If I try to steal your purse off your shoulder and you grab it back from me, and in the struggle my wrist gets hurt, would you feel responsible?
Of course not. It was my choice to do something I knew was not ok. Just like your boyfriend had a choice to not do some thing that was fucked up that he knew you wouldn't like and would react poorly to.
Don't let him convince you you're in the wrong. It feels like he's laying so heavily on the Trust thing because he's trying to deflect from the fact that what he did was wrong. If he can keep your brain focused on your reaction and how it allegedly hurt him, then you're on the defensive and not realizing how messed up it was that he grabbed you so inappropriately
Get a fucking divorce? Y’all are both toxic as hell
If I try to steal your purse off your shoulder and you grab it back from me, and in the struggle my wrist gets hurt, would you feel responsible?
Of course not. It was my choice to do something I knew was not ok. Just like your boyfriend had a choice to not do some thing that was fucked up that he knew you wouldn't like and would react poorly to.
Don't let him convince you you're in the wrong. It feels like he's laying so heavily on the Trust thing because he's trying to deflect from the fact that what he did was wrong. If he can keep your brain focused on your reaction and how it allegedly hurt him, then you're on the defensive and not realizing how messed up it was that he grabbed you so inappropriately
Setbacks on my end, he’s just being supportive. Medical, financial, currently catching up