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Actually, no. But I've seen too many cases in too many work places.
I hope you don't find out.
Uhmmm yeah. It sounds like he doesn't deserve you.
Sounds like he needs to be in grief therapy pretty urgently (since he’s making suicidal statements), and you need to consider whether you want to marry someone who ever had “narcissistic tendencies”. Sounds like this isn’t the first time you’ve experienced these behaviors from him.
She would have fucked them in front of you. Braless and only wearing knickers with 2 guys, that's where it was heading.
There are times that feel like absolute hell… She always seems so happy from the outside but deep down she’s clearly a mess.
Mel, your GF's abusive behaviors cannot be excused — but perhaps can be explained, especially if you would speak to a psychologist in your city. They may be due to her having very weak control over her own emotions (i.e., a lack of emotional skills she had no chance to learn in childhood). My exW has that problem. If it is an issue for your GF, you likely would be seeing 4 other red flags.
The first is a strong abandonment fear. I therefore ask whether, a few months into your relationship, she started showing strong jealousy over harmless events involving other women — or tried to isolate you away from your close friends and family members? She would view your spending time with friends/family as your choosing them over her. Moreover, she usually would hate being alone by herself.
Second, you would be seeing her rely heavily on black-white thinking, wherein she tends to categorize some people as “all good” (“with me”) or “all bad” (“against me”) and will recategorize them — in just a few seconds — from one polar extreme to the other based on a minor infraction.
Because she also uses B-W thinking in judging HERSELF, she would rarely acknowledge making a mistake or having a flaw. Doing so would imply, in her mind, she is “all bad.” She thus would blame nearly all misfortunes/mistakes on you and view herself as “The Victim.”
Further, to “validate” her victim status, she would keep a detailed mental list of every infraction/mistake you ever did (real or imagined) and would not hesitate to pull out the entire list to defend herself in the most insignificant disagreement with you. Moreover, this B-W thinking also would be evident in her frequent use of all-or-nothing expressions like “you ALWAYS…” and “you NEVER….”
Third, you generally would not see her directing her anger at casual friends, coworkers, or total strangers. She usually gets along fine with them. Rather, her outbursts and temper tantrums almost exclusively would be directed against a close loved one (e.g., against you, a sibling, or her parents).
Fourth, you are convinced that she truly loves you. But you frequently see her flipping, on a dime, between Jekyll (loving you) and Hyde (devaluing or hating you) — often making you feel like you're walking on eggshells around her. Such flips would occur in a few seconds in response to some minor thing you say or do. A few hours or days later, she can flip back just as quickly.
Mel, have you been seeing strong occurrences of all 4 of these red flags?
Just possibly be prepared to break up is all if he doesn't want to live there
It's a great opportunity though
Do you gamble that? I’d put money he marries her out of spite.
Possibly but forcing them to marry when they're not ready may put some cracks in this already unstable relationship. The girlfriend seems to be an even bigger threat to OP's kids than her ex is, so if something gets her out of the picture faster it's 100% worth doing.
Also not living there doesn’t fix this. She can still pretend to be mom and plan play dates.
Agreed, this isn't a FIX so much as it is a bandaid. OP still needs to get a lawyer immediately and have them start handling this unacceptable situation. But checking to see if there's a “must be married” clause in the custody order is something she can do herself without a lawyer and will at least somewhat improve the situation while she sorts out getting a lawyer. It's not a fix, but it is an improvement.
I thought the same thing!!!! I was trying to figure out how he was holding phone ?
Not a death fear.
He is worried you might fuglify.