OP, you’re in a common situation for young folks. I also went through this at your age. You both were not on the same page when you had the conversation about sleeping with other people. It’s perfectly normal for you to be upset and it’s also fine that he thinks you weren’t in a relationship and he could do what he wanted. In the future, you may want to clarify if you’re exclusively dating.
You need to decide whether you can get over this or not. You’ve only been dating for 6 weeks so if you’re upset and feel like you won’t get over it, then just move on. 6 weeks hanging out with some guy isn’t worth a ton of anxiety and pain. Just chalk it up to as a life lesson to be more clear on your communication.
Not accusing you at all OP but are you maybe being a little pushy about it? Is he maybe ending up feeling that every time you two do something nice together you’re actually just expecting sex at the end?
I’m just finding a reason here if not for stress. Maybe this is adding more stress for him?
I met my husband after having a kid, and he is older than me. I also don’t like my boobs. While I’ve never mentioned that during intimacy, any time I bring it up he says “I like your boobs.” And he does not want me to get them altered; not that he would prevent me from getting them done, but he’s not for it. Find you someone who loves you and finds all of your self-perceived faults attractive.
“when she came back she was a little stressed for a few days but I never thought too much about it. And she was fine a few days later. It was nothing serious at the time. But in light of recent events I think it her reaction assumes importance.”
My guess is, they had sex and she was relieved because she got her period.
Have you ever loved someone who was in love with someone else? Horrible place to be in, wouldnt wish it on even people I dont like.
OP, you’re in a common situation for young folks. I also went through this at your age. You both were not on the same page when you had the conversation about sleeping with other people. It’s perfectly normal for you to be upset and it’s also fine that he thinks you weren’t in a relationship and he could do what he wanted. In the future, you may want to clarify if you’re exclusively dating.
You need to decide whether you can get over this or not. You’ve only been dating for 6 weeks so if you’re upset and feel like you won’t get over it, then just move on. 6 weeks hanging out with some guy isn’t worth a ton of anxiety and pain. Just chalk it up to as a life lesson to be more clear on your communication.
Not accusing you at all OP but are you maybe being a little pushy about it? Is he maybe ending up feeling that every time you two do something nice together you’re actually just expecting sex at the end?
I’m just finding a reason here if not for stress. Maybe this is adding more stress for him?
Kick him out and tell him to stay with Davo!
I met my husband after having a kid, and he is older than me. I also don’t like my boobs. While I’ve never mentioned that during intimacy, any time I bring it up he says “I like your boobs.” And he does not want me to get them altered; not that he would prevent me from getting them done, but he’s not for it. Find you someone who loves you and finds all of your self-perceived faults attractive.
“when she came back she was a little stressed for a few days but I never thought too much about it. And she was fine a few days later. It was nothing serious at the time. But in light of recent events I think it her reaction assumes importance.”
My guess is, they had sex and she was relieved because she got her period.