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If we go with it not being fake (it is – the other threads here just about prove it), then you are 100% right.
Also, it's not sexual assault or anything, so I don't know what to call it, but it was a sex act, and he clearly said “no” to it, and she did it anyway. Just because it wasn't done TO him, doesn't mean it's not an awful violation.
Could he fuck some hooker in front of her on her birthday, and say “don't worry honey, this is for YOU! We're just trying new things!” even as she told him to stop?
If you’re the only one paying the bills, this isn’t “our” house, it’s “your” house. Not to pile on but I can’t believe when he quit 6 months ago, this topic didn’t even come up. I would assume that two adults living together know how much it costs to maintain the house on a monthly basis. They also know, what’s usually left after paying bills each month so the math shouldn’t be too difficult to do.
Think of it this way. If you face your fears and leave him now, your family will be under threat for now but it will pass. If you stay and get married and have kids, your family will be under threat for the rest of your life, plus you and your kids will be abused. It will get 100x worse.
Look up how to leave a dangerous violent abuser. Many women have had to go through this, tragically. You can find a lot of good advice about how to quietly vanish from his life and help him forget about you. You can do it! Good luck
Yeah don't listen to him. This is entirely his fault and he's entirely the disgusting , controlling one. He's wording it that way to shift blame and feelings of guilt to you. You aren't choosing a dress over him, he's choosing some gross women-as-a-mans-property mentality over you being a normal ass human.
What do you mean, ‘because people ruin good things’?
I honestly don’t care for social media at all. It’s all fake garbage.
Does she want you to post her photos to show people you have a gf. Is she jealous of girls you are interacting with?
Just take a couples selfie and post it wherever she wants you to you. Tag her in it and write a nice caption that you love her. That should solve whatever issue it is that she has.
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It’s unfortunate your friend did not confide in your when the snake Jacob went for her. It may have saved a lot of people a lot of pain. How tra
If we go with it not being fake (it is – the other threads here just about prove it), then you are 100% right.
Also, it's not sexual assault or anything, so I don't know what to call it, but it was a sex act, and he clearly said “no” to it, and she did it anyway. Just because it wasn't done TO him, doesn't mean it's not an awful violation.
Could he fuck some hooker in front of her on her birthday, and say “don't worry honey, this is for YOU! We're just trying new things!” even as she told him to stop?
If you’re the only one paying the bills, this isn’t “our” house, it’s “your” house. Not to pile on but I can’t believe when he quit 6 months ago, this topic didn’t even come up. I would assume that two adults living together know how much it costs to maintain the house on a monthly basis. They also know, what’s usually left after paying bills each month so the math shouldn’t be too difficult to do.
Why this is only being an issue now?
Tl;dr. You need to leave.
Screenshot everything and speak to a lawyer before you confront him!
Think of it this way. If you face your fears and leave him now, your family will be under threat for now but it will pass. If you stay and get married and have kids, your family will be under threat for the rest of your life, plus you and your kids will be abused. It will get 100x worse.
Look up how to leave a dangerous violent abuser. Many women have had to go through this, tragically. You can find a lot of good advice about how to quietly vanish from his life and help him forget about you. You can do it! Good luck
Shouldn’t someone with a medical background be aware that plenty of women’s fertility windows extend past 35 these days?
Yeah don't listen to him. This is entirely his fault and he's entirely the disgusting , controlling one. He's wording it that way to shift blame and feelings of guilt to you. You aren't choosing a dress over him, he's choosing some gross women-as-a-mans-property mentality over you being a normal ass human.
It sounds like she wants an out or an excuse to sleep with someone. Maybe she's already cheating!
Have you thought about batch cooking and freezing to remove the hassle of cooking from scratch for every single meal
Plenty of healthy choices that you could tailor for gym nutrition. You could then eat together, save time and money
What do you mean, ‘because people ruin good things’?
I honestly don’t care for social media at all. It’s all fake garbage.
Does she want you to post her photos to show people you have a gf. Is she jealous of girls you are interacting with?
Just take a couples selfie and post it wherever she wants you to you. Tag her in it and write a nice caption that you love her. That should solve whatever issue it is that she has.