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Thank you for the reply. I missed a bit out as I was getting upset thinking about it all. She agreed to block him after cutting it off and making it clear she doesnt want to see him again, she does share her gps location now but since Im so far away and this person accessed her flat it seems kind of pointless if I know shes at her flat or not. Once I found out she had cheated then I ignored the tears as it was just slowing things down. I dont mind the crying but I told her she needs to answer my questions or we arent getting anywhere.
I know you don’t want to hurt your kid but I’m sorry to tell you but that happened the minute you decided to have a kid with an unworthy man
You know deep down it never should have been him and it’s only getting worse. Children learn through observation and to be frank, if your child is a boy you’re teaching him that being a shitty father is okay and if it’s a girl you’re teaching her that its acceptable to allow it
Too many break up their families over stupid things (or nothing at all) but this isn’t the case here
P.S.
Wtf do you mean his bills and money are separated? That’s not how marriage works from a legal standpoint and you should never have allowed that
If you check your feelings of entitlement to the shared space she has continued to pay for, and your saltiness over the friendship, you can have a perfectly amiable roommate relationship going forward.
Tell her that since she's been gone a while it might be a good idea to chat about how to keep the shared space comfortable for two people again. Don't be a dick and tell her how much more you love it when she's gone and just paying half your rent. Instead, agree on things like:
Quiet hours When cleaning needs to be done how long can dishes be left out Designate a place for her to put your things if you leave them out Respect privacy when in your rooms
Keep it civil and now you know you'll want to live alone when you can.
Some advice I wish I'd been given: when someone shows you who they are, believe them.
She showed you she isn't ready for a relationship or to treat you well and that's fine. You are still involved with the group so a short text saying something like it is what it is but I'm no longer interested will do the trick and keep her at arms length.
DO NOT CONTINUE TO HANG AROUND HER IF IT CAUSES YOU PAIN. no nights out if watching her kiss other guys will hurt. Don't do it, not worth it
Even in how you are writing this I can see that you are not getting the point.
Stop asking him questions about why he likes or doesn't like you.
You know he is an asshole.
Next time he says something rude you say “yeah, you're still not funny.”
They key is to grey rock the shit out of him… give him zero attention other than reacting to his jibes.
Realky calm and loose: “Why are you being an asshole when you're drinking?”
There are a lot of better scripts here.
Why don't you create a few invites and don't include him.
“Why do you keep insulting me. Is this like high school, but instead of pulling a girl's hair you want to suck my cock? I'm flattered by the attention, but no thanks.”
You already are the “other woman” and he is already cheating on his wife. Emotional affairs are every bit as damaging as purely physical affairs.
Neither of you have the moral high ground. If morality has any value for you, you'll shut him down immediately.
Has his wife told you to your face that they're separated but cohabitating until the divorce process is complete? If not, y'all cheating, and he's a lying liar who lies.
I’m not being hosted by the person in question, I’m not sure she pays rent actually I would almost say she and I have equal tenant rights, except for the fact that I’m not blood related
Thank you for the reply. I missed a bit out as I was getting upset thinking about it all. She agreed to block him after cutting it off and making it clear she doesnt want to see him again, she does share her gps location now but since Im so far away and this person accessed her flat it seems kind of pointless if I know shes at her flat or not. Once I found out she had cheated then I ignored the tears as it was just slowing things down. I dont mind the crying but I told her she needs to answer my questions or we arent getting anywhere.
I think I need to sit her down again
Ya, it’s over.
Let her go on her trip. Text her when she’s on her way, telling her to have fun with whoever she wants, because you’re done.
Then block her on everything so you avoid drama.
And schedule an STD because it may not have been her first time she’s wanted to cheat and given herself permission to do so.
I know you don’t want to hurt your kid but I’m sorry to tell you but that happened the minute you decided to have a kid with an unworthy man
You know deep down it never should have been him and it’s only getting worse. Children learn through observation and to be frank, if your child is a boy you’re teaching him that being a shitty father is okay and if it’s a girl you’re teaching her that its acceptable to allow it
Too many break up their families over stupid things (or nothing at all) but this isn’t the case here
P.S.
Wtf do you mean his bills and money are separated? That’s not how marriage works from a legal standpoint and you should never have allowed that
No grown ass man should go for a teen. It’s creepy. Doesn’t matter that it’s legal or not. So that’s problem number 1.
If you check your feelings of entitlement to the shared space she has continued to pay for, and your saltiness over the friendship, you can have a perfectly amiable roommate relationship going forward.
Tell her that since she's been gone a while it might be a good idea to chat about how to keep the shared space comfortable for two people again. Don't be a dick and tell her how much more you love it when she's gone and just paying half your rent. Instead, agree on things like:
Quiet hours When cleaning needs to be done how long can dishes be left out Designate a place for her to put your things if you leave them out Respect privacy when in your rooms
Keep it civil and now you know you'll want to live alone when you can.
Some advice I wish I'd been given: when someone shows you who they are, believe them.
She showed you she isn't ready for a relationship or to treat you well and that's fine. You are still involved with the group so a short text saying something like it is what it is but I'm no longer interested will do the trick and keep her at arms length.
DO NOT CONTINUE TO HANG AROUND HER IF IT CAUSES YOU PAIN. no nights out if watching her kiss other guys will hurt. Don't do it, not worth it
Repentance that high for that specific screw-up is very commendable. It's incredibly rare nowadays.
The best way to show remorse for it is to not repeat it.
Even in how you are writing this I can see that you are not getting the point.
Stop asking him questions about why he likes or doesn't like you.
You know he is an asshole.
Next time he says something rude you say “yeah, you're still not funny.”
They key is to grey rock the shit out of him… give him zero attention other than reacting to his jibes.
Realky calm and loose: “Why are you being an asshole when you're drinking?”
There are a lot of better scripts here.
Why don't you create a few invites and don't include him.
“Why do you keep insulting me. Is this like high school, but instead of pulling a girl's hair you want to suck my cock? I'm flattered by the attention, but no thanks.”
Break up isn’t something he can accept or decline. Text him “I’m breaking up with you, have a nice life” and then block him.
You should get some therapy to work out why this should bother you in any way whatsoever, when you actually kissed people.
You already are the “other woman” and he is already cheating on his wife. Emotional affairs are every bit as damaging as purely physical affairs.
Neither of you have the moral high ground. If morality has any value for you, you'll shut him down immediately.
Has his wife told you to your face that they're separated but cohabitating until the divorce process is complete? If not, y'all cheating, and he's a lying liar who lies.
Ok, I sure hope you’re never in a funk inside if you’re demanding your partner never show it
I’m not being hosted by the person in question, I’m not sure she pays rent actually I would almost say she and I have equal tenant rights, except for the fact that I’m not blood related