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Date: October 4, 2022
hes not your boyfriend then just someone who is using you and has permission from your dad
Isn't in-home day care like an illegal daycare? Isn't unfair to dump the kid with MIL and expect her to work for free? It means she can take one less paying kid. Also, does he want to dump the baby with his mom because he doesn't want to take care of the baby?
To me, it also sounds like now that you are pregnant, he can force you do to what he wants that is to move to his home town, and that MIL taking care of the baby is an excuse he is using. And because you are pregnant, you can't break up with him over this.
You have strong reasons to move to your home town and you know your needs both financial, social, and support. His reason of child care is not a valid reason to move to his much more expensive home town, so unless he gives you other reasons, I don't think it makes sense to move where he wants.
I also don't think he means that he would move long term to your town later. If he didn't want to move, you would never be able to move out, even if you divorced, because of child custody issues. I know it sounds extreme now, but you'd be naive if you don't realize that you could be stuck there for 18 years.
The choice really is that Stark. How utterly worrying and scary.
Block the ex everywhere and start therapy. Your ex isn't the magic bullet, nor is he the path not chosen that was actually some golden road of sparkly unicorns and bountiful flowers.
That's your brain trying to grasp at straws due to normal, mid-life crisis-type feelings. You were a SAHM who is about to lose the last person that was your focus and be an empty nester. I'm close to your age and there's a ton of stuff I've been ruing and regretting because we are now at the point where a lot of dreams aren't going to happen, simply based on time left on earth. You got to get that out of your system, mourn a little, and reframe the present and future to make it what you want. Some other person is never the answer, it's just your inner stuff.
Paul was supposed to know something about how Dave thought about you and you weren't supposed to know about it. Dave sounds unaware of what being a husband is all about. He can learn, sure. We all can grow, but will you ever be able to forget this? I haven't.
I've been with my wife for 16 years (married 8). She said something similar about me and I remember every single detail of that moment. And of the repeated ones that followed.
As a response I over compensate on everything to be valuable. Career success, romance, compliments, house management – all cranked up to a 10. It's a defense posturing to feel secure. As a result we have a pretty great marriage. But the fuel is my pain and insecurity.
I adore my family and wouldn't take back anything. It's worth it. I didn't find out about this before our marriage and children though.