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Your issue is a reasonable concern. The thing is having similar goals in life is like a requirement for most long term relationships and something that needs to be established before making a huge commitment. I find it strange that before you establish such an important aspect of a relationship you decided to get married. This is something you should always confirm before getting in a committed long term relationship much less get married. This is actually a pretty big issue if you guys have differing goals in life and its worse that you assumed she would change in the future rather than paying attention to what was in front of you.
You should never assume something to happen definitely. The future is unpredictable and the only proof is actions and results. To assume someone will become that imaginary person in your head is idealizing rather than paying attention to the person in front of you who is not that person. I think you made some rushed life decisions and also didn't even confront her and discuss issues. This person is supposed to be your partner. You should be able to discuss issues and set some expectations and boundaries. Walking on eggshells just sounds like a toxic relationship. It seems like you have made a really bad decision in the partner/relationship you chose and the only way to resolve that is to end it. Because the last 9 years already prove nothing changed and she won't change. That is the reality in front of you. It is your life and choice at the end of the day to decide if you want to make better decisions and not waste your time/life.
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I have been seeing my new girlfriend for almost 3 weeks. We decided to make it official after a few dates and consistently hanging out. She's wonderful and makes me feel appreciated. We agreed to keep it simple for now. Meaning no meeting parents or no staying at each other's places under any circumstance.
On Saturday she invited me to “game night” with a few of her friends. I didn't have my daughter this weekend so I agreed. I told her i felt nervous because I was much older and would feel out of place. She assured me it would be fine.
They stay in a house outside campus and when I get inside, I feel the atmosphere and vibe change. Her friends look me up and down and I feel give me a forced welcome.
They're drinks involved. I'm not a drinker but soon enough everyone is pretty drunk. I thought it was funny until one of her friends looks at me and says “Why are you with my friend ? Aren't you too old, you got Grey hairs in your beard ?” I say I don't think so I'm 28. They turn to my girlfriend and asked her “no seriously, why are you with him, he has money or something?”
She hugs my arm and says no he's a sweety and cute. The same friend says I need to find someone my own age. By this time everyone tells her to stop. She did but I felt bad after and asked my girlfriend if I could go home. She apologized and told me not to feel bad but I couldn't help it and went home.
It's been replaying in my head alot and it's hard not to think about it. Maybe I am too old and maybe I don't belong with her.
Obviously you come from a very judgmental culture that doesn't know fun.
Lmao this man deserves better. Do him a favor and kick rocks.
You’re not being dramatic. He brings nothing to this marriage and actively makes your life harder while also complaining about how much he doesn’t want to be there.
Love it an action. He may claim to love you but that’s worthless if none of his behaviours reflect that, and they don’t. Stop letting him pay lip service to your marriage while he continues to drag you down.