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So true. Which makes me lean slightly to the side of not saying anything.
Omg lower ur standard a bit more lol ?
Break up and get therapy as well. Both will help you and her. It's ok bud
I understand the sentiment, but she really needs to learn to sleep on her own. It's literally crippling her, and it just isn't a sustainable thing.
Until then, maybe leave a voice message or video message that she can keep on her phone for when she needs the comfort and you aren't available, or leave her with an article of clothing or something personal of yours so she can at least feel that closeness when she needs it.
Really needs to tone down the extreme codependency though, that's not a healthy way to live.
So the absolute WILDEST FUCKING PART OF THIS is that you didn’t immediately word vomit about this in the car/on the way home?! You couldn’t pay me to not talk about it afterwards LOL
I am in a relationship with the best girl i could imagine, she never gave me a reason not to trust her and yet im still having these fears and doubts cause of this sub … I really need to quit reading it or I'll get Paranoid…
This answer right here. It's a process that will take time. She might not even learn it with you. Her parents may well have come from the same background and trying to do what their parents did for them.
Show a bit of empathy and understanding while firmly but respectfully setting boundaries.
Side note, I’d causation you on seeing him as a “good father” as that could blind you to some negative impacts his behavior can have. I say this because him telling you you’re overreacting when in truth he either doesn’t understand or doesn’t want to understand is a sign he lacks empathy on some level. And that almost always has some negative impact on children when raised by someone like that. Of course you want your kids to still have their father in their life, but I’d suggest maybe be more aware of your kids emotional safety and make sure that if he invalidates them, that they know he’s the problem for invalidating their feelings, rather than their feelings are the problem.
I feel like OP and her wife didn't think thoroughly of this situation. Yea, you can support your partner but the real issue here is that OPs wife is solely only relying on op. Partnership should be equal, this is either going to explode in their faces or maybe OPs wife will be successful. Idk, feels like a lot of resentment is going to be the backlash of this.
Yes, you’re a fool to talk to him.
So then why is she already asking how you’ll provide for her when you two break up? 100% she is motivated by the money and financial stability you provide her. The only way you can know for sure if she is with you for any other reason, is to cut her off financially and see how long she stays around. I’m guessing, she won’t.
I agree that this should be my focus now. I reached out to someone in that group I trust most, yesterday. I'm unsure what timelines and expenses are realistic and how much more it will ask of Jenny, whether she is an active participant or not.
Being alone is not a bad thing. You are not lesser because you’d be a single mother. The only potential this family you’ve created with him has is as an illusion to those around you. Your marriage is broken beyond repair, mainly because your husband has destroyed it and has refused to help you fix it. He will treat you how he pleases regardless of how you feel, and personally I couldn’t be with someone like that. Respect yourself and your children more.
Being alone is not a bad thing. You are not lesser because you’d be a single mother. The only potential this family you’ve created with him has is as an illusion to those around you. Your marriage is broken beyond repair, mainly because your husband has destroyed it and has refused to help you fix it. He will treat you how he pleases regardless of how you feel, and personally I couldn’t be with someone like that. Respect yourself and your children more.
Look, him and people around him have been calling me delusional for this decision.
I also think a relationship of 6 years shouldn't end from things that can be solved. Of course cheating is the break point but sometimes I believe maybe they're really really just friends? Or is he just testing the grounds? I'm really really confused
I feel like you went about this the wrong way. Sending her a think to lingerie when she doesn't and hasn't ever worn it and going 'pick something for our holiday.' is very, I DEMAND this. It feels passive aggressive and I'm not surprised she felt a little objectified.
TALKING to her and saying 'hey honey, this is our first trip away in ages and I'd like to make it extra special, would you be up for me buying you some lingerie and spicing things up a little? We can do something you've been wanting to do as well'
I think you would have gotten a different reponse.
Oh OP I’m so sorry you’re going through that. Your family isn’t worth the effort. Stay close with your boyfriends family instead. They will do so much more for you if you left them. Don’t tell your family when you go into labor, don’t invite them to celebrate, don’t do anything. Your parents will constantly pick your sister and you shouldn’t have to put up with that.
If you can look at the grandparent rights in your state/country if there is any. If there is contact a lawyer to have your parents grandparents rights removed so they can’t force you to bring your child around them.
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You already know the answer. It’s been a little over 3 weeks and you’re describing a relationship that would seem to have taken place over months or years. Leave and block him.