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100%. I am one of those people who cannot use weed responsibly. Call it an addiction, mental thing, whatever. And stopping keeps me from sleeping for a few days, and gives me mood swings and stinking night sweats, all of which strongly incentivizes me to start using it again. It is much more subtle than other addictions because no one is ever gonna die from it, and the relentless legalization crowd has made it really hard to talk about (when what we need is honesty, not prohibition or the insistence that it's a miracle drug with no downsides).
Even with all of that said, I don't get high at work. But I write software and when I get high I get really high, which makes it basically impossible.
I throw them in my knife drawer, my sewing kit, anywhere moisture would do damage.
She is obsessed OP, she will never let go of him until she is ready. Do not be surprised that in the event he DMS her for a hangout she is dropping you and everything to go “get her hair done” at 9pm at night.
I agree with your girlfriend that the first time meeting your parents shouldn’t be during a one week stay at their house. If I was your girlfriend I would get a hotel room regardless.
What does deciding whether to raise the child or give it up for adoption have to do with her body?
If you bother to read my original comment you'll see that I acknowledged that it's her sole decision whether she brings the baby to term, because that is her body. What happens after needs to be a *JOINT* decision. By joint I don't mean him telling her what to do or her telling him what to do, but they both decide together, as a married couple, taking into account the welfare of the child and their current children as well as themselves.
That's how marriage works, you make decisions together and you sacrifice and compromise in roughly equal amounts and you make as much effort as possible to find solutions that don't result in you separating because kids need consistency and two parents who love them and each other in order to thrive. Divorce is sometimes necessary but it needs to be the last resort because the damage it causes, mostly to the mother and children, is massive.
Why is he treating your opinion like a joke but you don't care about his on stuff like decorations? It's just your preference, it's your job to get over it. You're blowing this out of proportion and not enough people are calling you out. My fiance dislikes tattoos but still goes to appointments with me because he loves me and respects my bodily autonomy.
I'm pretty sure it was meant to be person to person. Believe or not there are many people out there who love the smell of farts. No it is not a Fact that all farts smell bad because “bad” is opinionated.
You should really avoid long term relationships because you really aren’t good partner material.
If all it took was four months and some alcohol to get you to cheat (not “technically”, btw—you actually cheated) then you should stick with being single and having one night stands.
None of this is your girlfriend’s fault, either. You could’ve communicated your feelings or at the least broken up with her at any time if you were unhappy.
This is a good comment, and yes it's important to keep it in mind. There's always a chance OP's dad could want to wipe his hands of the family entirely.
If it is cheating, OP's dad is probably going to go through a rollercoaster of emotions. I think the dad has raised OP for over 18 years, so I think it's difficult to just abandon that type of bond with a child who is innocent in the situation. The dad might want some space to think about the situation.
It could damage OP's relationship with their dad if they withhold this information for 4 years just so their dad will pay for university. The dad will feel cheated by OP. Withholding this information might also lead to guilt that could weigh on OP's conscience long-term.
In my opinion, I think the best case would be for OP to talk about this with their dad in private, and let their dad know that they'll always view them as their father, biological or not. It's a tough situation with no perfect answer, but I think honesty and support towards their dad is the best option.
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Rather than playing the scene on repeat in your brain without choice you should definitely chat with her in person because the chances are whilst you’re chatting with her you’ll understand what you really want to do. (Leave or try and get past it) and you can have that peace. Don’t keep playing it in your head. Move forward my friend. You’ll be fine regardless of the outcome.
I don’t understand why so many of you are so desperate to have a husband.
If your husband is a cold hearted idiot, you divorce him. Down the line he will give you so much grief for something else that you’ll regret ever marrying him.
I really don’t understand this level of desperation.
Y'all want productive but cry when you get it.
Didn't even have the courtesy to tell him, he had to find out on his own? Cheaters are the worst kind of people, you don't deserve to be with anyone. If he was smart he'd have nothing to do with you.
He already knows. He's been in love with her, but is so patient & kind, he's protected her by seeking gratification elsewhere. Each time he gets the urge, because she is beautiful, he rushes to the arms of his escort & pretends she's really his wife. The only reason he had to go out so often after lockdown was because of the stirring of the intense desires his intimacy with his ill wife created. If only she knew how he felt! If only he could do all those naughty things to her. But no. She doesn't love him as deeply as he loves her. For now, he will continue to seek solace in the arms of another…
Legal age of consent in the UK is 16, there’s no grooming here and his turning 18 is irrelevant.
Legal age of consent in the UK is 16, there’s no grooming here and his turning 18 is irrelevant.
Legal age of consent in the UK is 16, there’s no grooming here and his turning 18 is irrelevant.
No they’re not?
Honestly, my ex and I had very different opinions about clubbing. He‘d go like every week or every two weeks (and would be proud of himself not drinking for 2-3 weeks wtf..?), and I‘d hate clubbing because I constantly get harassed, the music is loud, people act dumb and it‘s just annoying me (I‘m an introvert too, and also sensitive).
Well, we broke up. And I told myself I won‘t date someone who isn‘t compatible (apart from that he was abusive though so it wasn‘t the main factor I had to leave)
What I‘m saying is: If you two aren‘t compatible, and cannot meet halfway or find another way of compromising, things will get worse. So sit down with your partner and talk about it. Ask him why he isn‘t okay with it, and what he‘d like to do to feel more comfortable with you going clubbing etc.
The chick was definitely in the wrong. If someone has 3 other roommates, they should expect to see someone they don't know every once in a while. He doesn't seem to be at a decent point in his life, so I wouldn't say to keep talking to him. He clearly doesn't have a grasp on morals.
Also yes it's possible to BE pregnant from the encounter but unless she was testing herself every day to make sure and/or has a very short cycle there's no way she could know so soon.
This is very suspicious and I think ABC set you up. She assaulted you and convinced you'd do the right thing if she lied about being pregnant.
She made you break up with the love of your life because you think what happened was a drunk mistake.
If you were a woman and you woke up after a night of drinking in a bed with a naked dude, you'd think SA because no way were you clear enough to consent.
It's no different. You were drunk and couldn't say yes. If it's not a willing yes it's a no.
Tell him his dick looks like a bald rat
If you don’t have trust, you have nothing. She’s gaslighting you.
If you don’t have trust, you have nothing. She’s gaslighting you.
Babes, it’s time for a change.
You want what’s best for him. But it’s obvious he isn’t thinking the same for you.
He totally ignored what you both planned for his own selfish reasons, and you’re right—this is a stab in the back. How can he expect you to be okay with that?
YOU have made so many sacrifices for him.
You’re wasting your entire life, keeping yourself frozen in place, for him.
It’s time to move on.
It’s YOUR life.
Start living it for YOU.
He didn’t stick with the plan. Fine. You will. You do exactly what you had planned to do. Leave him where he is… If he can’t make a sacrifice for you what is the point of this relationship?
You will regret it if you don’t chase your dreams.
It’s time…wishing you a blessing…?
So, you can probably learn to live with this. You can learn to not think about it much. You can say your love is more mature and beyond looks, which is all that matters.
But I don’t think you can ever really emotionally recover from learning that your fiancé doesn’t find you very attractive. You really have to ask yourself whether you want that hanging over your head the rest of your life and how you’re going to deal with it every time he meets a new woman, watches porn or comments on an actress in a movie or TV show, because god is this a pathway to serious insecurity.
Think about all this and then talk to your partner. Maybe he’ll make it right
Maybe he should get checked by a doctor to make sure he doesn't have a brain tumor or something, if this is new. I know you'll be losing health insurance, but.
I've been in a very similar situation, and it never got better – I had to leave in the end and it was the best thing I ever did.
Unless she gets helps, or even accepts that there is a problem then I suspect you will never find true happiness with her.
of course not.
Get it documented. Pull them all into your office, have a colleague there with you. Tell them you know about the bet, and the first one who confesses doesn’t get fired.
Then if someone questions your judgement bring it to upper management and say “I was promoted because I make the right choices. This saves the company from future potential sexual harassment incidents.”
So my sister played volleyball for years, and it gave her and many of her teammates issues with disordered eating, I won’t lie. That said, it’s a physically tough sport and it will work you to the bone, even with enough food.
Is she eating? Have you noticed any physical changes like brittle hair, fatigue, etc? Or is she appearing healthy in her habits, yet still weighing this much?
Quite frankly I’m not concerned with how you like her to look. I want to know if she is healthy or not.
I’m in the UK so that’s actually legal here. I’ve distanced myself from him & will continue to do so, it’s just such a stressful situation, the last part is my thoughts too, I would never want him to be alone with the baby
Oof my husband must try this shit and play stupid games with me..
OP why would u let this man belittle u like this jesus..
Nope the relationship has come to and end .time for her to go
She is apologizing, but is she admitting what she did? Honestly this feels far from over. This feels like something else is going on and you are only at surface level. I'm not sure this relationship is worth your time and effort. You either need to try to figure out what is really going on, or stick to your guns about breaking up and just be done.
So you'll have a couple of years of hitting the bars with friends instead of with your girlfriend. That's hardly insurmountable unless you want it to be. So as long as she's cool with you going out with friends once in a while this doesn't really need to be a big deal. Unless you're talking about having the freedom to date other people, in which case you'll have to break up with her before she makes this move.
you're not conflicted, you're 33, desperate and settling because your clock is ticking. your kids with this man are going to be truly blessed. I wonder if this diplomatic word vomit will convince your daughter ( god forbid you have one) after her upbringing and the shame she'll be made to feel for exhibiting anything other than what her dad wants.
I gave everyone else a heart. As I hope you can see i was sarcastically replying
I see the same people in the gym all the time. I would be asking her why she hasn't messaged if I gave her my number. Or if she needs a spot, or whatever when I see her there. It was a weak move on her part to say the least.
Honestly, thank you for this comment. I am so happy that you and your wife manged to work things out! Thank you for tge advice, I really appreciate it !
Thank you! And just reflecting on this each day seems on getting worse. Just had a call with him for 5 minutes in two days and all he asked about was how is my job going and kept talking about his job.