This post makes me cry because I really feel I am in this same boat. At the moment I am gathering up evidence that points to my wife (relationship of 7 years, married for 11 with two kids) having interest emotionally and possibly sexually with her lifelong friend that lives out of province. He visits town to see friends and family a couple times a year, so I am waiting patiently to see how this upcoming “lunch date” or whatever the fuck you call it when two married people flirt online and then meet up in person. It is killing to wait but I know that any conversation about my concern will just lead to denying what I suspect. As a human in survival mode would do. We have a whole life together and I fear that her concerns about fucking things up will never amount to her being truthful about her feelings with this other prick!
You've posted this 6 times in the last 2 hours. Stop it.
This post makes me cry because I really feel I am in this same boat. At the moment I am gathering up evidence that points to my wife (relationship of 7 years, married for 11 with two kids) having interest emotionally and possibly sexually with her lifelong friend that lives out of province. He visits town to see friends and family a couple times a year, so I am waiting patiently to see how this upcoming “lunch date” or whatever the fuck you call it when two married people flirt online and then meet up in person. It is killing to wait but I know that any conversation about my concern will just lead to denying what I suspect. As a human in survival mode would do. We have a whole life together and I fear that her concerns about fucking things up will never amount to her being truthful about her feelings with this other prick!