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Date: November 25, 2022
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Block him and move on
The first thing I'd say (which you won't want to hear), is that you shouldn't shit where you eat. In saying that, I'm fully aware that successful relationships have materialized from work. But the hard truth is that for every successful relationship that begins this way, the majority meeting the same way not only end, but end in drama, and that's the nicest way to put it.
Before I continue, I honestly assume you'll get some anecdotes similar to “I met my [partner] at work and we've been together for a [significant amount of] years.” But like anything else, they'll just be anecdotes. They won't be representative of a larger population. I digress.
Ignoring all that, your problem is your mindset. I'll give you advice on how to shoot your shot later, but I'm going to lay out everything else going on in the meantime. Ignore any thought of the “I'm married” past. It simply is and was never real. And I'll tell you that I personally “married” my kindergarten love. I say that not to be a jerk, but to tell you that I understand. It's just not real.
Now let's come back to real-time. What I said originally still holds true, just let's just assume we're going to ignore all that. Your issue here isn't specific to your co-worker; it's your fear of dating. To keep it simple, get to know her and let her get to know you. If your fear is staring at the cup, it's always going to be your fear. At some point you need to address it. Good luck.
You were both very young when you started dating. It's not abnormal that you've both just changed too much. Or maybe just her. But I don't think 'not loving someone anymore' is a superficial reason at all. Being in love is the most important reason to stay in a relationship. If that's gone, it's gone.
And it's not something that happens all at once, so probably she can't pinpoint an exact moment where it happened. It just started fading, slowly. And there's nothing you can do. It's sad, but it's true. If it's truly over for someone, there's nothing you can change to make it work.
Despite what the internet portrays pets should never be a “surpise” when the person is not able to look after a dog or is ready for another dog. Or as in your case has specifically stated that they do not want a dog.
I would take him somewhere to have a talk and ask him what exactly was his intentions towards getting a puppy? If it was that someone had one and he thought it would be a good idea for the other dog to have a friend, well that I can understand somewhat.
If he was genuinely thinking “ooh I can surprise her with a puppy, etc” and has ignored all your discussions about not wanting one then that is a whole other discussion about respect, listening to your partner and not making life changing decisions without both partners being in agreement, pets/children are on this list. Same as if you came to him and said surprise I came off bc and we have a baby now, if he needs an analogy that is.
I would be pointing out that a puppy needs training and people being at home and it is totally unfair to the puppy that neither of you is available for this and you do not have the spare funds to pay for vet bills, puppy sitting and all that. If that doesn't go in then point out that every time you look at this sweet puppy you feel disrespected and upset and is that fair on the pup, No? He/she deserves people that actively chose together to have, love and take care to the maximum and that isn't where you are at this point in time.
End it with him. You’ve created a rift by your own actions and shot yourself in the foot. You have the audacity to be offended and hurt by something I’m positive would’ve never been brought up by him. Get yourself the help you need with your insecurities, grow up in the process, and never do this again, and never contact this man again. Jesus Christ.
I love him with all my heart, but this situation confuses me.
There is nothing at all confusing about any of this. He is telling you who he is and what he wants, and it does not match up with what you want at all. More disturbingly he isn't approaching this like a discussion, where his position is “I'd like for you to be a stay at home mother and raise our kids” and yours is “I'd like to be a nurse and have no plans for children right now” and you try to work out a compromise to meet in the middle. No, he's just TELLING you that his preference is how things are going to be. You need to take him seriously and believe him before you “accidentally” end up pregnant and then the situation becomes “oh well no sense in finishing school now with a baby on the way.”
He is telling you point blank what he wants your life to be if you stay with him. It isn't what you want. He is not going to magically change his mind about any of this; at best if you break up with him he'll SAY “oh nevermind I didn't really want you to be a SAHM” but I guarantee you he won't stop planning for that. He is being very honest with you right now about what he expects out of your future together. Take it seriously.
It's me. I don't look. And other people don't either. You're just projecting. It's fine that YOU prefer to keep looking at other people, but don't just outright try and speak for every other human being on the planet.
its for the best. you'll be glad you didn't give him what he wanted. a lot of guys just “hit it and quit it”.
What in the hell?
I actually recoiled when I read your post and legit didn't think I could be more taken aback.
But…she actually thinks this is an okay scenario:
Her going on vacation with a man she barely knows that has confessed to be in love with her?
A-are you being real right now? She actually floated that idea to you?