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A relationship is about trust, and you have to build that trust with time. Beginning a relationship does not mean she has to tell you everything about her. It seems she has some issues and sometimes your instincts are right, maybe something is not right. but if you force the issue it can backfire. Sometimes we need time to let sort things out, make time for yourself, and when you're calm speak with her in person about it. You have feelings too and you need to let her know.
It would bother me too. You have a right to be upset and furious. There is absolutely no way that was an acceptable decision he made. I’m so glad you’re unscathed. Everyone has heard horror stories about people losing an eye in a fireworks accident, and everyone knows there are basic safety precautions you must follow when you’re handling fireworks.
You are not overreacting. You have the right to react out loud, to yell and cry and make it perfectly clear that he will never do that again. It’s not a joke, you are not laughing, and that he’s exactly how people lose an eye or both eyes. Take your own distress and anger seriously and communicate that seriously to your husband. Don’t let him tell you for a minute that you are ‘hysterical’ or that it’s ‘no big deal.’ A callous disregard for your safety for the sake of a cheap laugh on a night out is a very big deal.
I will probably suggest this to her as well. Since she will not be taking BC in March, because her doctor advised her to change BC, and before that she won't be taking anything for a month. So maybe she just won't be taking any kind of BC to see if it affects her libido.
Get a drug test for you and your son and demand he take one via text. Only do this after you’re away safe, I’m sure THC stays in your system for months dependant on the type of test you take.
There’s something called respect in a relationship that you don’t talk to ex’s. If you do that okay good luck finding someone who doesn’t care. Ex’s stay in the past
I understand, I have been thinking about going to therapy again, however the waitinglist in my country is quite long when it comes to mental health, and I will have to wait for a few months as I’m not hurting myself nor suicidal. I meant bpd as borderline personality disorder, I was going to the therapist about that for a while after figuring that out, but as my symptoms kind of calmed down a bit and we figured that I was in good enough shape to not need weekly meetings anymore(as well as having the quiet bpd type, my symptoms weren’t too intense, especially after getting help after half a year ish). I should be better at communicating with him, which I understand totally! Just the reaction that kind of shocked me was the immediate anger even after trying to explain that there was nothing bad between us, (which was what he was most focused on in our discussion) and screaming from the kitchen when I said I felt bad for him having to make me food, etc.
A relationship is about trust, and you have to build that trust with time. Beginning a relationship does not mean she has to tell you everything about her. It seems she has some issues and sometimes your instincts are right, maybe something is not right. but if you force the issue it can backfire. Sometimes we need time to let sort things out, make time for yourself, and when you're calm speak with her in person about it. You have feelings too and you need to let her know.
It would bother me too. You have a right to be upset and furious. There is absolutely no way that was an acceptable decision he made. I’m so glad you’re unscathed. Everyone has heard horror stories about people losing an eye in a fireworks accident, and everyone knows there are basic safety precautions you must follow when you’re handling fireworks.
You are not overreacting. You have the right to react out loud, to yell and cry and make it perfectly clear that he will never do that again. It’s not a joke, you are not laughing, and that he’s exactly how people lose an eye or both eyes. Take your own distress and anger seriously and communicate that seriously to your husband. Don’t let him tell you for a minute that you are ‘hysterical’ or that it’s ‘no big deal.’ A callous disregard for your safety for the sake of a cheap laugh on a night out is a very big deal.
I will probably suggest this to her as well. Since she will not be taking BC in March, because her doctor advised her to change BC, and before that she won't be taking anything for a month. So maybe she just won't be taking any kind of BC to see if it affects her libido.
Get a drug test for you and your son and demand he take one via text. Only do this after you’re away safe, I’m sure THC stays in your system for months dependant on the type of test you take.
There’s something called respect in a relationship that you don’t talk to ex’s. If you do that okay good luck finding someone who doesn’t care. Ex’s stay in the past
I think I'll do that. Thank you for the advice
Stay broken up. He gets blackout drunk, and doesn’t remember what happened. He probably only unfollowed her because you found out about it
I understand, I have been thinking about going to therapy again, however the waitinglist in my country is quite long when it comes to mental health, and I will have to wait for a few months as I’m not hurting myself nor suicidal. I meant bpd as borderline personality disorder, I was going to the therapist about that for a while after figuring that out, but as my symptoms kind of calmed down a bit and we figured that I was in good enough shape to not need weekly meetings anymore(as well as having the quiet bpd type, my symptoms weren’t too intense, especially after getting help after half a year ish). I should be better at communicating with him, which I understand totally! Just the reaction that kind of shocked me was the immediate anger even after trying to explain that there was nothing bad between us, (which was what he was most focused on in our discussion) and screaming from the kitchen when I said I felt bad for him having to make me food, etc.
Actually, you won't need to block him since he will likely ghost you. But, hey, he won't exist. Go find someone who is better suited for you.