?
Your mother has had a lifetime to acquire, categorize, and index red flags she's seen.
You're 22.
I'm gonna side with the mother on this.
The tears were genuine because she got caught. That’s all she was sorry for.
Probably an insecurity thing. More dicks means more sexual partners he has to live up to (in his mind). It‘s pretty controlling and stupid, but some people are just like that
Doesn’t matter you asked to be exclusive and he got someone pregnant what don’t you see that’s wrong with this
You are too young for this. This is a deal breaker.
yeah, i would say we’re pretty happy, we’re in a good place and he takes care of me. i just am conflicted :/
Nope. Just selfies and stuff that I gathered while me and ex are together
I'd say just take a step back and allow yourself to feel what your are feeling. I have been open and accepting about porn with my wife for years, but it still throws me through a loop when I stumble across hers.
Then separate the issues. He is saying he wants alone time, you are saying you want more together times. I'm just thinking the solution is for you both to get what you want. Talk about the how and what. I know for me, feeling supported in my private time helped me open up intimately again.
Don’t EVER have a child for someone else
What if you break up? Then he’s gone and you’re stuck with a kid you don’t want.
Get the abortion, he’ll live
I went off what you wrote. I corrected myself that you didn’t say you’d deny anyone an abortion. I think you need to work on your written communication skills, but this is also in English and for all I know it’s not your first language.
I think so, although it was almost too good to be true. It was from the girl 22, that wanted an abortion and turned out he groomed her at 12
Instagram @thatdarnchat and the fair play method…. He needs to grow up and be a functioning part of your relationship, not just the one being cared for.
Your post just perfectly illuminates & further enables the massive double standard that exists, which is part of the basis of OP’s post.
If HE tells HER she’s not attractive because of her weight gain, it’s a HE problem. In OP’s case SHE told HIM he’s not attractive because of weight gain, but that was also a HIM problem. Why can that traffic only go one way?
i had an ex pull exactly this same silent treatment to me and our baby for about a week. he literally wouldn’t look or acknowledge either of us, even when his own kid tried to get his attention from his playpen.
fwiw that guy was also diagnosed with schizoid and manic depression and i’m pretty sure he was off his meds when he pulled that shit – when he was on his meds he was literally a zombie. either way it was the climax of a whole bunch of issues i was having with him.
Dude it's not an all or nothing proposition – it usually starts innocently enough but after time they may enjoy each other's company and feel attraction. The loyal wife should see this coming and back away but not everyone can see what's happening until it's too late.
Her promises to cut him off show she knows she crossed a line.
Who hurt you?
Her attitude about being caught tells you everything you need to know. Blaming you for her shitty behavior shows that she has no character and would make an awful partner.
In my country bachelor degree is not enough to be engineer expect IT
We have a child together and makes things so much harder
If he has professed feelings for her, just because she said “i am in a relationship does not mean his feelings will go away or his desire. In fact I think that makes it worse. Your wife is incredibly naive. What is the point of this trip? Can you swing it so you can go too? (That'd be great if you could without telling him and you just happen to be there).
Apparently, you missed the part where I said he answered when I called him. Christ, can you read?
This sounds intolerable. I hope you don't choose this long-term. Sorry to be repetitive but adhd doesn't make you a selfish asshole. I have it, and I have been in your situation many times, but never had his experience. Not once.
He just says he doesn't know why he did that
He does and so does his ex
I think he has started taking you for granted because you are always available to him. Also, you wouldn’t be the bad guy, you’re setting boundaries on how you won’t be treated by him. If his immediate reaction is to be an even bigger AH, he’s not worth any more of your time
It sounds like she is being a matchmaker, not actually using tinder for herself. Would you be upset if she got a job at a legitimate matchmaking company, looking through profiles of single men and single women?
I do like that she is open and transparent about her doing this to you. I am concerned whether her and her friend agreed on doing this together or not. But assuming they did and this is her friend's “work around” to whatever app block she has, it sounds like she is being a good friend.
However, if you are uncomfortable with it, you should express that. What about it makes you uncomfortable? Her seeing profiles of single men? She's not talking to them.
Are there boundaries that would make you feel more comfortable that you can talk out with her? Like, maybe tell her she shouldn't have tinder on her phone at all, and she should only do this matchmaking with her friend, either in person or discord or something.
It sounds like, regardless, this is something that you guys will need to talk out and make a decision/compromise that makes you both feel comfortable in your relationship.
I’ve only ever came close to passing out from being choked. Never have I been able to hold my breath to the point of passing out. Especially haven’t puked or had anyone puke. I am glad you’re pushing him to see someone. That’s not a normal reaction. It’s only when you give oral and not when he finished after sex?
Make a snack. Plan a picnic. Lend her a jacket. Open the doors. Offer to carry the heavy groceries. Ask if you can get her a glass of water.
Divorce lawyer here. This kind of thing is very common during pregnancy and the first couple of years after a baby is born.
Everyone rushes to tell you to divorce immediately, but ultimately, you have to decide what you want to do. Contrary to what you see on Reddit, some couples get back together after infidelity, but it’s going to take a LOT of work. Don’t let anyone pressure you either way.
You’re going through a tumultuous time, please find a counselor for yourself.
He did reject you, he just let you down gently