I really think that this was something she needed to hear. She knew this when you two got married and she should have decided then if it was something she could get over. It’s not fair for her to continually throw it in your face whenever she gets mad. She needs to let it go. She needs individual Therapy to figure out why she has held onto this resentment for so long, even after 6 years of happy marriage. It is not fair that you should have to suffer through her yelling this at you, and to be honest, if she isn’t willing to work on it I would reconsider the term aspects of this relationship.
I never mentioned getting charged. My advice still stands
just don't continue this relationship
I really think that this was something she needed to hear. She knew this when you two got married and she should have decided then if it was something she could get over. It’s not fair for her to continually throw it in your face whenever she gets mad. She needs to let it go. She needs individual Therapy to figure out why she has held onto this resentment for so long, even after 6 years of happy marriage. It is not fair that you should have to suffer through her yelling this at you, and to be honest, if she isn’t willing to work on it I would reconsider the term aspects of this relationship.