Dude, have you ever tried to go out to eat somewhere, but the restaurant doesn't have any tables available? So, you decided instead of just going home, you'll try the place next door. It's Mexican food. You like tacos, so what the hell, you give it a shot. Turns out they make the best food you ever had in your entire life. It's now your go-to place. You don't even think about that original restaurant anymore. Except for maybe when you walk by to get to the Mexican place. You feel bad you almost didn't give it a shot, but holy hell, you hit the jackpot.
You essentially are describing love-at-first sight. Two people do not need to start from the same place in a relationship as long as they both get to where they are both happy, fulfilled, and supported by the relationship.
yes mr strong alpha lion you are so smart! better change your profile picture to a lion and post mike tyson and jordan peterson quotes to let them know how much of an independant thinker you are.
She threw away your relationship when she started having an affair. Dump her and move on.
I see. Do you think this is something you could have a conversation with her about? If these things improved, would you want to be with her?
Dude, have you ever tried to go out to eat somewhere, but the restaurant doesn't have any tables available? So, you decided instead of just going home, you'll try the place next door. It's Mexican food. You like tacos, so what the hell, you give it a shot. Turns out they make the best food you ever had in your entire life. It's now your go-to place. You don't even think about that original restaurant anymore. Except for maybe when you walk by to get to the Mexican place. You feel bad you almost didn't give it a shot, but holy hell, you hit the jackpot.
You essentially are describing love-at-first sight. Two people do not need to start from the same place in a relationship as long as they both get to where they are both happy, fulfilled, and supported by the relationship.
yes mr strong alpha lion you are so smart! better change your profile picture to a lion and post mike tyson and jordan peterson quotes to let them know how much of an independant thinker you are.
You sound young and selfish, just tell her she can cut you off and be clean about it
He wants a roommate situation? Sure, let him have it!
Stop washing his laundry.
Stop cooking for him.
For a week or two you take care of only your needs.
After that you tell him: he can have nothing or he can have 50% of the chores done by you and 50% of the chores done by him.
OP, consider moving in with a different set of roommates. They won't feel entitled to your labor beyond the bare minimum to get by and along.
Break up, prioritise yourself and move on. Give another poor soul the opportunity to be his maid.
Where? Not where I am. In the southeast US in a middling small city 300k is a two bedroom max.