18 thoughts on “Hirokogirll live webcams for YOU!”
To think that he did you do the work with cooking for two (you could have had his portion as leftovers for the next day), he let you cook for him for three cooking months. And then he gives the dog the food while everybody who owns a dog should know that there is so much what a dog can't eat.
And if he can't tell you even this and fake for three months to eat your food… i would think about the relationship overall since in s relationship you should speak about stuff and if he thinks he can't talk about “i don't really like the food”, how can he talk to you about really serious topics? You both need to work on this.
I think if your gf can't be out with friends for 7 hours without you harassing her, she's drawing boundaries because you're smothering her. You sound incredibly clingy and needy. You blame your own insecurities on her. “This got me to overthinking”. As though you have zero responsibility for your own thoughts. She is about a step away from breaking up with you, and I can't blame her.
Thank you. I know all the reasons and excuses doesn’t change the way I acted. A relationship is two parts. I should have been better, and I will try to be better.
I mean, the red flags were there before you even got married or “official” even. Personally I'd be unable to be intimate with my partner after this discussion. I'd suggest couples counseling but I have a feeling she feels nothing is wrong. If I was you, I'd seriously consider if I want to stay with someone as disrespectful and gross as her.
When you feel the urge 1. Go out and be with people. Dont be alone. 2. Remove your phone from yourself, go watch a movie at the cinema or go to gym. 3. Immediately have sex with your bf. 4. Dont keep a 2nd phone. Only use a phone that you use for work so that you will be scared to make mistakes while using that phone. 5. Change your phone settings.
There are a lot of self help books to combat porn addiction. Good luck.
You left a girl alone at a club who was drunk enough to make out with a stranger? That’s harsh dude. I get that she fucked up someyhing awful, but was she safe?
I mean I would begin by never marrying someone who can't stand up to their family and say no you're not going to ruin my wedding with your asshattery. But that's just me being crazy.
proud of you, kid. stick to your guns, and hold out for someone who doesn't do any of this shit your ex did. you've got a good head on your shoulders, and women obviously find you attractive enough, so put yourself back out there and have fun.
Dude, I understand marriage and any relationship is hard af. Real question though-are you still unhappy/angry about the move and not processing it well and this may be the flash point so to speak?
I ask because apparently men don’t get to have valid emotions or allow themselves feelings about things as much as they should. So this could be a misplaced response to that pretty reasonable issue. Look, I am applying the knowledge I gained helping my husband see his anger and frustration from my critical illness which led to mad at the world and mad at me for being sick. Because men are conditioned to suck it up, go along, etc- it’s not so easy or acceptable to consider emotional distress. Look, your feelings are valid- just get some counseling to find out where that anger stems from. Good luck friend.
I suspect that hurt is your subconscious telling you that you deserved better than how she treated you, with sadness to discover you aren’t going to get good or fair treatment from her.
OK the edit makes this 1000 times worse. This boy is ridiculous and only cares about your boob size. So weird to show pics of your sister to his friends and pretend she's you. Super fucking weird. I honestly hope you dump his ass, he's seriously not worth it.
It's a lovely photo BTW, and your boobs seem nice if that means anything at all coming from a straight woman
They start by punching the wall near you. That’s not where they stop.
Destruction of stuff is not normal mature adult behaviour. It’s unacceptable in a teenager, let alone someone whose brain is finished developing. Like we give toddlers time out for that shit. And saying he’ll call the cops because your nail scratched him as you tried to stop him throwing around your stuff in a rage? Manipulation. He wants you SCARED.
I usually don’t jump right to the break-up advice, but these are HUGE red flags!! You shouldn’t be made to feel like you’re second best to his friends, you shouldn’t have to beg for his attention. You’ve expressed your feelings, and he’s disregarded your feelings.
STOP apologizing for expressing how you feel!! Your feelings are valid. He believes you’ll never leave him, so he doesn’t have to put any effort into the relationship. If you already feel alone, it’s better to BE ALONE, and feel good about yourself, than to be with someone who makes you feel horrible about yourself!!! And in case you’re not aware, you ARE GOOD ENOUGH!! Sounds as if you’re TOO good for the likes of this guy.
I’m sorry, but it just doesn’t sound like this “man” has many redeeming qualities. Don’t stay in a relationship that makes you feel more alone than you’d probably feel if you were single!
Rip the band aid off! Get out, do it as quick as possible. If you have to save money, then do it, but the sooner the better!
Good Luck, OP!! You ARE worthy! Your feelings ARE valid. You DESERVE better!! Run, don’t walk. Oh, and if you take this advice, don’t allow him to make you empty promises and stay. People don’t change. It’s not impossible he could change, but it’s improbable. Now, fix your tiara, and go live your best life, Sis!
To think that he did you do the work with cooking for two (you could have had his portion as leftovers for the next day), he let you cook for him for three cooking months. And then he gives the dog the food while everybody who owns a dog should know that there is so much what a dog can't eat.
And if he can't tell you even this and fake for three months to eat your food… i would think about the relationship overall since in s relationship you should speak about stuff and if he thinks he can't talk about “i don't really like the food”, how can he talk to you about really serious topics? You both need to work on this.
I think if your gf can't be out with friends for 7 hours without you harassing her, she's drawing boundaries because you're smothering her. You sound incredibly clingy and needy. You blame your own insecurities on her. “This got me to overthinking”. As though you have zero responsibility for your own thoughts. She is about a step away from breaking up with you, and I can't blame her.
Thank you. I know all the reasons and excuses doesn’t change the way I acted. A relationship is two parts. I should have been better, and I will try to be better.
I mean, the red flags were there before you even got married or “official” even. Personally I'd be unable to be intimate with my partner after this discussion. I'd suggest couples counseling but I have a feeling she feels nothing is wrong. If I was you, I'd seriously consider if I want to stay with someone as disrespectful and gross as her.
He is not
When you feel the urge 1. Go out and be with people. Dont be alone. 2. Remove your phone from yourself, go watch a movie at the cinema or go to gym. 3. Immediately have sex with your bf. 4. Dont keep a 2nd phone. Only use a phone that you use for work so that you will be scared to make mistakes while using that phone. 5. Change your phone settings.
There are a lot of self help books to combat porn addiction. Good luck.
yes i agree on that part but it doesn’t matter cause he still won’t believe that i’m not a cheater
Ugh fuck yeah. I thought having a best friend in my partner was worth fighting for but maybe that’s a fallacy.
You left a girl alone at a club who was drunk enough to make out with a stranger? That’s harsh dude. I get that she fucked up someyhing awful, but was she safe?
I’m not being beat or r**d so do I really have it that bad?
Are you serious? That’s your threshold for “having it bad”? Your wife got pregnant without so much as telling you. I’d say that’s “having it bad.”
I mean I would begin by never marrying someone who can't stand up to their family and say no you're not going to ruin my wedding with your asshattery. But that's just me being crazy.
proud of you, kid. stick to your guns, and hold out for someone who doesn't do any of this shit your ex did. you've got a good head on your shoulders, and women obviously find you attractive enough, so put yourself back out there and have fun.
Dude, I understand marriage and any relationship is hard af. Real question though-are you still unhappy/angry about the move and not processing it well and this may be the flash point so to speak?
I ask because apparently men don’t get to have valid emotions or allow themselves feelings about things as much as they should. So this could be a misplaced response to that pretty reasonable issue. Look, I am applying the knowledge I gained helping my husband see his anger and frustration from my critical illness which led to mad at the world and mad at me for being sick. Because men are conditioned to suck it up, go along, etc- it’s not so easy or acceptable to consider emotional distress. Look, your feelings are valid- just get some counseling to find out where that anger stems from. Good luck friend.
If it was a 1 time, no string attached, no emotions thing then she wouldn't be so desperate to talk to him everyday.
I suspect that hurt is your subconscious telling you that you deserved better than how she treated you, with sadness to discover you aren’t going to get good or fair treatment from her.
OK the edit makes this 1000 times worse. This boy is ridiculous and only cares about your boob size. So weird to show pics of your sister to his friends and pretend she's you. Super fucking weird. I honestly hope you dump his ass, he's seriously not worth it.
It's a lovely photo BTW, and your boobs seem nice if that means anything at all coming from a straight woman
Have you seen Maid?
They start by punching the wall near you. That’s not where they stop.
Destruction of stuff is not normal mature adult behaviour. It’s unacceptable in a teenager, let alone someone whose brain is finished developing. Like we give toddlers time out for that shit. And saying he’ll call the cops because your nail scratched him as you tried to stop him throwing around your stuff in a rage? Manipulation. He wants you SCARED.
I usually don’t jump right to the break-up advice, but these are HUGE red flags!! You shouldn’t be made to feel like you’re second best to his friends, you shouldn’t have to beg for his attention. You’ve expressed your feelings, and he’s disregarded your feelings.
STOP apologizing for expressing how you feel!! Your feelings are valid. He believes you’ll never leave him, so he doesn’t have to put any effort into the relationship. If you already feel alone, it’s better to BE ALONE, and feel good about yourself, than to be with someone who makes you feel horrible about yourself!!! And in case you’re not aware, you ARE GOOD ENOUGH!! Sounds as if you’re TOO good for the likes of this guy.
I’m sorry, but it just doesn’t sound like this “man” has many redeeming qualities. Don’t stay in a relationship that makes you feel more alone than you’d probably feel if you were single!
Rip the band aid off! Get out, do it as quick as possible. If you have to save money, then do it, but the sooner the better!
Good Luck, OP!! You ARE worthy! Your feelings ARE valid. You DESERVE better!! Run, don’t walk. Oh, and if you take this advice, don’t allow him to make you empty promises and stay. People don’t change. It’s not impossible he could change, but it’s improbable. Now, fix your tiara, and go live your best life, Sis!