Some people also don’t have the same social energy as others. OP has a lot of energy for friends whereas her bf doesn’t. I think the fact that he made an effort to show up with you and mingled before leaving is showing that he cares. And OP, you don’t have to go home with him. You can ask him to pick you up or a friend to drive you home or Uber afterwards. You guys don’t need to be attached at the hips
Everybody in here is putting him like the worst controlling man in the world. He is probably just a man child that forgot to pay for it and doesn’t have it and don’t want to admit his error. Having a baby in the hospital is probably very stressful for the both of you, having a baby is stressful!
You have a baby together don’t do it for you do it for the baby. Sit down with him like the adults you need to be an talk about it, put all the cards on the table, this is not going to be the first time you will have to do this. After a couple of productive conversations you can decide what is best for you and the baby.
He's 36 and still doesn't understand female anatomy? Like how many other ways there are to enjoy sexuality? OK. you can try to guide him, but he may be unteachable. You could try getting him some research materials through screen time/web searches, but he may be resistant to learning. From the way he talks, he does not understand sexuality except a shudder and a sneeze=PIV sex. Try talking to him again this time using clear language what you want.
Some people also don’t have the same social energy as others. OP has a lot of energy for friends whereas her bf doesn’t. I think the fact that he made an effort to show up with you and mingled before leaving is showing that he cares. And OP, you don’t have to go home with him. You can ask him to pick you up or a friend to drive you home or Uber afterwards. You guys don’t need to be attached at the hips
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What about an extra sheet on top of you and him but under the dog?
Everybody in here is putting him like the worst controlling man in the world. He is probably just a man child that forgot to pay for it and doesn’t have it and don’t want to admit his error. Having a baby in the hospital is probably very stressful for the both of you, having a baby is stressful!
You have a baby together don’t do it for you do it for the baby. Sit down with him like the adults you need to be an talk about it, put all the cards on the table, this is not going to be the first time you will have to do this. After a couple of productive conversations you can decide what is best for you and the baby.
He's 36 and still doesn't understand female anatomy? Like how many other ways there are to enjoy sexuality? OK. you can try to guide him, but he may be unteachable. You could try getting him some research materials through screen time/web searches, but he may be resistant to learning. From the way he talks, he does not understand sexuality except a shudder and a sneeze=PIV sex. Try talking to him again this time using clear language what you want.